I-psyche yethu ilungiselelwe ngendlela yokuba kuyo nayiphi na into engalunganga sibukhali ngakumbi kunokuba nethemba. Kulula kuthi ukuba sikhumbule ngokweenkcukacha indlela umntu awonileyo ngayo kunokuba avelise i-truce yovuyo kwinkumbulo.
Olu lukhetho lwam lwam.
Inyani yile yokuba zonke iimvakalelo zakhe kunye nokuphendula umntu ukhetha. Kwaye ayinamsebenzi, sithetha ngeemvakalelo ngexesha lokungqubana okanye ngelixa ufunda incwadi ephefumlayo. Ngendlela efanayo, ilele ebhedini emva kosuku lokusebenza, sinokukhetha: Ukugxininisa entlokweni yengcinga ngommelwane okhohlakeleyo okanye kwabasemagunyeni, ababekhona namhlanje kwizinto ezintle zoMoya. Kwaye ngokuqonda ukuba ngokukhetha indlela asabela ngayo, uyinkosikazi epheleleyo yobomi bakho, iya kuqala ukuzithemba.
Eyona mvakalelo ichanekileyo
Kukho iimeko ezenzeka ngokungathi zodwa ngokwazo. Ngaphandle kongenelelo oluthile, iimeko zezona ndlela. Kula maxesha esiqala ukuphinda sithande ithamsanqa okanye sithathe ithamsanqa ukuze siqonde kwaye silibale ngokukhawuleza malunga nesiso esingasiyo. Nangona kungumbulelo olona mvakalelo lulinganayo xa umhlaba uncuma kuthi. Siphulukana nawaphi na amatyala amahle kwaye singabi nalokuba nombulelo kubo - Le yindlela ethe ngqo kwinto yokuba kungekudala uya kuyeka ukuba uzithobe.
Iimvakalelo kunye nokuphendula umntu ukhetha yena
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Ngokwakhe uMlawuli
Ukongeza kwinyani yokuba sizichaza indlela abasabela ngayo, sinokufikelela ngendlela efanayo ngokuzimeleyo ukumisela amacala afanelekileyo kunye namacala amabi kuyo nayiphi na imeko. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umqobo unokugqalwa njenge-brake kwimicimbi, kodwa njengethuba lokuphuhlisa, njengemizamo yokufumana ubuchule ukusombulula iingxaki ngeendlela ezingenamsebenzi. Xa ucinga ngokuqinileyo kulomeleza ngokuqinileyo umnqweno wokutsala ubuninzi obuqinisekileyo, buba ngakumbi ebomini ngakumbi.
Eyona nto iphambili kukuqhela
Ukuba imvakalelo yombulelo kubomi bemihla ngemihla iba ngumkhwa, umnqweno wokufumana izizathu ezininzi kangangoko ukwazisa le mvakalelo ilungileyo. Ewe kunjalo, kuqala kuya kuba nzima ukuqonda ukuba yintoni na ukubulela. Kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, uya kuqalisa ukufuna into entle kuzo zonke iimeko ebomini, kwaye iimeko ezimbi ziya kuthatha ingqalelo encinci. Apha, ngokuchasene nazo zonke izicwangciso zexesha elidlulileyo, uya kuzalwa ngaphandle komntu ofanelekileyo.
Ukuzola, ukuthoba kuphela
Makhe sinyaniseke: Uninzi lweengxaki aziyi kuba ebomini ukuba besingabizi. Iingxaki ezincinci zasekhaya zinokusiphazamisa ukuze siqale ukucinga ngazo. Kuya kuba lula ukunganikezeli kwiimvakalelo ezimbi kwaye ngokukhawuleza ufumane isisombululo kuyo nayiphi na ingxaki "." Ukuzola umntu umntu afumane amandla okubulela ngayo yonke into elungileyo, ayinakuphinda iphinde iphinde iphinde yenzeke nanye imvakalelo.