Ubomi asiloholidelusapho kuphela kunye nezicwangciso zamabhongo, kodwa zisebomini, bantwana, umsebenzi, ukusilela, abantu abanetyhefu.
Le yeyona nto siyithandayo kwaye, sifuna okanye hayi, kodwa kufuneka sinxibelelane, sithathe kwaye singabi namandla amnandi kuphela.
"I-com" engabonakaliyo, equka i-voltage, imvakalelo yokudandatheka, ukungabinamsebenzi, ukungabizi, ukuqokelelwa, ukufikelela e-Apogee. Ngenxa yoko, imbambano yangaphakathi ikhula ibe yeyokuqhushumba yangaphandle.
Ingxabano sisisongelo sokuchuma kwalo naluphi na ubudlelwane kunye nosapho ngokukodwa. Isakhono sokugcina ubukho benyani kwaye ukhethe kwimo yonxibelelwano oluchanekileyo lonxibelelwano sisitshixo sokulondolozwa kobudlelwane. Indlela yokuphuma kwimbambano enesifo esincinci sokwenza ubumnandi kunye nokulimala yingcali kunye nomsebenzi oqinileyo. Ukuba kukho imfuneko, unokuhlala uqhagamshelana nengcali. Nakuphi na ukungaqondani, ukungavisisani kufuneka kuconjululwe kwincoko, ukugcina imida, kuthetha ngqo.
Kwaye ukuba amaqabane akhetha ukutyeshela isikhundla kunye nokuthula.
UMYALEZO: "Ndiva kuphela", "ndizibeka ngaphandle kwesibini" asizenzi imeko entle yokususa impikiswano yangaphandle kunye noxinzelelo lwangaphakathi kunye nezixhobo.
Kwangelo xesha, elinye iqabane likhokelela kwinto enye - ukuba singanikezeli "i-slack". Ubudlelwane buguqukela kwi-bridgead yomzabalazo wamandla apho kungenakwenzeka ukubonisa ukuba semngciphekweni kwaye wenze imvumelwano.
UMaria veratax-volkaya, ugqirha wengqondo yengqondo yengqondo.
Ikhokelela phi? Sele uqonde.
Ukungavisisani kwisibini akunakuphepheka. Ngamnye unenkqubo yayo yexabiso, iinkolelo, iimpawu zomntu. I-Medium Medium, iMilinganiselo yezeNtlalontle, imeko yabazali kunye ne-ency yendlela yokulimala kwengqondo, amava aqokelelweyo athumela impatho kuvavanyo lwento eyenzekayo nokukhetha isigqibo.
Yintoni ebalulekileyo?
Kwisibini sabantu abaphilayo ngengqondo kufuneka babe lithuba elipheleleyo kungekuphela nje ekuthetheni, kodwa nabeviwe, bangadaki kwaye balahliwe. Ke, akuyi kubakho miqobo kunye nezithintelo zangaphakathi zokwenza incoko eyakhayo. Ukuthula akuyi kujika kube sentuthumbo yengqondo.
Iqabane elithengisiweyo Ukusuka kolunye "udonga" lokuthula okubonakalayo, zihlala zingakwazi ukusombulula umbuzo ophambili- "Ngaba kukulungele ukuba yinxalenye yesibini?" Kwaye kule nto icaphukisayo nangakumbi.
Unyanzelekile ukuba agcine umgama. Yothuka kwaye idala isoyikiso. Isidingo esisisiseko sokhuseleko, uloyiko lokungaziwa kunye nokungaqiniseki kwengqondo "yoxinzelelo" kunye nokukhupha imeko yengqondo yeqabane, kuzisa eyona nto ibalulekileyo kwi-neurosis.
Isikhundla: "Andikho nawe, kodwa ngokungafaniyo" akukuvumeli ukuba uzive enyanisweni, ukuze uphile kwaye ube lixesha langoku. Iimvakalelo ze-vacuum, ezizaliswa kukukrokrela, uloyiko kunye nemibuzo ayinikeli iqabane ngokufanelekileyo kwaye liyihlole ngokufanelekileyo imeko yalo kwaye liyenzeka ngokufanelekileyo.
Endaweni yokuthetha ukuba oku kukho enye yeendlela zobugcisa bezengqondo-ukugaya. Injongo yakhe kukunyanzela omnye umntu ukuba athandabuze ukwanela kokuzibone kwakhe okwehlabathi, ngoko ke ngokwalo. Iziphumo ziyaqondakala ... zilusizi.
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ukuthula akunakuhlala ngonaphakade. Kungekudala, emva koko, ukuthula kuvunyelwe "kukuvuthuza" komsindo wobulungisa-indlela yokuphendula kweyona ndawo ibikukhubekisayo kunye nezityholo zeqonga.
Ngoba?
Ngapha koko, kukuzama 'ukubetha eludongeni "lokuthula nangayiphi na indleko. Yaphula phantsi kwentonga yakhe, imenze ukuba aphendule - nokuba impendulo ayithandeki.
Ke, iindima zidlala imeko yazo: Ixhoba lithatha imigaqo yomdlalo omiselwe ngumthompe. Ubudlelwane buguqukela 'kwibala le-lattle "apho abantu sele bekwicala elahlukileyo kwizithintelo.
Umanyano apho uthetha khona, kwaye i-ignite yesibini (ayimameli) iyaphela ukuze ikhule! Le yindlela enye indlela.
Rhoqo, iqabane elivulekileyo elivulekileyo alizimeli "ukuhombisa" kwaye, "lidiniwe," liphelile, "liphelisa idabi.
Asiyi kukhupha ngokupheleleyo ukhetho oluza kucinga omnye, luya kufunda ukuvula, yenza ukungathobeki. Kwiimeko ezininzi, oku akwenzeki. Ibali liya kuphinda liphindwe njengelitye elingendawo "kulwalamano olulandelayo. Ukuba uhlala ethathe isigqibo sokuba bangumbuzo omkhulu.