"Angizange ngiqale ukuhlala empilweni yezocansi kudala kangaka futhi yedwa nensizwa engingaqinisekile. Nginamahloni ngami neyakhe. Ngenxa yalokhu, size sinciphise thina ngezigcawu. Kungenzeka yini ukukunqoba ngandlela thile? " UVictoria, oneminyaka engama-20.
Sawubona Victoria! Ukungena embhedeni kuyinkinga evamile, hhayi kubulili obungenalwazi lwabantu abasha namantombazane. Intwasahlobo ebudlelwaneni kakhulu ihlobene neqiniso lokuthi ezweni lethu alwamukelwe ngocansi, ngisho yedwa, ngoba lesi sihloko sithathwa njengezithiyo. Kepha akunakwenzeka ukuba ube namahloni ngokungapheli, futhi asikho isidingo. Qala ngomlingani ukuze utadishe omunye komunye, jwayela. Isibonelo, nikeza okuthandayo ukugeza ndawonye. Ungakhohlwa ngokuzifundela - qonda imizimba yakho, vusa izindawo ezi-erogenous. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi awunalo ulwazi kanye "namasu" ocansi, vakashela izitimela ezikhethekile lapho uzofundiswa khona ngamaqhinga wobudlelwano obuseduze.
Qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma nomlingani ophathelene nocansi, mayelana naluphi uthando ngawena ngamunye kini olumnandi kakhulu, wabelana ngemicabango yakho yocansi. Uma wesaba ukuthi owesilisa kungenzeka angazichazi ngokuphelele iziphakamiso zakho, ukubala zinciphe kakhulu, zinikeze umbono ohlanganyelwe wefilimu exakile. Kuzokususa nawe "umthwalo wemfanelo" wokuhlola okuhlongozwayo futhi kuzosiza ukulingana nemibono.
Ngesikhathi sothando uthando, zama ukuphumula bese ucisha yonke imicabango yakwamanye amazwe, gxila emizweni yakho. Vele, ukunqoba ukwesaba kwakho ngesikhathi esisodwa ngeke kusebenze, ngakho-ke zama ukusebenzisa umzuzu ngenzuzo ngokwakho. I-Streking ingaba yisikhuthazo esihle kakhulu sobulili. Lapho uvumela ngokwengeziwe ukuthi uzithole ihlazo ngezenzo zakho, okungcono! Ngemuva kwakho konke, kuzoqinisa injabulo yakho futhi kwenze imizwa nemizwelo.
I-Ekaterina Lubimova, ehola umqeqeshi wezocansi waseRussia