Isu takajaira kuti rudo runomuka pachako uye hatidi kuita chero kuedza kuchengetedza uku. Uye zvakadaro, dzimwe nguva isu hatifarire muukama. Chii chaizvo chaifanira kuda rudo rwechokwadi, chinounza mufaro uye kugutsikana?
Rudo rwunonzwira tsitsi uye, mukuwedzera, iyi ndiyo huru yekuisa psyche yedu. Kubva pane kusakwanisa kuzviwana, tiri kusangana nematambudziko makuru. Ungadzidza Nezvekuda?
Sehanho yekutanga, inodikanwa kuti ibatanidze nekunzwa uku iwe pachako. Izvi ndizvo chaizvo zvekutanga kuitira kuti ude mumwe munhu. Zvikasadaro, ichave "kusimbisa" kutarisisa muhukama, chishuwo chisina kujairika chekugamuchira. Kumirira kubva kune mumwe wake zvaasina kuzvipa iye.
Maitiro Ekuita izvi zvechokwadi, kwete kutenderera mu narcissism uye egocentrism? Chekutanga pane zvese, kuti uve netsitsi. Kazhinji, mutongi akanyanya kujairika ari mukati medu, uye ichi chikamu chinonaka chinogara ichishora, zvichienzaniswa, zvinorehwa nemidziyo. Kana ini ndisingazvipe rumbidzo uye nekuremekedza, ndichavamirira kubva kune vamwe, kana ndikasazvipa zvipo, nguva, zviwanikwa, ndinowana mhosva kune nyika, vadikanwi vandisingadaro vatore. Pane nzira yerudo, zvakakosha kuti uone "madhiri" aenzara "uye ovadyisa. Nekudaro, mumwe nemumwe wedu anokwanisa kuve ane hutano simba rekuchinjana mune vaviri, anoziva nzira yekuzvipa zvakanaka pasina inoda yekudzikisira kana kuburitsa rudo rwemumwe munhu.
Iyo yechipiri yekutanga pfungwa mukukwanisa kufara muhukama ndiko kugamuchirwa kwerudo kwete chete senzvimbo dzemanzwiro, asiwo nzvimbo yekuita. Rudo ishoko, uye rinoreva nzvimbo yekuita. Apo euphoria yerudo sechitanho chekutanga yehukama, iyo nhanho, iyo inotapira yekutora rudo nekuda kwechikara cheManzwiro uye chinoitika kana chinoitika kana kupisa kwacho kuchitsiviwa neyakawedzera, yakadzika uye yakadzika nyika yeiyo compound. Panguva ino, zviito zvakakosha zvine chekuita nemumwe. Zviito, vabatsiri vanonakidza uye vanonzwisisika, avo "mutauro wake" murefu. Isu tese tiri kuverenga zvakasiyana nezvakaitwa nerudo nezve munhu wako. Kune mumwe munhu, zvinonyanya kukosha kuti uone majee ekunetseka, kune mumwe munhu - inzwa mazwi ekutsigirwa, kune mumwe munhu akakosha kushandisa nguva pamwechete uye ave mune yakanyanya kufadza. Kazhinji, tinoreva kuti kuratidza rudo kumurume wacho kuita chinhu chimwe chandaizoda kuona maererano newe. Semuenzaniso, chenjera, uye shamwari yacho zvakakosha kuti unzwe mazwi ekuyemura uye rutsigiro. Isu tinopa zvipo, uye mumwe wacho anonzwa achida zvaakafarira zvaakagoverana naye.
Kukosha kunotevera kuona "mwaka" dzakasiyana-siyana erudo. MuPSYCHOLOLOGY, shanduko yemwaka ndeimwe yeiyo yakakosha kukura madimikira. Saka, sezvatinoyemura shanduko yemwaka, tinogona kuyemura matanho akasiyana siyana ehukama. Rarama zvakajeka "zvinodziya" nguva uye usatye uye kusatora "kutonhora". "Nguva yechando" yehukama, sechikamu chekutenderera, sezvo nguva yechando uye dambudziko - inogara yakanaka mukana wekuzvarwa kwemanzwiro etsva, kusimudzira kwechirimo mune vaviri vaviri. Kunyangwe kugamuchirwa kwenguva yakadaro, mvumo yekuwanirwa zvakanyanya nendima yacho. Uye, pane kudaro, kumirira ngura isingaperi yemanzwiro uye pendi, iwo mufananidzo wekunyepedzera unoderedza mikana yekubuda mu "nguva yechando" muzvidzidzo zvitsva.
Imwe pfungwa yakakosha uye ibwe munzira inoenda kune kugona kuda kurwadza iko kurwadziswa kwerutivi rwemberi. Kana tikavhara isu kubva pakurwadziwa, tidzivirire, isu hatizive kurarama, tendeuka kuva dambudziko rakakura rehupenyu, ipapo tinovavhara kubva parudo, kuva neplastiki. Kana iwe wakataura kurwadziwa nemwoyo wose "Usambofa wakazvivhara kubva parudo. Kuti ugone kurarama marwadzo, usazvitora mumamiriro edambudziko uye mutambo weDrama - hunyanzvi hwemweya wemukadzi. Izvi zvinoita kuti zviitike kuti utore hupenyu hwakakura uye hwakasiyana, kuratidzwa kwevanhu hakupatsanure zvakaipa nezvakanaka, dema nechena uye nehuwandu uye hwakawanda uye hwakawanda uye hwaro uye hunowanda "Hongu, ndakagadzirira kuda, uye ndoziva kuti zvinogona kunge zviripo, asi ini ndinosarudza kuve mupenyu uye ndinzwe, pane kuviga kubva pane zvese uye nekubata." Uku kuratidzwa kwakakosha.
Uye pakupedzisira, imwezve yakakosha kiyi yerudo rudo ndeyekuona kuratidzwa kwavo mukuratidzwa kwemumwe wako. Ukama igirazi rakatendeseka rakavimbika. Zvirimo mariri zvekuti tinoona pfungwa dzadzo dzekukura. Aya ndiwo maitiro edu mweya. Pfungwa huru yekutsamwisa mumudiwa wedu nguva dzose chokwadi chekuti ini handina kutora mukati mangu. Uyu mukana wekuona yako yekukura nzvimbo, shanduko.
Rudo runochinja mafomu uye zvivakwa, zvichirasikirwa zvisina mwero uye kugamuchirwa, uye vanhu vanosarudza nzira yekuvandudzwa kwekugona kwavo kuda, kuwana stock inoshamisa yerunako uye kuravira kwehupenyu.