Pasina hupenyu hwepedyo hwepedyo, hazvigoneke kuvaka hukama hwakatemerwa kwenguva refu, zvisinei nekuti zvinopesana sei nechokwadi chechido ichi. Vamwe vanhu vari mune imwe vaviri vanowanzowanikwa pane kutsiva bonde: mitambo, zviitiko zvetsika, zvinoshanda, zvichikwira mumba. Nekufamba kwenguva, bonde rinogona kuve raramo hombe mune vaviri, iyo munguva pfupi inotevera ichatungamira kana isiri yekubviswa, tobva tatonhorera hukama. Saka maitiro ekuwedzera iyo degree rekusuwa mune yako mbiri? Isu takaunganidza nzira dzinoshanda kwazvo dzinoshanda nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinopa zano.
Kuwedzera kutsvoda
Vanhu vazhinji havana hanya nekukosha kwekutsvoda kwekutsvoda mune vaviri: Chinhu ichocho ndechekutaurirana nedunhu remunhu, kana kuti kuenderera mberi neushamwari nemurume uyu uye mufundisi kubereka vana kubva kwaari. Mukuwedzera, kana iwe watove uri muukama kwenguva yakareba, usapotsa nyaya yekukwira mumwe wako, zvinozokubatsira kuti 'zorodze "kunzwa" kurangarira mashandiro ehukama hwawakasangana neushamwari hwakasimba Simuka.
Iwe unogona kubvumira girazi rimwe rewaini pavhiki
Ehe, zvinogara zvichidikanwa kudzora huwandu hwekunwa doro, asi girazi rimwe chete rine mumwe wako manheru kuti uone firimu harizokuvadzi. Sezvinoratidzwa nezvidzidzo, vakaroora, vanozvibvumira doro raduku, kazhinji vanorara nevanoita bonde uye zviri nani zviri nani mutauro.
Vazhinji vanowana chikonzero chekusiya zvepabonde
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Kufadza kwako hakuna kukosha
Vakadzi vazhinji vanogara vachivimba zvizere zvekuti mubonde zvakanyanya kukosha kuti vagutse mukwanyina kupfuura iye kuti afarire. Mumwedzi mishoma yekutanga yeiyi nzira, iwe ucharonga zvakazara murume wako, asi munguva pfupi iwe uchatanga kuona kusagadzikana uye kunyange kutsamwiswa kana murume achakupa iwe bonde, sezvo iwe uchiziva kuti ndezvekugutsikana kwake. Usambokanganwa kuti bonde rinofanira kusangana nezvinodiwa nevaviri vevabati, murume wako anofanirwawo kufunga nezvenguva ino.
Usatya kuedza chimwe chinhu chitsva
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinopa zano kanokwana kanoverengeka pamwedzi kuti uchinje "nzvimbo" yebonde. Kana iwe uchinyara kuita izvi kumafaro, edza kurenda imba yekutandarira kana kuenda nerwendo rwechirume kwemazuva mashoma. Zvakare, usafambe kumba: Enda kuzorora pamwe chete kune kirabhu kana kusarudza kushamwari. Kuchave nevamwe vakadzi mukambani, uye chokwadi chekuti murume wako anoongororwa nevanogona kukwira, vanomiririra zvinoshamisa.