Ngala magama, kwafakwa elinye lamakhasimende lapho kwafakwa khona. Indaba yakhe ilula. Bebehlala ndawonye iminyaka eminingana bendawonye, yena futhi uyasebenza, bavumele ukuzilibazisa nokuzijabulisa okunesizotha ephaketheni lakhe, basuse ifulethi, bahlele ukwenza izingane.
Futhi-ke, akekho ocebile. Futhi ukuqinisekisa ekuqondeni kwayo - ukuletha iholo lasekhaya, ezinye zazo abazihumushele efulethini, zikhokhele izidingo zansuku zonke, njll.
Futhi manje waphelelwa ngumsebenzi futhi efuna entsha, ezama ukunqoba ukuphelelwa yithemba nomuzwa wokungabi nalutho.
Usenyanyweni: yini okufanele ubelethile futhi aqukethe izingane? Ngabe ulinda kangakanani kuze kube yilapho isimo sizinza, ngeke sisukume sibuyele ezinhlelweni zazo futhi? Ngemuva kwakho konke, zombili zivele zikude kakhulu ezingama-30 ...
Ngenxa yezindaba zakhe, saletha izinkolelo eziningana ukuthi akazange aphumule:
1) Amadoda - phansi abuthakathaka, akunakwenzeka ukwethemba. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngenhloso yakhe noma kuye, ngeke bathembeke.
2) Kuko konke, kuyadingeka ukubala kuphela kuwe futhi futhi.
3) Futhi ekujuleni komphefumlo, umehlwe kakhulu umyeni wakhe, ukuthi wamshiya yedwa nobunzima bangempela. Ukuqonda ukuthi lokhu kungenzeka kuwo wonke umuntu, futhi azikho iziqinisekiso, ekujuleni komphefumlo, zaziphatha njengomuntu ophelelwe yisikhathi kulesi simo.
Hhayi, isihloko sikude nomusha emhlabeni wethu. Isimo sezomnotho siyashintsha, ukusinda sekuphinde kube ngomunye wemisebenzi ebaluleke kakhulu.
Kulula kakhulu ukungena ohlangothini lomuntu othile kulesi simo. Isibonelo, zwelana nowesifazane ukuthi uwukuphela kokuqina nokusekelwa komndeni manje. Kungenzeka, kunalokho, enzele umyeni wakhe. Kwenzeka kuwo wonke umuntu? Abantu balahlekelwa umsebenzi - lokhu akuwona ukuphela komhlaba. Ungagcina, futhi ungabi ukwethuka ngalokhu. Owesifazane wayengabekezeleli, khona-ke umyeni wakhe angalulama ngokushesha ekushaqekile futhi athole omunye umsebenzi.
Konke lokhu kunjalo. Kepha iphuzu akufanele linqume ukuthi ngubani olungile, futhi ubani okufanele asolwe.
Umyalo omkhulu womeluleki ezindabeni ezinjalo akufanele uthathe umdwebo ohlangothini, uma kungenjalo usizo alunakwenzeka.
Isimo senziwa yizinhlangothi zonke zengxabano noma inhlekelele.
By the way, psychology yomndeni waphenya ngesimo esinjalo somndeni njengesiyaluyalu, ngakolunye uhlangothi, nobulukhuni, okungukuqina kwemithetho emisiwe - ngakolunye.
Isibonelo, ecaleni elichaziwe, singasho ukuthi umndeni wanele. Abalingani babamba izindima zabo ezijwayelekile nemingcele yokusebenza, bebheka ngokwenzeka njengengozi ezweni eliphilayo. Bobabili bambozwe yiwayini, umuzwa wokungakwazi ukusiza, ukwethuka.
Imindeni lapho izindima zisatshalaliswa khona ngokuqinile, noma yiluphi ushintsho lulingana nenhlekelele. Uma umyeni engumlingani, futhi unkosikazi usepulazini. Ayikwazi ukwakha kabusha uhlelo olunzima olunjalo. Noma ngobunzima obusobala, izifo kanye nezinkinga zezomnotho, bazobambelela ezindimeni ezijwayelekile ngazo zonke izindleko. Inhloso yalokhu kubanjwa ukuphepha kobudlelwano, abazibheka njengabo bathembekile futhi baphephile.
