"Ngeli xesha ndandingazange ndilandele umntwana, sonke silungile," abafundi banokuhlula eli binzana kule leta. Irina K. Ngaba umama omncinci ongenayo intshatsheli emntwaneni, kodwa wayesoyika ukuba ukukhula kwakhe kuyimbonakaliso yembonakalo yakhe kuphela esele ifudusela ubudlelwane nomyeni wakhe. Sibhalele kuthi ngaphambili, siye simcebisa ukuba akwazi ukujongana nogqirha wezengqondo kwaye aqalise ukuzixabisa njengexesha elizayo njengoko liye lenzekile kwakudala le ntombazana yaqala ukuyifunda i-sweshiti. Kule nto - ileta ye-Irina, ifinyezwe kancinci ukuze kube lula ukufunda ngabahleli bethu.
"Ibonakala kum ukuba ubomi abunantsingiselo"
I-Irina ithetha ngokungagungqiyo malunga neemvakalelo awayezifumene ngexesha lokukhulelwa nasemva kokuzalwa komntwana. Ekuqaleni ubudlelwane bakhe nomyeni wayo bufana ne-honeymoon engapheliyo, kodwa ngokuzalwa komntwana yonke into itshintshile: "Ndiphuphe umntwana entlokweni yam kwaye ndiyilibale ngokupheleleyo ukuba kufuneka uchithe ixesha neqabane lam. Nangona kunjalo, yayilungile - ayindincedanga kwaye ndizama ukuya epatini kwabahlobo, naphina apho sasihamba khona. Kubonakala ngathi ubomi abunantsingiselo: Ndibukele oko kwanentsingiselo ambuyileyo, kwaye yena walila ebusuku, engacacanga ukuba uza kuba kamva. Yiba nolandelayo kwi-Irina Psychologist, ebeya kuchaza iimpawu zentombazana zokudakumba emva kweposi - iingxaki abajamelana nazo abafazi abaninzi. "Ukusuka ebusweni bam obungenasiphelo ukuva ngokungathi ndibuye. Kwakungekho xesha le-cosmetologist - wachitha ixesha kunye nomntwana ngalo lonke ixesha nomntwana, kwaye abazali babo babengafuni ukubaphazamisa. Ngomntu, naye wayeyinto entle: Ndajonga iifoto zam ezindala kususela kwala maxesha, xa sidibana nje nomyeni wam, saza sakhala ngaphandle kokuma. "
Umfanekiso ofanelekileyo wosapho, omelwe yi-heroine, eyaphuka ebomini
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Ingcebiso etshintshe yonke into
"Kulungile ukuba ubuncinci ngamanye amaxesha umhlobo weza kum - andikwazi ukukhalaza ngabo, ngokuqinisekileyo ndinethamsanqa kunye namantombazana. Nangona kunjalo, enye intlanganiso yayikhethekile kwaye yabutshintsha ngokoqobo ubomi bam, isizathu sokuba ndimkhumbule ngoko nangoko, ndifunde amanye amabali okhuphiswano lwakho. Ke intombi yam lena, esadibana nabo esidibana nabo eyunivesithi, saya kutyelela umsebenzi wokuncokola nam kwaye sichithe intombi yakho - uLena wayenguThixo wakhe. " I-Irina iyakukhumbula indlela ekuncokola ngayo ngexesha lokuthetha kunye nomhlobo owakhankanya iiklasi ngoomama, ababeqalisa ukuchitha iblogger enye esixekweni - banokuhamba nomntwana. Umfundi wethu akazange alinde, kwaye ngoko nangoko wabhala le ntombazana kwaye wahlawula iveki yokuqala yeeklasi. Ekunye nentombi yakhe, waya kwi-ficul studio, eyayiqeshiswa yile ntombazana ukuba iqeqeshe. "Okokuqala umzimba wam wawuvutha ngengqondo yokoqobo-yonke imisipha ingcwatywe kwintlungu, kwakubalulekile ukuba uqale ukutshintsha amaphephandaba okanye enze i-squats. Ndade ndaya kwagqirha ndicela ingcebiso, kodwa wathi indlela enjalo yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye icaciswa kukungabikho komgangatho ode woqeqesho. "
Iziphumo zokuqala ezibonakalayo
"I-Irish, utshintshe kakhulu!" - Umyeni undixelele emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa. Ngeli xesha, ulwalamano lwethu luphucule ngokubonakalayo, kuba ndiye ndabona ukuba le ngxaki yayihlala inda kum. Ewe, wandixhasa ngokwaneleyo, kodwa bendilungile, ndaphakamisa izwi lam kuye, ndakhutshwa ngayo yonke into endiyifumanayo, kwaye ndinomona, ngenxa yokuba ndingonelisekanga ndicela ukuba ahambe naye umsebenzi wokuqala emsebenzini okanye umhlobo yabahlobo bakhe. Ndikhumbula ukuba yena ngokwakhe waqala ukudlala imidlalo-ngaphambi kokuba sandise sikwazi ukuphinda kabini ubusuku bonke kwiklabhu, konke ukuqina. Intombi yam ikwazithanda iiklasi zethu ezidibeneyo - wayehlala ehleka xa ndikhulisa, ndingcungcutheka izandla, okanye i-irina ikhumbula ukutya kwakhe - wayeka ukuba yokungabikho kwexesha. Kwaye ithutyana lamahhala, njengoko laliphuma, lalinengxaki enkulu - yonke ingxaki yayilele kwinkqubo yakhe ephosakeleyo yemini kunye nexesha elingenangqondo kwi-theshini yentlalo kunye nolunye oomama.
Umntwana waba yinkuthazo yaseIrina ukuba ayitshintshe
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Unyaka wokuqala wentombi yakhe
"Senze iholide entle ngonyaka omnye! Ndisakhalela xa ndikhumbula indlela umntwana wethu emnandi kunye nabantakwabo noodadewabo ngelixa sasizingalisa ngokusuka kwizalamane nabahlobo. Kwakungekho mntu ungatshatanga ongathi umyeni wam kwaye kufuneka ndenze njalo. Kwaye siye sacela ukuba obu bubomi kuthi kangangokuba sijonge. Ngapha koko, saqonda ukuba le ntombazana iguqule indlela esibujonga ngayo ubomi -, saba ngcono kwaye sisondele omnye komnye. Ngendicebise ukuba ndizelwe abantwana, nangona mna ndaye ndaphila kangangokuba ndiza kuba ngumama hayi ngaphambi kweminyaka engama-40 ubudala. Ngalo lonke ixesha intombazana yam uEna sele ekhulelwe ukuba uthathe isigqibo. Ke ngoku ndichithe incoko "ye" yemfundo "efuna ukubonakala konyana wakhe ehlabathini nasekuqinisekiseni intombi yokuba yonke into izakuhamba nzima ukuba ingaba nzima."
Nangona i-Irina ayizange isishiyile iifoto zakhe kunye nezalathiso kwinethiwekhi yoluntu, kodwa sikholelwa ukuba utshintsho lwentombazana lwaluseyinyani-ibali layo. Thumela "amabali akho aphilayo" kwileta yethu: [email protected]. Siza kupapasha amabali anomdla kwiwebhusayithi yethu kwaye sinikezele ngesipho esikhuthazayo esimnandi.