Utarinze ubuzima bwimbitse, ntibishoboka kubaka umubano wigihe kirekire, nubwo waba twarwanyaga ibikuntu byurukundo. Abantu bamwe bari muri bombi bakunze kuboneka nko gusimbuza igitsina: siporo, ibyabaye kumuco, akazi, kwibira mubicuruzwa byo murugo. Mugihe cyigihe, igitsina gishobora kuba gake mubice muri couple, bitinde bitebuke bizahuza niba bitagomba guturika, noneho gukonjesha umubano. Nigute ushobora kongera urwego rwishyaka yawe? Twakusanyije inzira nziza zibangamira abantu banywa imitekerereze ya psychologue.
Gusomana byinshi
Abantu benshi badakwiye gusuzugura agaciro ko gusomana muri couple: Ikintu nuko mugihe cyo guhura na saliva, umugore kurwego rwibimenyetso yakira ikimenyetso - niba cyo gukomeza umubano nuyu mugabo ndetse no mu myitozo ngororane kuri we. Mubyongeyeho, niba umaze kuba mubucuti igihe kirekire, ntugabura ikibazo cyo kuzamuka umufatanyabikorwa, bizagufasha "kugarura imbaraga", kwibuka uburyo mugihe cyitangiriro cyimibanire kuzamuka.
Urashobora kwemerera ikirahure kimwe cya divayi mucyumweru
Nibyo, burigihe ni ngombwa kugenzura inzoga zo kunywa, ariko ikirahuri cya divayi gusa hamwe numufatanyabikorwa kumugoroba wo kureba film ntizababaza. Nkuko ubushakashatsi bwerekana, abashakanye, bemerera inzoga nke, akenshi bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina kandi baboneka neza mururimi rusanzwe.
Benshi basanga impamvu yo guterera igitsina
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Umunezero wawe ntabwo ufite agaciro
Abagore benshi babaho bizeye byimazeyo ko mu mibonano mpuzabitsina ari ngombwa cyane guhaza mugenzi wawe kwinezeza. Mu mezi ya mbere yubu buryo, uzategura umuntu wawe byimazeyo, ariko vuba uzatangira guhura nibidahungabanya ndetse no kurakara mugihe umuntu azaguha igitsina, kuko uzi ko bishimishije. Ntuzigere wibagirwa ko imibonano mpuzabitsina igomba kubahiriza abafatanyabikorwa bombi, umugabo wawe nawe agomba kuzirikana muri iki gihe.
Ntutinye kugerageza ikintu gishya
Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bagira inama byibura inshuro nyinshi ku kwezi guhindura "ibyiza" kubitsina. Niba ufite isoni zo gukora ibi mubirori, gerageza gukodesha icyumba cya hoteri cyangwa kujyana nurugendo rwabagabo muminsi mike. Kandi, ntugende murugo: Jya kuruhuka hamwe kuri club cyangwa uhitemo inshuti. Hazabaho abandi bagore bari muri sosiyete, kandi ko umugabo wawe asuzumwa nabashobora kubarwa, bishimye bidasanzwe.