Mufaro munhu ane munhu uye ane chinzvimbo chemuviri. Chii chinogona kukanganisa mukadzi? Iye chete iye! Unoda kuve munhu anofara - ivai. Mufaro ndiyo yedu yemukati sosi. Hazvibviri kudzidzisa chero munhu nechisimba. Ndiye munhu chaiye. Rangarira chirevo: "Chii chakanakira Russian, kuti rufu rweGerman"? Muitiro wangu, ini ndinowanzouya nekushomeka kwechimwe chinhu muhupenyu hwemutengi - hapana murume, vana, basa, basa ratinoshuvira kuzororo rimwe nerimwe, zvedu nehama. Ngatiedzei kufunga kuti hazvitipe kuti tifare:
Poshi. Kusaziva kwezvido zvako - "Tarisa uone - handizive kuti kupi, ndinounza chimwe chinhu - ini handizive kuti chii." Kana mukadzi iye amene asingazive zvaari kuda, mumwe munhu ane mukana mudiki we "fungidziro", mashandiro anoshanda haana kubatanidzwa mune rondedzero yemakwikwi emunhu.
2. Kusada / kusakwanisa kutora mutoro wehupenyu hwavo , pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, mufaro wako. Mukadzi akamirira iye achauya uye anoita mushandi wake (muchinda, murume, shamwari / vasikana, vabereki).
3. Stereotypical munharaunda tarisiro (Wese munhu anofanira kunge akaroora, iva nevana, iva mistress yakanaka, iva nehukama seTV shows, nezvimwewo).
ina. Kusaziva kwemanzwiro emunhu, kusakwanisa kuvaratidza, kuongorora kwepamoyo . Kana mukadzi asingaratidzi manzwiro ake, huwandu hwese hwekupindura kwepfungwa hwadzikira, uyezve mufaro hausi kusiyana nekusuwa, kutsamwa - kubva mukutsamwa, fara - kubva kunakidzwa.
shanu. Kushaikwa kwehurongwa hwekurongedza kuti uone iyo paramita yemufaro wavo wega Zvikasadaro, mukadzi haazonzwisisi kana achienda kwaari kana kwete, pamwe anofara kare? Ndini ani? Zvandinoda? Chii Chinangwa chiri kufamba? Unonzwisisa sei zvainge watozosvika? Chii chinoitika muhupenyu hwangu kana ini ... (ndichaita / kuita ...)? Izvo hazvizoitika kana ini.
6. Zvinotarisirwa zvinorema uye ngano (Hazvibviri kufadza kusvikira imba iri pamhenderekedzo, pasina basa, vasina vana, vasina murume, nezvimwewo).
7. Kushaya kufarira muhupenyu hwake ("Hapana chikonzero nei chandinoita, uye chirevo chitsva hachina kukosha," chirevo chakadai chinotungamira mukudzikira mumhando yezviratidzo zvekuita zvemanzwiro), uye kufarira kunofanira kuchengetwa pachako pamatanho akasiyana - "Chii inonakidza ini ndinoziva / neni ndichaitika nhasi?).
sere. Professional Kuitwa . Zviri nyore kuongorora kuti ichi chichava 75% yenguva yedu. Asi vazhinji vedu vanorerutsa chinhu chesarudzo chebasa rekushandira manzwiro omufaro wakazara uye hupenyu hunofadza! Uye ndirini pandakapedzisira kufunga nezve mufaro? Vanhu vazhinji vanogara mumamiriro akasarudzika eiyo anonzi "Autopilot", imba imwe - basa - imba, pachine zvitoro uye zuva nezuva matambudziko uye kurera vana. Uye kana vakanyura muhuwandu (nhamba - chokwadi - chokwadi chakasindimara uye chisinganzwisisike), zvinoenderana nemhedzisiro yekutsvaga kwehunyanzvi, makumi matatu muzana evanhu vanogutsa sarudzo yebasa uye chinzvimbo. Zvitarise, unopinda here idzi 70%?
Iyo Mechanism yakadzidzwa nemakemikari uye biologists uye yakasimbisa iyo hormon "mufaro" - Enderphin. Patinowana pfungwa dzakanaka, endPhphins kupinda muropa rebarisi, richikonzera kushungurudzika, kufara, kukunda ... Usanzwira tsitsi nguva yemukati kuvhara vanhu, nzanga, vanhu vanotanga Tarisa anonzi "kutsiva", kureva doro, kunwa doro, etc. Kune imwe sarudzo, yekudzvinyirira - iyo yekudzvinyirira - iyo yekudzora zvishoma nezvishoma kwemanzvimbo isina kunaka uye nekuvandudzwa kwavo kubva munzvimbo yekuziva mudunhu rekusaziva. Pakutanga kutarisa, hapana chinotyisa chiri kuitika, psyche psyche yemunhu organc uye tambo yemwoyo, asi tambo ichiregedza ... muviri ucharamba uchikundikana, zvakaita sebhomba renguva, humhandara hwokuenderera mberi kuverenga nguva , uye hapana anoziva chaizvo kuti "babak".
Chikonzero chekushaikwa kwekunzwa kwemufaro hachisi chiitiko chakakomba chekushushikana, asi "chakadhakwa" mukusangana kwemanzwiro, akashatiswa uye akaora mwoyo. Dzimwe nguva zvaunoda kutumira "kugehena" nehama, uye nevashandi, uye nevatengesi, uye vatengi ... Ini handina kumbozvibata pamanzwiro akadaro ?! Zvakare Nokutendeseka! Imwe yemabhero anokanganisa anonunura, kushaya simba, kufara, hapana zvishuwo, usafadze zvinhu nezviitiko zvakaunza mufaro nemanzwiro akanaka pakutanga. "Hapana chandinoda," "ndaneta (a)", kushungurudzika kwakawanda, kusagadzikana kwekurara, kana kurara uye kusava nemangwanani "mangwanani." Kana iwe wakabatanidza zvimwe zviratidzo zviviri, pane chikonzero chekufunga. Nditende, zvese zvinogadziriswa!