Ukuze ndizithembe namhlanje kuye kwaba yimfuneko yentokazi yebhinqa lanamhlanje. Ngaphandle koko, uya kuthi ngonaphakade ngaphandle kwabangaphandle. Yintoni omele uyenze - ubomi bobomi. Ukubonisa iimpawu zokulwa kwivenkile, ikhowudi ozama ukuthengisa iimpahla ezisemgangathweni, kumlo ochasene neenkonzo zikamasipala ezingasebenzi kwincoko nomphathi, uzama ukwanda.
Lixesha lokulahla ukuthandabuza kunye nobunzima. Uya kukufundisa indlela yokuqiniseka ngayo kwimizuzwana.
Ingcebiso # 1. Lungisa
Abantu abazithembayo abahambi nentloko phantsi. Ukuba uhamba nomqolo othe nkqo, uphakamisa intloko yakho, emva koko iya kukunceda.
Gcina umva wakho
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Fumana eludongeni, uchukumise umphezulu wabantu, iifosholo, amagxa, iiqhosha kunye namaqanda. Khumbula isikhundla, kwaye ngoku thatha inyathelo lokuya phambili, ukugcina ukuma. Yiya.
Ukuzilolonga kakuhle ngenxa yesihlunu se-purches-plik. Yigcine isiqalo kangangoko unakho, ixesha lokwanda kancinci. Kwaye omnye umthambo osetyenziswayo, osetyenziswa kumayeza kunye nokusebenza kwezemidlalo: ukulala esiswini, kutsala izandla zakho emzimbeni, kwaye ngoku, ngaphandle kokuthatha iinyawo kunye namagxa, umqolo wam. Phinda ka-10.
Ngale moto elula, awuyi kuyilungisa i-tudge, kodwa ke yomeleza izihlunu zebhulorho kwaye ubuyisele ithoni yesifuba. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngenxa yokufutshane, izihlunu zesifuba zinqunyulwa, "ukufihla" kunye nokugungqa okuhle.
Ingcebiso # 2. Ukuphumla ayisiyonto entle
Mhlawumbi ngokuzithemba okufuneka nje ukunciphisa isantya ebomini? Wonke umntu unokwenza kwaye aphendule akunakwenzeka. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, inani elikhulu lomsebenzi ngexesha elifutshane alinakwenziwa kakuhle. Ngokwakhe imisebenzi entsokothileyo nexineneyo, uziqhuba kwikona. Oku kukhokelela kuxinzelelo olungaphezulu.
Lungisa amandla kunye nomthwalo
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Thatha phantsi. Ukutshintsha kuphela ukuphumla kwaye umsebenzi unokufezekiswa ziziphumo eziziintloko, okuthetha ukuba ukuzola kunye nokuzithemba.
Ingcebiso # 3. Ukusuka kuncumo kuya kuba konke ukukhanya
Indoda ingenelela kwiingxaki zakhe azisoze zincumile. Sijamelana nabo, simbathele ngokwakho, akukho sithemba apha. Ngenxa yoko, ungathenga udumo oluvaliweyo, olubuthathaka nobuntu obuthathaka. Uncumo, nokuba ulusizi.
Ubosoloko uncuma
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Ukufunda oku nje, uyakufuna isipili kuphela. Yima malunga nokuvala amehlo akho. Ngoku sutous kwaye ufumanise, ujonge ukucingisisa kwakho- ke uya kubona uncumo lwakho lokwenyani, olunyanisekileyo, yisebenzise.
Inombolo yenqaku 4. Gcina ujonge
Umdlalo kwi "Gloves" ngumthambo olungileyo kakhulu. Qeqesha abanye abahamba nabo, abathengisi kwiivenkile, oogxa. Ngubani owasuse amehlo kuqala, olo Walker. Abantu abazithembayo bayalungisa ngokuzolileyo nabo ngenye indlela.
Sukucinga okokuqala
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Oku kuya kukunceda woyisa iintloni. Ngapha koko, uya kuqonda ukuba uhlala phakathi kwabantu abangakhuselekanga. Uninzi lusondeleyo lwenza lenze loyike kwaye lukhangele ingxaki: "Kukho into engalunganga kum?"
Inombolo yezixhobo 5. Ungacingi, kodwa yenza
Sukuzithandabuza, kungenjalo ukungaqiniseki kwakho kuya kuziva macala onke kwaye ukholelwe kuyo. Kuyakuthintela ukuba ungafumani. Asicingi, kodwa sisebenza. Indoda emnandi ivele epati, kwaye awumazi? Ke le nto-hamba uye kuthetha kuqala. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu enokwenzeka kuwe, uya kubaleka, kuba uyigwala enkulu neyentlalontle kunawe. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba uza kuphendula onobuhlobo noncumo.
Sukuzama ukuhlalutya imeko engekasebenzi. Ayinamsebenzi. Ude uzame, awuyi kusingazi iziphumo, kodwa ngaphandle kwakhe, awunasizathu sokuthandabuza amandla akho, kulungile, ngaphandle kwento yokuqala "yethu.