From the letter readers Womanhit:
"Good afternoon, Maria
I would like to talk to you about my child. Her name is Marina and she is 8 years old. She is kind, good girl, open and contact, friendly. The problem is that it is full. In general, we are not thin with your husband both, so somehow did not focus on it. And the child, together with us, also did not pay attention. But at school, she began to tease. Even the physical education teacher allows himself a bitch ... This is a disgrace, of course! But what to do? If I go to school and swear, I'll make it even worse. Pick up from there? School is good, and where is the guarantee that in another will be different? And daughter is upset. I feel so sorry for me, my heart hurts every day. Help! Mom Katya. "
Hello!
First of all, I want to note that you should not leave a child alone with your problem. If parents are making a problem, a child may have fantasies that this is something very scary. So the problem must be discussed. The school can really become a strong stressful factor for the child and seriously undermine his faith in itself. But, fortunately, parents are able to strengthen and restore their self-esteem. After all, the decisive role in the formation of children's self-esteem belongs to the family (under self-esteem I understand the representation of a person about himself). Especially important is the role of mother. After all, she is a source of unconditional love. Only Mom loves her child for just her child. That is, Mom can most affect his self-esteem. Therefore, it is very important to give my daughter to understand that you appreciate her that it is very important for you that you love her and accept what it is. It is important to encourage, since it is this sign of recognition and love. Then she confidently feel among classmates.
The child's attitude to difficulties form parents. And it is very important that with your help in the girl formed an adequate attitude towards the situation and confidence that everything can be coped with everything. Try to discuss different options with it. Perhaps you can play sports together. Or decide that this problem is not so serious to devote so much time. In any case, the most important thing is your support and a positive example.
The child really needs to feel its significance, value for other people. And the role of the school is not as high as the role of the family. No matter how much the situation has been in school, love and recognition will be the most important for your daughter.
After all, when in the eyes of the mother we read admiration and recognition, we grow wings. So, a sustainable self-esteem formed in the family is the best inheritance for the child.