Kuna iya jin sau da yawa cewa mutane suna sa muks. Kuma yawanci yana da alaƙa da munafurci. Amma menene ra'ayin abin rufe fuska? Kuma me yasa ya bambanta a cikin yanayi daban-daban na rayuwa - munafurrai ne?
Misali, zaku iya zama mace mai wahala "tare da ƙwai" a wurin aiki. Kuma tare da mama mai taushi - tare da yara. Aure mai wasan kwaikwayo - a ranar, watsa abubuwan da aka watsa - a kan bikin bachelorette. Kuma a lokaci guda, babban sana'a a cikin sana'arsa.
A lokuta daban-daban, kun ne daban? Ee!
Kuma yayin da kuke da gaskiya? Hakanan Ee!
Canjin Cardinal a cikin halayen mutane, gwargwadon halin da ake ciki, koyaushe yana da alaƙa da ni. Kuma lokacin da na samu ilimin ilimin halin dan Adam, na sami damar neman amsar kimiyya da kuma tabbatar da ra'ayina daga mai ilimin halayyar dan adam Robert Assaji. Ya fara rubuta cewa "Ni" yana da yawa da yawa kuma ya ƙunshi nau'ikan sassa daban-daban (matsayin, ƙaddamarwa). Wadannan ayyuka suna juya juyi a rayuwarmu dangane da takamaiman yanayin kuma daga halayenmu ga wannan yanayin.
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Kowane rawar da ke da nau'in halayen halayensa, mafi yawan halitta ga wannan rawar.
Kuma abu mafi ban sha'awa shine cewa ba mu buƙatar yin wani ƙoƙari don canza halayenku - yana daidaita da aikin da muka shiga.
Wannan shine babban rayuwar rayuwa. Idan kana buƙatar canza halayyar - a hankali shiga cikin rawar da ya dace.
Kuna tafiya a ranar - gaya wa kanku: "Ni ne sarauniya!".
A cikin rawar Sarauniya, zaku kiyaye kanku a wani kwanan wata ne, a hankali da cancanta, saboda haka ya saita mahimman dangantaka tare da ku.
Idan kuna buƙatar taimakon mutum - ya fi kyau ku tambaye ta ta hanyar shigar da ƙaramar yarinya.
Kowannenmu yana tunawa da jin wannan rawar tun yana yara, don haka ba za ku yi wuya a lokacin da yarinya mai taimako ba, ta kunna buƙatata ga mutum. Don irin wannan buƙatun, abu ne mai wuya a nuna rashin son kai.
Wajibi ne a yi kafin jama'a - lokacin an tsaya da jin kamar yadda tauraron yake ji a gaban jama'a. Ka yi tunanin cewa masu sauraro shine batirinka wanda yake baka karfi. Idan kun yi nasara, kodayake a ɗan lokaci, shigar da rawar da tauraro, sa'ad da yake magana, zaku iya kasancewa da tabbaci da tabbaci da tabbaci.
Kuna iya amfani da tunaninku
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Hakanan yana da amfani sosai don sarrafa matsayin ku lokacin da kuke buƙatar kawar da yanayin rashin jin daɗin rayuwa ko cire rawar a wannan yanayin.
Misali, dawowa gida daga aiki, zai yi kyau a canza aikin kocin mace don rawar da Inna. A wannan yanayin, yana taimaka wa canzawa zuwa rawar mamayata ƙofar. Na dube ta kuma in faɗi kaina cewa zan iya ƙetare ƙofar, ta hanyar canza "kwat da wando." Kamar gidana shine madaidaicin madaidaicin sutura, kuma idan ban canza aikina ba, ba za a yarda ba. Don haka na bar ƙofar a bayan ƙofar da na zo, ka sau da mahaifiyata. Yanayina nan da nan ya canza, kuma bayan haka bayan haka sai na je gidan.
Wannan ƙaramar motsa jiki yana taimakawa kada ku kawo matsalolin aiki a cikin gidan kuma lalle kusan kusan tare da iyali.
Sai dai itace cewa, ba tare da zargin haka ba, dukkanmu mu ne 'yan wasan a wannan rayuwar.
Yanzu da kuka sani game da shi, tabbas yana da daraja sosai a sani da abin da kuka kasance muku. Game da irin waɗannan matan da ke "tatsuniya" ce, saboda suna da bambanci. Shigowar mai hankali cikin matakan daban daban suna sanya dangantaka da maza da yawa, kuma kuma yana taimakawa wajen canzawa kuma koyaushe. "