Iimvakalelo zinokulawulwa! Lawula indawo yokomzimba yomntu ivumela ubukrelekrele bayo beemvakalelo. Ukuphuhliswa kokukrelekrele ngokweemvakalelo nako kuya kufuneka ukubandakanyeka kubo bonke ubomi, kunye nokukhula komntu, ukuphuculwa kobudlelwane neqabane, kunye nabahlobo, kunye nabathengi kunye nabathengi. Umgangatho wobomi bomntu ngamnye uxhomekeke kumgangatho wophuhliso lwayo.
Ukuphuhliswa kobukrelekrele bomntu bomntu kufuneka babandakanyeke kumzuzu wokuqonda. Sele esibelekweni, umntwana uziva imvelaphi yeemvakalelo ejikelezileyo. Kwaye ibekwe kwiziseko zengqondo yobukrelekrele.
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Isiseko esiphezulu esiphezulu sibekwe ebuntwaneni. Kubalulekile ukubonisa i-curress kunye nengqwalaselo yaBantwana. Phambi kwexesha lokufikisa kwabantwana kukho imfuno enkulu yokuqwalaselwa kwabazali. Ukuba ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo abujongi ngendlela epheleleyo, umntu ubonakala kunzima ngokusekwa kobudlelwane beemvakalelo eluntwini. Abantu abanjalo banokwenza uqhagamshelo olusesikweni kwizixa ezikhulu, ngelixa benemvakalelo engapheliyo. Le mvakalelo inxulunyaniswa nokuthintela i-chiep yemvakalelo. Ukuthintela kunokwenzeka kumanqanaba ohlukeneyo ophuculo, uninzi lwenzeka ebuntwaneni, kuba umntwana akakabi sesakhono sonxibelelwano ngokweemvakalelo.
Ukuba iimvakalelo zilawulwa kukuziphatha komntu, oku kubonisa ukuba umntu akakwazi ukuba ungadibana njani naye, kunye nengaphakathi 'i "kunye nehlabathi. Ngamaxesha athile, unokuwela ngokwakhe, okanye ekuhlanganiseni nabanye, ngelixa bengayiqondi iminqweno yabo yokwenyani kunye neemfuno. Lo nxibelelwano luyingozi, ke kubalulekile ukuthobela ibhalansi yeemvakalelo kunye neminqweno yakho, inikwe iimvakalelo kunye neemfuno zabantu ngeenxa zonke.
Ukuba uqaphela ukuba awujamelana neemvakalelo, siza kukucebisa amanyathelo amathathu okulinganisa imeko yakho yeemvakalelo. Iimvakalelo ziphazamisane nokujonga ngokugqibeleleyo emhlabeni. Kwaye ukuba ubanika ukuthanda, unokwenza izenzo ezininzi ezoneleyo, ezinokuzisola.
Inyathelo le-1. Xa iimvakalelo zikugubungela, thatha umphefumlo onzulu, uyeke kwaye uzibuze ukuba zeziphi iimvakalelo endiziva ngazo ngalo mzuzu. Xa ufika ekuqondeni i-palette yeemvakalelo zethu, ukuba uwedwa nawe, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ubhale imvakalelo kwincwadana. Ukuba ukwincoko, sixelele malunga neemvakalelo zakho. Yiyo loo nto, uya kudlulisa umjikelo opheleleyo wokuhlala kweemvakalelo kwaye ungazeki kwimo etshabalalisayo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuchaza ngale fom: "Ndingumyalezo." Umzekelo, xa uphela ngeyure yonke, ndinomsindo, ndiziva ndicaphukile kwaye ndilangazelela. Okokuqala, lo myalezo uza kuba luncedo kwaye uthathe inxaxheba kunxibelelwano, kuba uya kumvumela ukuba anikele ingqalelo kwizenzo zayo ezibangele ukuba idatha yakho yengqondo.
Inyathelo lesi-2. Thatha iimvakalelo zakho. Xa abanye abantu bekubiza ngokuba yi-negative, abakufundisayo okanye ngokuchasene ne-vili bafuna uqeqesho kuwe kwizifundo ezithile. Cinga ngento oyivayo. Zibuze umbuzo kwaye ujonge ngaphakathi kwimpendulo yakho.
3 inyathelo. Kucetyiswa ukuba kulandelwe umgangatho wakho wokuthuthuzelwa yintsebenziswano nehlabathi. Iimvakalelo zihlala zikhokelwa kwimpilo yakho. Zilandele ubomi bakho bonke kwaye ungazitshintshi, ungangcatshanga. Iimvakalelo zihlala zibonisa izigqibo ezifanelekileyo. Iimvakalelo zivakalisa ilizwi lomphefumlo wethu. Mamela iimvakalelo kwaye uzilungelelanise ngengqondo, uya kwandula ke ube ngokuhambelana nehlabathi.