Xa into yobomi iwela into, into yokuqala enokwenziwa ukuba ibaluleke ngokwabo kukuvuma ukuba ubomi butshintshile. Kwaye akukhathaleki ukuba wenzekalise ukuba kungenjalo ukuba awukwazi ukubuyisela okuthile okanye uzame ukungaziqapheli, kwaye emva koko iya kuze ize ize izenzeke, "yonke into yenzekile. Sele yenzeka ebomini bakho.
Rhoqo, emva koko, ingqumbo kunye nokuthuka zizenzele, ehlabathini, kubantu ababangqongileyo, kwiimeko. Kuba ukuba bekungekho-yonke into iyakulunga. Esi sisiqhelo, uphendula ngokwendalo, kodwa umgibe uxhomekeke kuyo. Akukho sini sinetyala, kukho ubomi obukhoyo apho kwenzeka khona into eyenzekayo. Kwaye ukuze uhambe ngayo, kufuneka uye kukhangela ukuba ubize ukhangelo lwezisombululo-ukuba kanye ngoku, kwezi meko unokukwenza ukuphucula imeko.
Apha uza kulinda umgibe wokutsala olandelayo - kubonakala ngathi ukuba uzama ukuphucula imeko, kukho ithuba lokuba yonke into iza kubuya kwaye ifane. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uqonde: nayiphi na into oyenzayo, nokuba uzama kangakanani - njengoko ngaphambili akuyi kubakho. Kwaye oko akuthethi konke oko kuya kuba mbi. Iya kuba ngenye indlela eyahlukileyo. Kwaye amathuba okuphezulu, ukuba le inye ekugqibeleni uyakonwabela nangakumbi.
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Xa ekugqibeleni ukhululekile ngengcinga yokuba utshintsho alunakuphepheka,-ungaba lusizi kakhulu. Uninzi luphantsi olu mvakalelo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngexesha lethu lendlela ecinga kakuhle, ayimkelwa. Kufuneka wonwabe kwaye uyavuya. Rhoqo. Kwaye abaninzi balandele lo mthetho. Ngelishwa. Ngenxa yokuba lusizi, usizi luthetha ngokuchanekileyo ezo mvakalelo ezisinceda ukuba siyeke amaphupha angazalisekiyo, amathemba, avuthayo kwaye athobele ezonketho zekamva, ezinokuthi zenzeke kwiimeko. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukwakha ikamva lakho elitsha-kufuneka kuqala uthethe kwakudala.
Kwaye emva koko kunokwenzeka ukuba utshintsho luvele. Ithuba lokwakhiwa kwindawo ekhutshelweyo lubomi obungaphezulu obo ude luphuthele, kodwa wonke umntu akazange athathele isigqibo sokuqala. Okokugqibela, hlalani ngokwakho, iinqobo zenu, ezabo-hayi umntu obekiwe-iimfuno.
Kwangelo xesha, yonke le nto ayilula. Ngexesha lentlekele, ihlabathi eliqhelekileyo liyawa, kubonakala ngathi akwanelanga ukuthembela koku, kwaye imithombo yangaphakathi ihlala ilahlekile. Ingxaki ingumntu othi nyhani kuwo onke amathemba kunye neminqweno, zonke izicwangciso kunye neenjongo. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, kukuwa okuncedayo ukususa into ekufundileyo, ukuze ube nethuba lekamva elinemincili nelinenjongo.