Njengomthetho, ngaphambi kokuba inkangeleko yomntwana, olona vuyo lugxile kwixesha elizayo unina, malunga needrips ezincinci zihlala zilibala, kuba utata udlala indima enkulu ekubunjweni komsebenzi wehlabathi wobomi bakhe
Iintshaba ezininzi zithatha indima yomntu owesitya kusapho kwaye inyamalale kwicandelo lokujonga umntwana iminyaka emininzi. Ewe kunjalo, ukubonelelwa ngosapho kufuna amaxhoba abo, amadoda aphumelelayo aphumeleleyo, athi ukuba babenethuba lokutshintsha into kwixesha labo elidlulileyo, babeya kwabeli ixesha labo kubantwana bengakhange bacinge, ngubani ekugqibeleni nyuka ngaphandle kwengqwalaselo katata. Ukuba oku akwenzeki kuwe, kubalulekile ukukhumbula imithetho esisiseko yoTata omncinci, obalulekileyo ukulandela ubomi bonke.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo luthando lwakho
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba akukho zipho zixabiso eliphantsi ziya kukwazi ukutshintsha umntwana ixesha alichitha nawe. Iiyure ezininzi ngeveki ngokuqinisekileyo ayonelanga. Ewe kunjalo, ubomi bale mihla kusenza siphule phakathi kwelungiselelo losapho, ukukhulisa abantwana kunye nezilangazelelo zethu, nangona kunjalo, ukuba unokhetho phakathi kweveki kunye nohambo losapho, uyazi ukuba makenze ntoni.
Bonakalisa umdla onyanisekileyo ebomini bakhe
Ayimangalisi loo nto, abazali abaninzi bayavumelana nengxelo enokuthi kunye nomntwana wabo banokuphila kubuntwana besibini. Xa umntwana eba mdala nje, umdla wakhe unokuhlala ekho, umzekelo, ngokomculo. Yiya emthendelekweni, ikhonsathi nentombi yam okanye unyana wam. Nokuba awukabi sabelana ngothando lwelitye elinzima okanye ukunyamezela akunakuba kukhululekileyo kuwe indlela yokudanisa "I-K-POP", ngaphandle kokuba intombi yakho ingaphili kuyo kwaye izama ukuqonda ihlabathi eliphila kulo umntwana wakho .
Inzala yobomi bomntwana wakho
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Abantwana babalulekile ukuba uziva njani omnye komnye
Ungacingi ukuba umntwana uhlala kwihlabathi lakhe eliyinyani: Uziva mkhulu kwaye ubona indlela oziva ngayo ngomfazi wakho, usana umama. Akukho nto ilunge ngakumbi kwi-Pediatic Pedche Pedtorest kunothando lwabazali bakhe. Naziphi na iingxabano kunye nezikrelemnqa "kwi-Brick" ukuhloniphani kwakhe njengomntu okrelekrele kakhulu. Ukuba uhlala kwinkxwaleko engapheliyo, qalisa umfazi wam, ulungiselele i-riots kunye neengxaki, kwaye isizathu sokuziphatha akuyi kuba sisikolo kunye "nabahlobo bakho abatshabalalisi kunye nolwalamano lomtshato. Musa ukuvumela ukukhula kwentiyo kunye nokucaphukisa kumfazi wakho kwaye ngakumbi umntwana.
Ubalulekile kunye nomama
Uninzi lweentshaba zenza impazamo efanayo - ukholelwa ngokunyaniseka ukuba umama uyakwazi ukutshintsha ukuthatha inxaxheba ebomini bomntwana kuyo nayiphi na imeko. Ngelishwa, okanye ngethamsanqa, akunjalo. Utata ubalulekile ukuba aqalise ukukhathalela umntwana kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi bakhe, musa ukuvumela yonke into exhalabisayo inxibe umntwana wakho oqhelekileyo. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, hlala kuwo onke amabakala okhathalelo nemfundo. Owona mdla wokuzonwabisa uya kuba yinkohlakalo, ngokukhawuleza uyaqiniswa kwaye umntwana akasokuze abonakale kuwe ukuze athintele kwaye akhwaza i-vamp, ethintela ukulala.