"Ngesikhathi ngingelume ngamntwana, sonke sasihle," abafundi bangaba hlukanisa leli binzana enhlanyelweni. U-Irina K. wayengunina ojwayelekile osemncane owayengenalo iqhawe enganeni, kodwa wayesaba ukuthi ukungancishi kwakhe nokubukeka kwakhe kungagcina sekuvele kubhubhise ubudlelwane nomyeni wakhe. Sibhale ngaphambili, sizokweluleka ukuthi sibhekane nodokotela wezengqondo futhi siqale ukwazisa njengoba njalo njengoba sinconywe ezintweni zokwakha, kepha leli cala selivele ngaphambi kokuba le ntombazane iqale ukufunda i-Ansishit. Kulokhu okubonakalayo - incwadi ka-Irina, ifushaniswe kancane ukuze kube lula ukufundwa ngabahleli bethu.
"Kwabonakala kimi ukuthi impilo ayinanjongo"
U-Irina ukhuluma ngokungananazi ukuthi yimiphi imizwa abhekana nayo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa nangemva kokuzalwa kwengane. Ekuqaleni ubudlelwano bakhe nomyeni wakhe bafana ne-honeymoon engapheli, kodwa ngokuzalwa kwengane konke kwashintsha: "Ngiphuphe ngengane ngekhanda lami ngikhohliwe ngokuphelele ukuthi udinga ukuchitha isikhathi kumlingani wami. Yize naye, wayelungile - akazange angisize futhi azame ukuya ephathini kubangani, noma ngabe kuphi lapho sihamba khona sindawonye. Kwabonakala kimi ukuthi impilo yayingenanjongo: ngabuka okujabulisayo ukuthi wayebuya, futhi ngokwakhe wakhala ebusuku emcameni, engaqondi ukuthi uzoba olandelayo. " Eduze kwe-Irina Psychologist, wayechaza izimpawu zentombazane zokudangala kwangemva kokunye - ukuphazamiseka kwabesifazane abaningi ababhekana nakho. "Ukuhlanya okungapheli kobuso bami kwazizwa sengathi ngiphinde ngathi ngingu-15. Kwakungekho isikhathi somuntu wezimonyo - wachitha ngaso sonke isikhathi nengane, futhi nabazali babo babehlala ngaphandle komuzi, futhi bengafuni ukubaphazamisa. Ngesibalo, futhi sasinobubi: Ngemuva kokubeletha, isikhumba esimakwe, kanye nesisindo esengeziwe sasisabonakala kupapa ne-boca, futhi asivumeli udokotela ngenxa ye-diastase. Ngibheke izithombe zami ezindala kusukela ngesikhathi, lapho sihlangana nje nomyeni wami, futhi sakhala futhi singayeki. "
Isithombe esihle somndeni, esasimelwe yi-heroine, sashayisana empilweni
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Iseluleko esishintshe konke
"Kuhle ukuthi okungenani kwesinye isikhathi umngane weza kimi - angikwazi ukukhononda ngabo, nginenhlanhla yamantombazane. Kodwa-ke, omunye umhlangano wawukhethekile futhi washintsha impilo yami, kungani ngamkhumbula ngokushesha, ngifunda ezinye izindaba zomncintiswano wakho. Ngemuva kwalokho intombi yami uLena, esihlangane nayo e-University, saya evakashele umsebenzi ukuze sixoxe nami futhi ngisebenzise indodakazi yakho - uLena kwakunguNkulunkulu wakhe. " U-Irina ukhumbula indlela engxoxweni nomngane asho amakilasi omama abasebasha, owaqala ukusebenzisa i-blogger eyodwa ethandwayo edolobheni - bangahamba nengane. Umfundi wethu akazange alinde, futhi ngokushesha wabhala le ntombazane futhi wakhokha isonto lokuqala lamakilasi. Kanye nendodakazi yakhe, waya esitudiyo sokuqina, intombazane eyayiqashelwe ukuqeqeshwa. "Ngokokuqala ngqa umzimba wami ubuvutha ngomqondo wangempela - yonke imisipha yangcwatshwa ebuhlungwini, bekufanele ukuthi iqale ukubhukuda noma senze ama-squats. Ngaze ngaya kudokotela ukuze ngithole izeluleko, kodwa wathi ukusabela okunjalo kuyinto evamile futhi kuchazwa ngokuntuleka kwesikhathi eside kokuqeqeshwa. "
