Nk'uko bimeze ku itegeko, mbere yumwana, umunezero mwinshi wibanda kuri nyina uzaza, kubyerekeye ibirori bikiri bato bitwa cyane, kuko Data akina cyane, kuko Data akagira uruhare runini mugushinga isi yose kuva amezi yambere y'ubuzima bwe
Abapadiri benshi bafata uruhare rwumugati wenyine mumuryango kandi babura mumurima uko bameze imyaka myinshi. Birumvikana ko gutanga umuryango bisaba abahohotewe, abantu benshi batsinze bubatse cyane, bavuga ko niba baragize amahirwe yo guhindura ibintu byahise, bari guha abana babo umwanya batatekereje, amaherezo Roza nta kwitabwaho. Ko ibyo ntibikubaho, ni ngombwa kwibuka amategeko y'ibanze kuri papa ukiri muto, ari ngombwa gukurikiza ubuzima bwose.
Icy'ingenzi ni urukundo rwawe
Ni ngombwa kwibuka ko nta mpano zihenze zizashobora gusimbuza umwana igihe yakoresheje. Amasaha menshi mucyumweru rwose ntabwo bihagije. Nibyo, ubuzima bwa kijyambere butuma tuvunika hagati yitangwa ryumuryango, kurera abana n'inyungu zacu bwite, niba ufite amahitamo hagati yo gutunganya muri wikendi hamwe numuryango hamwe numuryango wawe, uzi icyo gukora.
Erekana inyungu zivuye ku mutima mubuzima bwe
Ntibitangaje kubona, ababyeyi benshi bemeranya n'amagambo ko hamwe n'umwana wabo bashobora kurokoka ubwana bwa kabiri. Iyo umwana abaye gato, inyungu ze zirashobora guhumurizwa nuwawe, kurugero, mubijyanye numuziki. Jya mu munsi mukuru, igitaramo n'umukobwa wanjye cyangwa umuhungu wanjye. Nubwo waba udasangiye urukundo rwurutare ruremereye cyangwa kwihanganira ntushobora kutumvikana Icyerekezo cyo kubyina "K-Pop", Utariyo umukobwa wawe kandi byibuze agerageza kumva isi umwana wawe abaho .
Gushishikariza ubuzima bw'umwana wawe
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Abana ni ngombwa uko ubyumva
Ntutekereze ko umwana aba mu isi ye y'impimbano: yumva akomeye kandi abona uko ubyumva ku mugore wawe, umwana wawe. Ntakintu cyiza kuri psdiatic psyche ya pediatic kuruta gukunda ababyeyi be. Amakimbirane yose nudukoni "kumatafari" asenya icyubahiro cye nkumuntu wubwenge. Niba utuye mu mpagarara zihoraho, humura ku mugore wanjye, witegure ku mvururu n'ibibazo by'ingimbi, kandi impamvu y'iyi myitwarire itari iyi shuri na "imyitwarire idahwitse hamwe n'imibanire yawe yo gusenya. Ntukemere ko gukura kwanga no kurakara umugore wawe na cyane cyane umwana.
Ufite akamaro nka mama
Abapapa benshi bakora ikosa rimwe - bizera bivuye ku mutima ko mama ashoboye gusimbura uruhare rwe mu buzima bw'umwana mu gihe icyo ari cyo cyose. Kubwamahirwe, cyangwa kubwamahirwe, ntabwo. Data ni ngombwa gutangira kwita ku mwana mu mezi ya mbere y'ubuzima bwe, ntukemere ko igice cyawe cya kabiri gikore impungenge zose zijyanye no kwitaho umwana wawe usanzwe. Niba bishoboka, wiyegure mubice byose byo kwitonde no gukomeza amashuri. Uko uzaba inyungu, byihuse ukomera kandi umwana ntazigera akubona kuri curb no gutaka ibibyimba, bikubanze gusinzira.