Popanda moyo wapamtima, ndizosatheka kuti apange ubale wautali, ngakhale atatsutsana ndi chiyani pankhaniyi. Anthu ena omwe ali awiri nthawi zambiri amapezeka kuposa kutulutsa zogonana: Masewera, zochitika zachikhalidwe, ntchito, kukonza zinthu zapakhomo. Popita nthawi, kugonana kumatha kukhala kosakhazikika kwambiri mu awiri, komwe kungayambitse ngati sichoncho kuweta chibwenzicho. Ndiye mukuwonjezera bwanji kuchuluka kwa chidwi chanu? Tatenga njira zabwino kwambiri kuti akatswiri azachipembedzo alangize.
Kupsompsona
Anthu ambiri samanyalanyaza phindu la kupsompsona awiriwo: chinthucho ndikuti polumikizana ndi omwe ali ndi vutoli, mkazi yemwe ali paubwenzi ndi mwamunayo komanso mu lingaliro la ana kuchokera kwa iye. Kuphatikiza apo, ngati mudakhalapo pachibwenzi kwa nthawi yayitali, musaphonye mlanduwu kuti mukweze mnzanu, zikuthandizani kuti "mutsike" zakukhosi kwake, kukumbukira momwe kumayambira pachibwenzi chomwe mudakumana nacho kukwera.
Mutha kuloleza kapu imodzi ya vinyo pa sabata
Zachidziwikire, ndikofunikira nthawi zonse kuyendetsa mowa kumwa mowa, koma kapu imodzi yokha ya wokondedwa ndi mnzake madzulo owonera sizivulaza. Monga kafukufuku akuwonetsa, maanja, amadzilola mowa pang'ono, nthawi zambiri amagonana ndipo amapezeka bwino kwambiri.
Ambiri amapeza chifukwa chosiya kugonana
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Zosangalatsa zanu sizofunika kwenikweni
Amayi ambiri amakhala ndi chidaliro chonse kuti pankhani zogonana ndi zofunika kwambiri kukwaniritsa wokondedwayo kuposa momwe angasangalale. M'miyezi yowerengeka ya njirayi, mudzakonzanso munthu wanu mokwanira, koma posakhalitsa muyamba kusasangalala ngakhale mutakwiya munthu akakupatsirani kuti mugone, chifukwa mumadziwa kuti zimakhumba. Musaiwale kuti kugonana kuyenera kukwaniritsa zosowa zonse ziwiri, munthu wanu ayeneranso kutchulanso mphindi iyi.
Osawopa kuyesa china chatsopano
Akatswiri azachipembedzo amalangiza kangapo pamwezi kuti asinthe "malo" a kugonana. Ngati mukuchita manyazi kuchita izi paphwando, yesani kubwereka chipinda hotelo kapena kupita ndiulendo wamphongo kwa masiku angapo. Komanso, musayende kunyumba: Pita kuti mupumule pamodzi ku kalabu kapena kusankha anzanu. Padzakhala akazi ena pagululo, ndipo kuti munthu wanu amayesedwa ndi omwe angathe kukhala nawo, modabwitsa.