Imiphumela yokuqala ebonakalayo
"I-Ireland, ushintshe kakhulu!" - Umyeni ungitshele ngemuva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa zamakilasi. Ngaleso sikhathi, ubudlelwane bethu buthuthuke kakhulu ngokubonakalayo, ngoba ngabona ukuthi le nkinga ibihlala ilele kimi. Yebo, wangixhasa ngokwanele, kepha mina ngimuhle: ngakhulisa izwi lami phezu kwakhe, ngisolwa ngakho konke engangikwaziyo, futhi nginomona ngokungagculisekile ngami, ngoba ngangingagculisekile kuye, ngoba ngangingagculisekile kuye umsebenzi wokuqala emsebenzini noma kumngane yabangani bakhe. Ngikhumbula nokuthi yena ngokwakhe waqala ukudlala ezemidlalo - ngaphambi kokuthi sikhulise bakwazi ukuphinda bakwazi ukuphinda kabili ubusuku bonke ekilabhini, yilokho konke ukuqina. Indodakazi yami nayo yawathanda amakilasi ethu ahlanganayo - wayehlala ehleka lapho ngimvusa, enyakazisa izandla, noma epoppene ngenkathi ngenza uhlangothi lokuhlanekezela ekhaphethini. kokuntuleka kwesikhathi. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanele, njengoba kwenzeka, wayenenkinga enkulu - yonke inkinga yayilele enkombeni yakhe engalungile yosuku nendawo engenangqondo yesikhathi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kanye nokuxhumana nabanye omama.
Ingane yaba yisisusa se-Irina ukushintsha
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Unyaka wokuqala wendodakazi yakhe
"Senze iholide elihle ngonyaka owodwa ubudala! Ngisakhala lapho ngikhumbula ukuthi ingane yethu yayijabulisa kanjani abafowabo nodadewabo ngenkathi sihalalisela kusuka ezihlotsheni nakubangane. Kwakungekho muntu ongashadile ongasho ukuthi mina nomyeni wami sasikwenza. Futhi sathi ngokoqobo sathi lokhu kuyimpilo kithi kakhulu sasibheka. Eqinisweni, sabona ukuthi le ndodakazi yashintsha isimo sethu sengqondo siphile - kuye, saba ngcono futhi sisondelane. Ngangiyokwalulekwa ukuthi ngizale izingane, yize ngangiwele ngokwanele ukuthi ngizoba ngumama hhayi ngaphambi kweminyaka engama-40 ubudala. Ngendlela leyo ntombi yami uLena wayevele ekhulelwe - ngaye, uMkhandlu naye waphenduka ukunquma. Ngakho-ke manje ngichithe izingxoxo "zokufundisa" ngilindele ukuvela kwendodana yakhe emhlabeni futhi ngiqiniseka intombi ukuthi konke kuzobe kulungile uma yena uqobo esebenzisa amandla e-Herl uqobo kanye naye umyeni wakhe ngeke ahlukane nobunzima. "
Yize u-Irina akazange asishiyele izithombe nezinkomba zakhe enkundleni yokuxhumana nabantu, kepha sikholelwa ukuthi ushintsho lwentombazane lwalungokoqobo - indaba yakhe yasithinta. Thumela "izindaba zakho bukhoma" kwi-imeyili yethu: [email protected]. Sizoshicilela izindaba ezithakazelisa kakhulu kuwebhusayithi yethu futhi sinikeze isipho esishukumisayo esishukumisayo.