Uzwela yikhono lokuqonda nokwabelana ngemizwa nemizwa yomunye umuntu. Lokhu kubalulekile ekwakheni ubudlelwano obuhle bobabili emsebenzini nasempilweni yomuntu siqu. Abantu abangakhombisi zwalo babhekwa njengekhaza futhi be-egocentric, futhi bavame ukuziphatha impilo eyihlane. I-Social Social, njengoba wazi, awunalo uzwela, futhi kunalokho, umuntu ozwelayo ubonwa njengokuphendula nokunakekela. Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi uzwela luyazalwa ngokwengxenye, futhi okwesikhashana, okungukuthi, wonke umuntu angahlakulela leli khono ngokwawo. Nazi izindlela eziyisishiyagalombili zokuqinisa amandla okuzwela:
1. Zama. Dlulisa izivivinyo zempilo ezizokulethela ngaphandle kwendawo yokududuza. Hlola ikhono elisha, ngokwesibonelo, khanyisa insimbi yomculo, wenze umdlalo omusha noma uqale ufunde ulimi lwakwamanye amazwe. Athuthukise ikhono elisha lobuchwepheshe. Izixazululo ezinjalo azivumeli ukuvunyelwa, futhi zikwenze kucace ukuthi ungenza amaphutha - lesi yisici esibalulekile esifaka isandla ekuthuthukisweni kozwela.
Ukuhamba okuningi futhi ukhuphule abangane emhlabeni wonke.
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2. Phuma ku-medium ejwayelekile. Ukuhamba, ikakhulukazi ezindaweni ezintsha namasiko - ngakho-ke uzofunda ukwazisa abanye futhi ubekezelele. Funda ikhodi yamasiko yabantu ngamunye ezibonelweni eziphilayo noma ukutadisha ezincwadini - konke kuzosiza.
3. Thola impendulo. Buza umbono womndeni, abangane kanye nozakwabo mayelana namakhono akho wobudlelwano (ngokwesibonelo, ukulalela futhi unganikezi izeluleko ezingafundwanga), bese uzihlola ngezikhathi ezithile ukuze uthole okungcono.
4. Kholwa yinhliziyo, hhayi nje ikhanda. Funda izincwadi ebuhlotsheni nemizwa yomuntu siqu. Izifundo zikhombisa ukuthi lokhu kuthuthukisa uzwela kodokotela abasebasha. Lokhu kusho ukuthi leliqhinga lizokusebenzela. Ngemuva kokucebisa ukudla kwengqondo, uzoqiniseka ukuthi uthemba inhliziyo futhi unesidingo.
5. Shayela ezikhunjeni zomunye umuntu. Khuluma nabanye ngalokho okusho ukuthi ube sendaweni yabo - thola ngezinkinga nokukhathazeka kwabo, kanye nokuthi babona kanjani lokho okuhlangenwe nakho owabelana ngakho. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza le ndlela nezingane: ngakho-ke bazothola ukuthi bonke abantu banamathuba ahlukene omzimba, kepha yilowo nalowo kubo abalulekile futhi ebalulekile emphakathini. Emhlabeni wanamuhla, lapho osomabhizinisi nezinkanyezi babukelwa kakhulu khona, kubalulekile ukugcizelela ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukukhohlwa abanye - labo, ngokwesibonelo, abasebenza emkhakheni wezinsizakalo.
Ukuhamba okuningi futhi ukhuphule abangane emhlabeni wonke.
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6. Hlola ubandlululo lwakho. Sonke sinobandlululo olufihlekile olusivimba ekulaleleni abantu futhi bazwelane nabo ngaphandle kokulahlwa. Zivame ukuhlotshaniswa nezinto ezibonakalayo, njengeminyaka, ubuhlanga nobulili. Awucabangi yini ukuthi unobandlululo? Cabanga futhi - sonke kwesinye isikhathi sigqoka ijazi elimhlophe.
7. Dala umuzwa wamacala. Yini ongayifunda kumzamizazo omncane "ongenalwazi"? Yini ongayifunda eklayenti, obheka "Narcopy"? Abantu abanelukuluku futhi babuza imibuzo eminingi, bayazikhuthaza kangcono ukuqonda abantu ababazungezile.
8. Chaza imibuzo enengqondo. Ungabuzi ukuthi yini engaqondwa yindlela yokubuka. Letha ezintathu noma ezine ezicabangayo, nemibuzo evusa inkanuko engxoxweni ngayinye namakhasimende, osebenza nabo noma abantu abasondelene nabo. Uma wesaba ukucasula umuntu, thola ukuthi angacabangi yini ukuxoxa ngalesi sihloko. Njengoba sesithole impendulo engemihle, ungalokothi uhambisane nentando - ngokushesha waba isitha sakhe.