Ukusuka kubafundi beeleta i-jeeshit:
"Molo, maria
Ndingathanda ukuthetha nawe ngomntwana wam. Igama lakhe nguMarina kwaye uneminyaka eli-8 ubudala. Unobubele, intombazana entle, ivulekile kwaye unxibelelane, unobuhlobo. Ingxaki kukuba izele. Ngokubanzi, asikuthambisi umyeni wakho, ke ngandlela thile ayigxili kuyo. Kwaye umntwana, kunye nathi, akazange anikele ingqalelo. Kodwa esikolweni, waqalisa ukuhlekisa. Nokuba utitshala wemfundo esemzimbeni uvumela umntu odatch ... Esi sisihlazo, kunjalo! Kodwa wenze ntoni? Ukuba ndiye esikolweni ndifunge, ndiza kwenza kube mandundu. Thatha ukusuka apho? Isikolo silungile, kwaye siphi isiqinisekiso sokuba omnye uya kwahluka? Intombi iyacaphuka. Ndiziva ndizisola ngenxa yam, intliziyo yam iyabuhlungu mihla le. Nceda! Mama Katya. "
Molo!
Okokuqala, ndifuna ukuqaphela ukuba akufuneki ushiye umntwana yedwa ngengxaki yakho. Ukuba abazali benza ingxaki, umntwana usenokuba neempawu ezizezona ziyinto eyoyikisayo. Ke le ngxaki kufuneka ixoxwe. Isikolo sinokuba yinto enoxinzelelo olukhulu emntwaneni kwaye ibeka phantsi ukholo lwayo ukholo lwayo. Kodwa, ngethamsanqa, abazali bayakwazi ukomeleza nokubuyisela ukuzithemba kwabo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, indima yokuthatha isigqibo sokuyilwa kwabantwana ngaphandle kosapho (ephantsi kokuzithemba ndiyayiqonda ngokomfanekiso omnye malunga naye). Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu yindima kamama. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ungumthombo wothando olungenamiqathango. NguEoma kuphela othanda umntwana wakhe ngomntwana wakhe. Oko kukuthi, mama angayichaphazela kakhulu ukuzithemba kwakhe. Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukunika intombi yam ukuba iqonde ukuba uyamxabisa ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe kwaye wamkele ukuba yintoni. Kubalulekile ukukhuthaza, kuba lophawu lokwamkelwa kunye nothando. Emva koko ngokuzithemba uziva efunda nabo.
Isimo sengqondo somntwana kubunzima buba abazali. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ngoncedo lwakho e ntombazana lenze isimo sengqondo esaneleyo malunga nemeko kunye nokuzithemba ukuba yonke into inokuhlangazwa kuyo yonke into. Zama ukuxoxa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ngayo. Mhlawumbi ungadlala imidlalo kunye. Okanye uthatha isigqibo sokuba le ngxaki ayinabunzima ukuchitha ixesha elininzi. Ngayiphi na imeko, eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu yinkxaso yakho kunye nomzekelo ofanelekileyo.
Umntwana ufuna ngokwenene ukuva ukubaluleka kwayo, ixabiso labantu. Kwaye indima yesikolo ayiphezulu njengendima yosapho. Nokuba imeko ingakanani na esikolweni, uthando kunye nokwamkelwa kuya kuba lubaluleke kakhulu kwintombi yakho.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, xa emehlweni kamama esiwufundayo kwaye uyawamkelwa, silima amaphiko. Ke, ukuzinza okuzinzileyo kwenziwe kwintsapho yeyona nto ilungileyo emntwaneni.