"Sindinayambe kukhala moyo wogonana kale komanso ndekha ndili ndi bambo wachichepere yemwe ndimamva wosatsimikiza. Ndimanyazi ndekha ndi wake. Chifukwa cha izi, timadzichepetsa. Kodi ndizotheka kuthana nazo? " Victoria, wazaka 20.
Wokondedwa Victoria! Kugonja pabedi ndi vuto wamba, osati kokha mwa kugonana kochepa kwa achinyamata ndi atsikana. Kasupe muubwenzi amagwirizana kwambiri ndi chakuti m'dziko lathu sichimavomerezedwa zokhudzana ndi kugonana, ngakhale kokha, popeza mutuwu umawonedwa kukhala wopanda pake. Koma ndizosatheka kukhala wamanyazi kwathunthu, ndipo palibe chifukwa. Yambani ndi mnzanu kuti muphunzirene wina ndi mnzake, izolowera. Mwachitsanzo, perekani zomwe mumakonda kusamba limodzi. Musaiwale za kudzifufuza - kumvetsetsa thupi lanu, dzukani ma egenosous. Ngati mukumva kuti mukusowa chidziwitso komanso "maluso" okhudza kugonana, amayendera masitima apadera omwe mudzaphunzitsidwa ndi misampha yaubwenzi wapamtima.
Onetsetsani kuti mwalankhula ndi wokondedwa wanu zokhudzana ndi kugonana, pazomwe aliyense wa inu ndi osangalatsa kwambiri, gawani malingaliro anu ogonana. Ngati mukuopa kuti mwamunayo sangatanthauzire malingaliro anu, kuwerengetsa chidwi kwambiri, mumupatse chidwi cha filimu yolakwika. Idzakuchotserani "udindo" pazoyesa zomwe akufuna kuti mukwaniritse malingaliro.
Pa chikondi chachikondi, yesani kupumula ndikuzimitsa malingaliro onse achilendo, yang'anani momwe mukumvera. Zachidziwikire, kuthana ndi moyo wanu mu mphindi imodzi sikugwira ntchito, choncho yesani kugwiritsa ntchito nthawiyo ndi phindu lanu. Kugwedezeka kumatha kukhala kosangalatsa kwambiri kuti mugone. Mukamalola kuti mukhale ndi manyazi chifukwa cha zomwe mumachita, zili bwino kwambiri! Kupatula apo, imalimbikitsa chisangalalo chanu ndikupangitsa kuti zimvekere komanso kumva.
Ekaterina Lybebuva, Wotsogolera Ku Russia Kugonana