Posachedwa kuzindikira chowonadi chophweka, chomwe aliyense amadziwa, koma si aliyense amene amamvetsetsa kumapeto. Simudzathawa. Zikuwoneka kuti apa nditsopano, komanso zovuta kwambiri? Komabe, ndinali m'gulu la omwe sanafune kudziwa izi, ndipo chifukwa pachabe.
Ndine munthu wokangalika yemwe amakonda kukhala nthawi zonse. Nthawi zonse ndimakhala ochepa. Ndipo nkovuta kunena kuti wokondedwa wanga akusowa bwanji: Banja ndilobwino kwambiri, munthuyo ndi wodabwitsa, abwenzi ali pafupi kwambiri, ndipo ntchitoyi ndi yomwe mumakonda. Zingamveke, kusangalala tsiku lililonse ndipo musapange! Koma kwenikweni, ngakhale ndili ndi chiyembekezo chopanda malire, malingaliro amabadwira mumutu, omwe amafesa chidwi chofuna kuthawa kapena kungobisala kudziko lapansi. Ngakhale kuchokera pafupi kwambiri. Posachedwa ndidazindikira kuti kumapeto, kufunidwa koteroko sikunabadwire kuti sanali okhutiritsa kapena osakhumudwitsidwa ndi zovuta. M'malo mwake, nthawi ndi nthawi ndimayesera kubisala ndekha. Ndipo china chake chimandiuza kuti sindili ndekha.
Kuzindikira kuti nthawi zina ndimakhala ndi vuto lamkati, zidafika kumayambiriro kwa chilimwe. Mpaka pomwepo, chikhumbo champhamvu sichikugwira ntchito, chikhumbo chamuyaya chosintha izi ndi chikhumbo chokhazikika cholemba tsiku lake mpaka miniti. Zambiri zasintha ndi kubwera kwa munthu m'modzi m'moyo wanga. Kwa nthawi yayitali, ndinakhala palimodzi. Kenako ndinazindikira kuti sizinali mkhalidwewo.
Munthu wogwirizana naye safuna kusintha moyo kukhala mtundu wamuyaya. Samayesa kumiza malingaliro ake. Ndipo ine ndinayesera! Chaka chonse chatha ndidathamangira sabata iliyonse kwinakwake: m'mapiri, panyanja, amatha kuyenda kwa maola okha kapena nthawi zambiri amapita kokacheza; kungoyika, kutopa kwakuthupi kumatha . Kuphatikiza apo, sindinakonde kukhala kunyumba, chifukwa kwa ine makalata atatuwa akutanthauza zambiri kuposa malo okhala. Sindinkafuna kubweretsa kunyumba "zoyipa zoyipa." Ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimalemba zolemba za "patebulo" lomwe lidandithandizanso kudzipereka. Mukamachita zomwe mumakonda, simumamva zotsutsana kwambiri. Komabe, zinali zofunikira kwa ine osachepera "kuti ndisasangalale ndi malingaliro anga, chifukwa nthawi yomweyo imabvumbitsitsani alamu a ubongo ndi m'matumbo pamitu yosiyanasiyana. Odziwa?
Kodi ndinayamba bwanji kutanthauza chimodzimodzi? Inde, palibe! Sindikudziwabe njira yothanirana ndi mphindi zoterezi, ndiye malangizo oti "momwe mungakhalire ndi inu" ayi. Koma ndiyesera kupanga zinthu zomwe zinandithandiza.
Choyamba, kuzindikira kumathandizidwa kuthana ndi vuto lomwe mwakwaniritsa china chake. Mwachitsanzo, ndimayika patsogolo panu zolinga zazing'ono, kufikira zomwe ndimamva kukhala wamtendere. Ndipo zilibe kanthu kuti ndi chiyani chomwe mumakonzekera tsiku, koposa zonse - m'madzulo kuzindikira kuti mutha kuyika nkhupakupa pafupi ndi zinthu. Koma mumasamala! Ikani zolinga zomwe zachitika mosamala, apo ayi mungokulitsa kusakhutira kwanu.
Ndipo ndikukulangizani kuti mudzizungulire ndi anthu oyenera. Mwina kusamva kwamkati ndi chifukwa cha zomwe simukonda kukhalamo komwe mwakhala tsopano. Ngati atakumana ndi abwenzi apamtima ndi okondedwa omwe mumawakonda kwambiri kuposa kale, ndiye nthawi yoti muganize.
Ndili ndi ntchito yomwe imandisangalatsa. M'malo mwake, ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito pamalo omwe ndimawakonda, ndipo kudziwa izi kumathandiza kuti mukhale ndi mgwirizano wamkati. Kudzuka, m'mawa uliwonse ndimaganizira kwambiri za tsiku la ntchitoyo, ndipo izi ndizofunikira!
Mwachinayi, ndimayesetsa kuchoka pakamwa kamodzi pa sabata kwinakwake, ndikukhazikitsanso kwina. Mwamwayi, ku Crimea ambiri okongola komanso olimbikitsa. Pambuyo pa tsiku lokhala m'chilengedwe, imakhala yabwino kwambiri. Ngati izi sizingatheke, ndiye kuti mungosintha izi: nthawi zambiri zimakhala m'madzulo kunyumba - sankhani; Tinkakhala phee tsiku lililonse - khalani kukhitchini ndi buku komanso keke yomwe mumakonda.
Masewera! Ndikofunikira kwambiri ndi pafupipafupi kuti muthetse thupi lanu. Pambuyo pophunzitsa, palibe mphamvu pamalingaliro oyipa ndi tchuthi. Makamaka nthawi yovuta, ndimachita modekha ndikupita kokayenda. Ndimavuta kwambiri. Mwa njira, inenso, amapanga mitu yankhani yankhani kapena m'mabuku awo pamasewera.
Chachisanu ndi chimodzi, ndikofunikira kukumbukira kukumbukira kugona ndi zakudya. Ndipo pano simukusowa kuseka! Ngati sindigona mokwanira kwa nthawi yayitali, ndiye kuti pakhoza kukhalanso zolankhula za munthu aliyense wamkati. Yesani mwanjira ina kuti mugone ndi maola 7-8 ndikudya molondola. Mudzaona kusintha kokha monga mawonekedwe, komanso kuchuluka kwamphamvu.
Zoyenera, ndikukulangizani kuti mugwiritse ntchito zinthu zonse nthawi yomweyo kenako mwina inu, ngati ine, zimakhala bwino ndi inu! Kapena osati. Kupatula apo, tikudziwa kuti anthu ndi oona koma okhulupirira ena ndipo sikuti njira zomwe zimagwirira ntchito kwa wina ndioyenera wina. Chinthu chachikulu, kumbukirani kuti simuli nokha nkhope ngati izi ndipo zonsezi zonse!