Njengomthetho, ngaphambi kokuvela kwengane, injabulo enkulu kakhulu igxile kumama wesikhathi esizayo, mayelana nama-dips amancane kakhulu kakhulu, ngoba uBaba udlala indima enkulu ekwakhekeni kokubuka kwengane okuqala kusukela ezinyangeni zokuqala ezinyangeni zokuqala ezinyangeni zokuqala ezinyangeni zokuqala ezinyangeni zokuqala kusukela ezinyangeni zokuqala ezinyangeni zokuqala ezinyangeni zokuqala. yempilo yakhe
Obaba abaningi bathatha indima yokwawo okuphela komnakekeli emndenini futhi anyamalale emkhakheni wokubuka kwengane iminyaka eminingi. Vele, ukuhlinzekelwa komndeni kudinga izisulu zazo, amadoda amaningi aphumelelayo azakhele omkhulu, athi uma bethola ithuba lokushintsha okuthile okwedlule kwabo, babezokwabelwa isikhathi esithe xaxa ezinganeni zabo ngaphandle kokucabanga, owagcina uRose ngaphandle kokunakwa koyise. Ukuthi lokhu akwenzeki kuwe, kubalulekile ukukhumbula imithetho eyisisekelo yobaba omncane, okubalulekile ukulandela impilo yonke.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu uthando lwakho
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi azikho izipho ezibizayo ezizokwazi ukufaka ingane isikhathi asichitha nawe. Amahora ambalwa ngesonto nakanjani akwanele. Kuyiqiniso, impilo yanamuhla iyasenza siphule phakathi kokuhlinzekwa komndeni, ukukhulisa izingane kanye nezintshisekelo zethu, noma kunjalo, uma unokukhetha phakathi kokuphinda usebenzise kabusha ngezimpelasonto kanye nomndeni wakho, uyazi ukuthi wenzeni.
Khombisa ukuthakazelela okuqotho empilweni yakhe
Akumangalisi, abazali abaningi bavumelana nesitatimende sokuthi kanye nengane yabo bangasinda ekubeni sesibili ebuntwaneni. Lapho ingane iba mincane, izintshisekelo zayo zingagxilwa kweyakho, ngokwesibonelo, ngokuya ngomculo. Iya emkhosini, nekhonsathi nendodakazi yami noma indodana. Noma ungabelani uthando lwedwala elisindayo noma ukubekezelela awunakuqondakala kuwe ukuqondiswa komdanso "K-POP", ngaphandle kwawo indodakazi yakho engenakuphila, ukugwema ukugxekwa okubukhali futhi okungenani uzame ukuqonda umhlaba lapho ingane yakho ihlala khona .
Inzalo yempilo yengane yakho
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Izingane zibalulekile ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngomunye nomunye
Ungacabangi ukuthi ingane ihlala eMhlabeni wakhe wezinganekwane: Uzizwa emkhulu futhi ebona indlela ozizwa ngayo ngowesifazane wakho, ingane kamama. Akukho lutho olungcono lwe-psyche yezingane kunothando olufanayo lwabazali bakhe. Noma yiziphi izingxabano kanye namahlazo "ezitini" zihlukanise inhlonipho yakhe ngawe njengomuntu onobuhlakani obudala. Uma uhlala ekuxineni okuqhubekayo, hlukana nomkami, ulungiselele izimbangi zentsha nezinkinga, futhi isizathu salokhu kuziphatha ngeke kube yisikole futhi "okungalungile" kwabangane, kodwa ukuziphatha kwakho okulimazayo kanye nobudlelwano bomshado. Ungavumeli ukukhula kwenzondo nokucasulwa kuye ngowesifazane wakho ikakhulukazi ingane.
Ubalulekile kanye nomama
Omama abaningi benza iphutha elifanayo - bakholelwa ngokweqiniso ukuthi umama uyakwazi ukufaka ukuhlanganyela kwakhe empilweni yengane kunoma yikuphi. Ngeshwa, noma ngenhlanhla, akunjalo. Ubaba ubalulekile ukuqala ukunakekela ingane ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila kwakhe, ungavumeli ingxenye yakho yesibili yenza konke ukukhathazeka okuhambisana nokunakekelwa nokukhuliswa kwengane yakho ejwayelekile. Uma kungenzeka, dlulise kuzo zonke izici zokunakekelwa kanye nemfundo eqhubekayo. Isithakazelo esithe xaxa ozoba yiso, ngokushesha uqiniswa futhi ingane ngeke ibonakale kuwe nge-curb futhi ikhala, elivimbela ukulala.