Chaka chikatha, ndipo izi zatsala pang'ono kubwera zatsopano, ambiri amayesa kufotokozera mwachidule. Koma kutali ndi aliyense ndikwabwino. Pali ambiri a ife omwe tili ndi chiyembekezo chosakwanira chomwe chimalepheretsa mapulani atsopano. Monga lamulo, zimachitika chifukwa chakuti milandu ina yopanda pake idatsalira, kunalibe mafunso m'moyo wamunthu, sizingatheke kuti zikhazikitse ubale ndi wokondedwa wina kapena kusamvana kwakukulu kwa abale. Zonsezi zimatsogolera pakuti kukhumudwa kwakuthwa nthawi zambiri kumachitika ndipo malingaliro osakwanira amakula.
Katswiri wazamaphunziro, katswiri pakusintha kosasunthika mu moyo waumoyo wa FOMYA FOmina akupereka upangiri wa momwe angamalize chaka chopita ndikuyamba chatsopano.
"Kulephera kopsinjika kumadzetsa kuti munthu sangathe kuyamba gawo latsopano la moyo wake, amatuluka m'manja mwake, lidzathana ndi mavuto omwe angayambitse mkwiyo komanso kudzituma yekha ndi ena, "akutero olesya fuminy. - Zimakhala zozungulira mozungulira, zomwe palibe kutuluka. Kumva kuti alibe nthawi yomaliza zinthu zofunika kwambiri m'moyo wake, kumatitsogolera pakuti pali kukhumudwa kale, zomwe zimawononga moyo wake wonse ndipo palibe mphamvu yochita chilichonse. "
Zachidziwikire, kumverera koteroko sikuthandizira kuti chaka chotuluka chatuluke, ndipo njira zingapo ziyenera kutengedwa kuti zitheke ndikumaliza chaka.
"Choyamba, ndikofunikira kuzindikira zomwe mabasi amakuthandizani, - limalangiza olesya. - Nthawi zambiri amakhala kuti alibe nthawi yochita zomwe adafotokozedwazo, kunyamula za chilichonse kamodzi, mantha kenako tikukumana nazo kuti sanachite zomwe adakonzekera. Lembani milandu yomwe muli nayo yofunika kwambiri, ndikusankha masiku ndi nthawi yomwe mungawachite. Osangofuna kuyesera kuchita zonse m'masiku awiri, kugwera padenga ndikugwira ntchito mozungulira koloko. Chifukwa chake mudzangowonjezeranso. "
Ndi dongosolo lomveka bwino pamapeto a milandu, momwe mabwinja adzasonyezedwa, malinga ndi katswiri wazamisala, imakulangani ndipo nthawi yomweyo ingakupatseni chidaliro pa maluso anu, adzapulumutsa ku HighTra ndi nkhawa. Konzekerani momwemonso zochitika zatchuthi, gwiritsani ntchito patsogolo ndikugula zonse zomwe mukufuna chaka chatsopano.
Kuti mutsirize chaka chotulukacho, malinga ndi katswiri wazamisala, ndikofunikira kutsindika kuti mwakwanitsa kuchita, osati kuti simunakhale ndi nthawi ndipo simunakhale ndi nthawi.
"Musangoganizira kuti simungathe kupeza ndalama zambiri, sizinakwaniritse mnzakeyo zoyenera, sizinapititse patsogolo masitepe. M'malo mwake, kumbukirani zomwe mwachita, ngakhale zazing'ono kwambiri pazomwe mwakwaniritsa komanso kuchita bwino. Musaiwale kudzitamandira, chifukwa mulimonse m'chaka chotuluka chomwe ndidachita, ndipo ndibwino, "limalimbikitsa olesya Fiominy.
Malangizo ena a katswiri wazamisala - perekani zozizwitsa. "M'chaka chotuluka, yesani kugwirizanitsa malingaliro anu onse kuti mumalize zachilendo, - amalimbikitsa olesya Fiominy. - N'chifukwa chiyani chimakhala chinthu chomwecho chaka chilichonse? Sonkhanitsani zinthu zosafunikira kunyumba kwanu, ndipo iwo anapeza kwambiri thumba kapena iwo amene akufunika zinthu izi. Chifukwa chake simuchita zabwino chabe, komanso mumadzimasulira nokha ku zosafunikira. Nthawi zambiri, zinthu zimakhala bwino kwambiri komanso kutseka malo a nyumbayo, kotero kuti sizingatheke. Dzimasuleni nokha, lolani mnyumba yanu padzakhala malo omasuka, ndipo osati katundu kale aliyense amene sakukwanira. "
Upangiri wina wochokera kwa Oledy FOMominy: "Tengani kulimba mtima ndikupita kokayenda yekha kwa malo osadziwika. Dziwani zomwe mungakwanitse, khalani ndi mphamvu zambiri kuchokera paulendo. Nthawi yomweyo, pemphani mphamvu ndikudziwana ndi anthu atsopano omwe amatha kuphunzira okha. Zabwinonso, ngati mwakonzedwa ku project projekiti yanu - kuti mudziwe zomwe mukufuna mu chaka chatsopano ndikuzindikira kuti, mutha kudziwa zambiri, mutha kupirira zambiri. "