Uvame ukuzwa ukuthi abantu bagqoka imaski. Futhi imvamisa kuhlotshaniswa nobuzenzisi. Kepha kusho ukuthini umqondo wemaski? Futhi kungani wehluke ezimweni ezihlukile zokuphila - ingabe kungokwezenzisi?
Isibonelo, ungaba umfazi webhizinisi elinzima "ngamaqanda" emsebenzini. Futhi ngomama wethenda - nezingane. I-Coquette edlalayo - ngosuku, ehlukaniswe i-hooligan - ephathini ye-bachelorette. Futhi ngasikhathi sinye, uchwepheshe obucayi emsebenzini wakhe.
Ezimweni ezihlukile, uhlukile? Yebo!
Futhi ngenkathi uqotho? Futhi yebo!
UCardinal ushintsha ekuziphatheni komuntu, kuya ngesimo, wayehlala ebonakala engokwemvelo kimi. Futhi lapho ngithola imfundo yengqondo, ngakwazi ukuthola impendulo yesayensi kanye nokuqinisekiswa kwephuzu lami lokubuka kusuka kudokotela wezengqondo uRobert Assaji. Uqale wabhala ukuthi i- "I" yethu iye yafakwa kakhulu futhi iqukethe izingxenye ezahlukahlukene (izindima, ama-sublippes). Lezi zindima zibonakala ezimpilweni zethu ngokuya ngesimo esithile futhi esimweni sethu sengqondo kulesi simo.
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Indima ngayinye inohlobo lwayo lokuziphatha, okungokwemvelo kakhulu ngale ndima.
Futhi into ethakazelisa kakhulu ukuthi asidingi ukwenza noma yimuphi umzamo wokushintsha indlela oziphatha ngayo - ihlela ngokuzenzakalelayo neqhaza esingena kulo.
Le yi-Lifehak eyinhloko. Uma udinga ukushintsha indlela yokuziphatha - iya ngeqhaza elifanele.
Uqhubeka ngosuku - zitshele: "NgiyiNdlovukazi!".
Endimeni yeNdlovukazi, uzozigcina usesikhathini ngokuzethemba, ngokuzethemba futhi kufanele, wabeka amadoda aphezulu aphezulu wobudlelwano nawe.
Uma udinga usizo lomuntu - kungcono ukumbuza ngokungena endimeni yentombazane encane.
Ngamunye wethu ukhumbula umuzwa wale ndima kusukela ebuntwaneni, ngakho-ke ngeke ube nzima isikhathi sokuzizwa njengentombazane encane engenakusiza, ukonga isicelo sami kumuntu. Esicelweni esinjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuthi uhlale unganakwa.
Kuyadingeka ukwenza ngaphambi komphakathi - umzuzu umisiwe futhi uzizwa njengoba inkanyezi izizwa ngaphambi komphakathi. Cabanga nje ukuthi izilaleli ziyibhethri lakho ekunika amandla. Uma uphumelela, noma msuku, faka iqhaza lenkanyezi, lapho-ke lapho ukhuluma, ngokuqinisekile uzohlala ngokuqiniseka nangokuqiniseka.
Ungasebenzisa ngokunembe okuhlukahlukene
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Kuyasiza futhi ukuphatha izindima zakho lapho udinga ukuqeda isimo esingesihle esibonakalayo noma ususe indima kulesi simo kulesi simo.
Isibonelo, beza ekhaya bavela emsebenzini, kungaba kuhle ukushintsha masinyane indima yentokazi yentokazi yendima kamama. Kulokhu, kuyasiza ukushintshela endimeni kaMama umnyango wami wokungena. Ngimbheka futhi ngizitshele ukuthi ngingawela umkhawulo, kuphela ngokushintsha "isudi." Njengokungathi indlu yami iyikhodi eqinile yokugqoka, futhi uma ngingaguquli indima yami, ngeke ngivunyelwe. Ngakho-ke ngishiya umnyango ngaphandle komnyango engize ngafika kuwo, washintsha umama. Isimo sami sishintsha ngokushesha, futhi kuphela emva kwalokho ngiya endlini.
Lo msebenzi omncane usiza ngokuphelele ukungalethi izinkinga zomsebenzi endlini futhi ufake ngempela isikhathi nomndeni.
Kuyavela ukuthi, ngaphandle kokusola, sonke singabalingisi kule mpilo.
Manje njengoba niyazi ngakho, nakanjani kufanelekile ukusebenzisa izinto zakho zokusebenza. Imayelana nabesifazane abanjalo ukuthi "imfumbe" ithi, ngoba zihlala zihlukile. Ukungena okwaziyo ezindizeni ezihlukene kwenza ubudlelwano namadoda kube lula kakhulu futhi kugqamile, futhi kusiza ngokuphelele ukushintsha futhi njalo ukwazi "lapha nalapha."