Funda kwangaphambili ukuba ngubani oza kuya kumsitho . Ukuba kukho abantu abangakuthandiyo ngokwenene, unokuyeka nje unxibelelwano nabo, ubuncinci kwiqela. Ukuba awonelisekanga kukuziphatha komntu okanye uthethe kuye, unokuhlala mkile kuwo, uyeke ukunxibelelana, ukunciphisa isihloko. Okokuqala ngqa, isenokungancedi lukhulu. Kodwa kamva, umntu uyakuyeka ukuthetha ngayo nawe.
Kufuneka ukhusele imida yabo , Ayinamsebenzi-iholide injalo okanye imeko eqhelekileyo ebomini. Ukuba ukhubekile, unelungelo lokuzikhusela. Indlela efanayo nakwinqanaba elifanayo unjalo. Uyakhutyekiswa ngamazwi, ufanele ukhusela, kodwa ukwenze okuqonda ngakumbi, umzekelo, ngokuhlekisa. Guqula yonke imeko ibe yihlaya kwaye ibonise i-ham ibe ngumntu osisidenge. Ewe kunjalo, ukusebenzisa indlela enjalo, ufuna ukuziqhelanisa nokude, kodwa kwakamsinya nje ukuba ufunde indlela yokuyenza, kwaye ke, kunye nemvakalelo yakho elungileyo yokuphanga kakhulu.
I-evgeny idchikovsky
Ireyithi iviwe kakhulu kumntu owonileyo amagama ayinyaniso. Ukuba ububizwa ngokuba ngu-Ugly, ongaphumelelanga okanye ezinye izinto, ke unokuhlala uqinisekisa malunga nokuchaseneyo. Emva kokugqiba unxibelelwano, zama ukuskroba ngemizekelo elungileyo entlokweni yakho, ebonisa iimpawu zakho ezintle. Ndikholelwe, uncedo luya kuza ngexesha elinye.
Soloko uzibuza ukuba uluvo lwalo mntu lubalulekile kum. Ukuba umntu okrwada kuwe, njengesando okanye i-ham okanye umsindo, ke kutheni kufuneka umamele? Khawufane ucinge ukuba uya ezantsi esitratweni kwaye ungenamakhaya uyakhala into ekhubekisayo. Ngaba kufanelekile? Ayilunganga loo nto. Ke ngoko, emva kwengxoxo engathandekiyo, chitha uhlalutyo lwe-mini: ukuba kuyafuneka ukuchitha amandla akho namandla akho emntwini ongakufanelanga ingqalelo yakho. Kwaye ukuba uburharha busavela kumthombo ongu-Ofisi kaMongameli, kodwa akumnandi kakhulu ukuva nokuyibona loo ndlela yokuziphatha, khumbula ukhuseleko lwemida. Kwaye khumbula ukuba phantse bonke uburharha bukwaba krwada, buya kumntu owonileyo, uqala ngokungakhuseleki.