Kusenokwenzeka ukuba akukho mfazi unjalo, onokuthi ngokuzithemba ukuba akanakukwazi ukusilela, ngendlela yakhe. Siphila kwixesha labafazi ngekhava xa sijonga iphephancwadi lethu ngeenwele ezigqibeleleyo kunye nolusu. Ngokwemvelo, imvakalelo engathandekiyo ivela emphefumlweni: "Kutheni le nto ndiphosakele?" Kukho ingozi kule, kuba abafazi abaninzi baqala utshintsho olukhulu ngembonakalo, bezama ukubuyisela ukuzithemba, kodwa enyanisweni basibi kakhulu.
Umxholo wobuhle uhlala usoloko usiya, ngoko sisidenge nje ukuba singasasebenzi, kwaye ngenxa yoko kufanelekile ukunikela ingqalelo kwiingenelo zakho kwaye kugxininiswa kwimali mboleko. Siza kukuxelela ukuba manyathelo mani kubalulekile ukuba athathe inxaxheba kwi-ivalo kwishawa kwaye ufumane ulwaneliseko malunga nokucingisisa esipilini.
Hlawula ngakumbi
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Yekani ukuzigxeka
Vuma, okungenani kube kanye ebomini obujonga kwinto leyo kwaye wathetha ngokwethu: Uqhelekile? Ukuthumelela. Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile kukugqiba ukuba zeziphi izibonelelo zakho. Ixesha elingaphezulu, uya kuqaphela ngakumbi kwaye ulungile ngakumbi kuwe.
Sijonga ukubonakaliswa kwakho esipilini, kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuqonda ukuba ungayilungisanga into ongayi kuyilungisa. Khumbula, akukho nto kwinani, elingenakukwazi ukuzama ukutshintsha ngokuzimeleyo, isiseko sokuqala ngokutshaja ekuseni kwaye sizame ukukuphepha ukutya okukhawulezayo. Kwaye ewe, akukho gwenxa kwidilesi yakho.
Sukulingana nenye
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Hlawula ngakumbi
Uninzi lwethu lwalusenziwa ngokuqonda ukuba bekusoloko kukho usapho kwasekuqaleni, sebenzeni-konke konke, kodwa kungenjalo ngokwethu.
Nangona kunjalo, akufuneki udideke uthando ngokwakho nge-egosm. Uthando ngokwakhe lubonakalisiwe xa usikhathalela umzimba wakhe, ukucamagushela okuncinci kunye nokufumana iimvakalelo ezithandekayo ezingenazixeko ezinkulu.
Zama ukubukela inkangeleko yakho kuphela, kodwa kwiingcinga zakho - musa ukuvumela owona mbi kwaye nangakumbi azenzi iingcinga ezimbi ngamasanda aselusisigxina, kuba yonke into ocinga ukuba ibonakaliswa kwinkangeleko yakho.
ukuzikhethela ezivenkileni
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Zithande
Eyona nto iphambili yokuhlela ngokwakho ayikokuzibekela ngaphezu kwabanye, kodwa vumela iimpawu, nokuba kungabikho nto, ngaphakathi okanye ngaphandle, oneqhayiya.
Kuya kufuneka uzihlole ngokwakho, kuphela kule meko unokuziqhelanisa nento ocinga ukuba iya kucothisa kwindlela eya kolonwabo. Zenzele ntsasazi ntsasa nganye, ke uzibeke iingcinga ngendlela efunwayo. Kwaye ngokuhlwa, bavula ivenkile ukuba bathenge i-cream efanayo, ukuthengwa kwayo ubuhlehlise amaxesha amahle. Hlala apha kwaye ngoku.