Kunzwira tsitsi kugona kunzwisisa uye kugovera manzwiro uye manzwiro emumwe munhu. Izvi zvakakosha pakuvaka hukama hwakanaka vese vari kubasa uye muhupenyu hwega. Vanhu vasingaratidze ruramisiro vanoonekwa seinotonhora uye eGogocentric, uye vanowanzoita hupenyu hwusiri hwga. Sociopaths, sezvaunoziva, usanzwire tsitsi, uye pane zvinopesana, munhu anonzwa anoonekwa sekutevera uye ane hanya. Chidzidzo ichi chinoratidza kuti kunzwira tsitsi kwakafanana, uye zvidimbu zvinowanikwa, ndiko kuti, munhu wese anogona kukudziridza hunyanzvi uhu mukati mavo. Heano nzira sere yekusimbisa kugona kunzwira tsitsi:
1. Zviedze iwe pachako. Pfuura bvunzo dzehupenyu dzinokuunza kunze kwenzvimbo yekunyaradza. Wongorora hunyanzvi hutsva, semuenzaniso, parinyima chiridzwa, ita mutambo mutsva kana kutanga kudzidza mumwe mutauro. Kukudziridza hunyanzvi hutsva hunyanzvi. Mhinduro dzakadaro hazvibvumirwi kubvumirana, uye zvijeke pachena kuti unogona kukanganisa - ichi chinhu chakakosha chinobatsira mukuvandudzwa kwekunzwira tsitsi.
Kufamba kwakawanda uye kusimudza shamwari pasi rese.
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2. Buda svikiro. Kufamba, kunyanya munzvimbo itsva uye tsika - saka iwe uchadzidza kukoshesa vamwe uye kuve vanoshivirira kwavari. Verenga iyo tsika yetsika yevanhu vega pane mienzaniso mienzaniso kana kuidzidza pamabhuku - zvese zvichabatsira.
3. Tora mhinduro. Bvunza mafungiro emhuri, shamwari nevatinoshanda navo nezvehukama hwako hwehukama (semuenzaniso, kuteerera uye kusapa nguva isina kuverengerwa kuti vazive kana iwe wakakurira kana iwe wakura kuti uwane zviri nani.
4. Tenda moyo, kwete iwo musoro chete. Verenga mabhuku ehukama uye manzwiro emunhu. Zvidzidzo zvakaratidza kuti izvi zvinovandudza kunzwira tsitsi kwevanyengeri vechidiki. Izvi zvinoreva kuti zano iri richakushandira iwe. Mushure mekupika chikafu chepfungwa, iwe uchave nechokwadi chekuvimba nemoyo uye zvinoda.
5. Dhiraivha mumatehwe emumwe munhu. Taura nevamwe nezve zvazvinoreva kuve munzvimbo yavo - tsvaga nezve matambudziko avo uye kunetseka, pamwe nekufunga kwavakaita chiitiko chawakagovana nayo. Zvinonyanya kukosha kuti uite nzira iyi nevana: Saka ivo vanozoona kuti vanhu vese vane mikana yakasiyana yemuviri, asi mumwe nemumwe wavo akakosha uye akakosha munharaunda. Munyika yemazuva ano, uko vaine bhizinesi uye nyeredzi dzakatariswa kwazvo, zvakakosha kuti usimbise kuti hazvibviri kukanganwa nezvevamwe - avo, semuenzaniso, vanoshanda muzvikamu basa.
Kufamba kwakawanda uye kusimudza shamwari pasi rese.
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6. Wongorora rusaruro rwako. Isu tese takavanza rusaruro dzinotitadzisa kuteerera vanhu uye tinonzwira tsitsi navo pasina kupiwa mhosva. Ivo vanowanzobatanidzwa nezvinhu zvinooneka, senge zera, mujaho uye murume. Iwe haufungi kuti une rusaruro here? Funga zvakare - Isu tese dzimwe nguva vanopfeka jasi jena.
7. Gadzira pfungwa yemhosva. Chii chaungadzidze kubva kune yechidiki kwazvo "vasina ruzivo" waunoshanda naye? Chii chaungadzidze kubva kumutengi, uyo anofunga "narcopy"? Vanoda kuzivawo vanhu vanobvunza mibvunzo yakawanda, kukurudzira ivo vari nani kunzwisisa vanhu vakavakomberedza.
8. Taura mibvunzo ine musoro. Usabvunze nezve izvo zvinogona kunzwisiswa nenzira yekutarisa. Huyai vatatu kana mana emafungiro, kunyange mibvunzo yekutsvagira kune imwe neimwe hurukuro nevatengi, vaunoshanda navo kana vepedyo vanhu. Kana iwe uchitya kugumbura munhu, tsvaga kana iye asina hanya nekukurukura nyaya iyi. Sezvo anga agamuchira mhinduro isiriyo, usamboenda kunopesana nechido - pakarepo ave muvengi wake.