Emindenini yeziphithiphithi, isimo sehlukile. Bangase babhekise esimweni esichazwe ngenhla, njengovivinyo, i-adventure. Isibonelo, singasebenzisa ukulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi wokukhula kwamakhono, ukwenziwa kwezifiso zowesifazane, njll. Njengoba imindeni enezici zesiphithiphithi ayijwayele ukuhlela noma yini futhi kunzima ukuyilungisa kalula.
Kodwa-ke, emindenini enjalo, izivivinyo ezihlala njalo zenza umuzwa wengozi nokuhlukahluka ngokweqile. Hhayi zonke izigaba zokuphila komndeni, izinketho ezinjalo zifanelekile. Isibonelo, emndenini lapho izingane ezincane zikhula khona, ezinye izinto ezisizayo, amasiko, imikhuba iyadingeka. Izingane zifunda ukubona izwe ngendlela ethile: "Ubaba ejabule, edla isidlo sakusihlwa futhi uletha imali," "Umama udlala nathi, uyakhathalela, uyathukuthela, wenzeka, uyathukuthela. Isikhathi esithe xaxa nathi, ngenkathi ubaba esebenza. " Lapho usuku nosuku konke kuguquka kwasemini, izingane zikhula ngomuzwa wokuthi ayikho inhlabathi eqinile ngaphansi kwezinyawo zazo. LOKHO OKUSHIWO YAMANDLA AKUSHINTSHA, akudingekile ukuhlela noma yini futhi ugcine noma yimaphi amafreyimu angenamqondo. Lokhu kuthinta ukuzivumelanisa nezimo zabo emhlabeni wezenhlalo, lapho uhlaka nemingcele isekhona khona.
Futhi inketho efanele, njengenjwayelo, ayikho kwelinye lamaphoyisa, kodwa phakathi. Imindeni enezindima nemithetho eguquguqukayo iyakwazi ukubuyekeza izinkolelo zazo ezihlobene neze kanye nezindima zazo ezejwayelekile, zikwazi ukuzivumelanisa nezimo zamanje, kusukela ekuhlambalazweni kuya e-Azart - kanye nenjabulo yokuhlola futhi ngifuna okuthile okusha kuye. Kungenzeka ukuthi usindile kule nkinga, azobuyela amasu ayizintandokazi, kepha ukuguquguquka kuzovumela ubunzima bokudlulisa ubunzima empilweni kube lula futhi kusheshe.
Uma ubuyela embhadweni wethu ekuqaleni kwalesi sihloko, okungukuthi, izinkolelo lapho ama-heroine of umlando akholelwa khona ngokungaboni, angalindisene neqiniso. Isibonelo, ukuthi umyeni wakhe wamphonsa wedwa nobunzima. Noma ukuthi wonke amadoda abuthakathaka. Imiyalezo enezigaba ngawe nakwelinye ulwazi ngamanga. Bahola ukulungisa ukulunga kwabo nokuntuleka kwenye indlela babheka lesi simo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, iziphetho ezinjalo zikhubazekile ngokubona okusheshayo kwangempela. Uma lona wesifazane ehlola, khona-ke lokhu okutholakele kwenzeke ngaphambi kwesimo samanje, kepha umyeni wenzeka empilweni yakhe nasempilweni - kwabakhumbuza kuphela ngabo. Esikhundleni sokufuna izixazululo ezicacile nangokwengeziwe, wawela ezinkumbulweni zobunzima ezedlule, enikeza umyeni wakhe kuye, kanye namathuba okunqoba inhlekelele.
Ukubuyekezwa kuwusizo ngezikhathi ezithile, futhi amadala nezinganekwane ziyajikijela. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi ugqoke izingubo eminyakeni engamashumi amabili edlule. Ngakho-ke kungani ukholelwa eqinisweni lelo kwakuyiqiniso esikhathini esiningi esidlule. Sincoma ngezikhathi ezithile ukwenza inkomba yezinkolelo zakho ozithandayo ngawe, impilo, uthando, ubudlelwano, imali, amakhono abo. Mhlawumbe ezinye zalezi zinkolelo zizomiswa ngezinto ezibonakalayo.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin