Sisitemu yo mu matungo y'abagore ni uburyo buto bugengwa n'ingaruka zikaze kuruta igitsina gabo. Hamwe no kuza kwumwana, ubuzima bwa nyina ukiri muto burahinduka cyane, kandi umutwaro wo kwiyongera inshuro nyinshi. Imiterere idashimishije cyane irashobora kuba kwigaragaza kwa mwana. Nigute "Reboot" kandi wirinde ibitekerezo bibi? Twagerageje kubimenya.
Nyemerera kwicuza wenyine
Bikunze kubaho ko ku nshuti, abavandimwe na bagenzi bacu, duhora dufite umwanya: twiteguye gutanga inama cyangwa, nkicyicaro cya nyuma, icyuma cyumve. Ariko, iyo bidusanze, icyifuzo cyo kugirira impuhwe ubwacyo kibura ahantu runaka. Niba usobanukiwe ko umwana arira atera uburakari nubugome, ntukatekereze, ariko gerageza kwemera ko ibintu bimwe na bimwe mumiterere yawe idakunda. Mbere ya byose, sobanukirwa ko hysteries zabana zizarangira vuba cyangwa nyuma, cyane rwose ntacyo bivuze ku mwana.
Shakisha umwanya wenyine
Birumvikana ko ubuzima bwumuryango nyuma yo kuvuka bwumwana butangiye kuzenguruka uruhinja, kandi ababyeyi bombi ni ngombwa kubona umwanya kuri bo no hagati yabo. Imanza zabo ntiziza kwishura, no gufunga inkuta enye, ntabwo bikwiye neza, cyane cyane iyo uteganya gusubira ku kazi kuva iteka. Iyo usobanukiwe cyane kandi uzarenza, ntutegereze kuri iki gihe - hamagara umuryango wawe cyangwa umukunzi wawe ugasaba kugusimbuza byibuze amasaha menshi. Uzamuke kure kugirango uruhuke umwuka mwiza cyangwa ukore guhaha. Wige kuva muburyo bubi.
Shakisha uburyo bwo kuzuza ingufu
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Gutungana ntibigerwaho
Buri mubyeyi arashaka kuba mwiza kumwana we. Ariko icyarimwe, icyifuzo cyo gutangaje gisaba ibikenewe kugirango dusubizwe, kubwibyo, kandi umwana yumva impagarara kandi atangira kwiyanganya, agaragaza ko ataka kurira. Akenshi, ikibazo nk'iki kirashobora kubahirizwa ahantu rusange igihe Mama yakururaga abana bavuza induru mu bucuruzi, basakuza basubiza bati: "Hagarika gucika!" Nibyo, umwana nuruhare rwa Mama ntabwo buri gihe bihuriragirana nishusho washushanyije mbere yuko umukunzi agaragara.
Shakisha isoko yingufu
Gutakaza imbaraga, turakara cyane. Ariko birakenewe kuzuza imbaraga zazimiye, aho twakura amafaranga? Birashoboka ko waba ufite ibyo ukunda mbere yo gutwita? Cyangwa wowe n'umugabo wawe wahisemo ibyabaye inshuro nyinshi mu kwezi? Ubona gute ukomeje gukora ibyo bigutera amarangamutima meza. Birumvikana, hamwe no kuza k'umwana umwana bitazabaho byinshi, ariko urashobora guhora ubona amahirwe yo kumara igihe nkuko ubishaka. Kubona ubufasha no gushyigikira ababo, ntuzigera uba mama uzakoresha ibibi ku muntu kavukire ku mwana we.