As a rule, before the appearance of the baby, the most excitement concentrates around the future mother, about young dips most often forget, which is very sad, because the father plays a huge role in the formation of a child's worldview from the first months of his life
Many dads take on the role of the only breadwinner in the family and disappear from the field of view of the child for many years. Of course, the provision of a family requires their victims, many successful men who have built a huge state, say that if they had the opportunity to change something in their past, they would have allocated more time on their children without thinking, who eventually rose without paternal attention. That this does not happen to you, it is important to remember the basic rules for the young dad, which is important to follow the whole life.
The most important thing is your love
It is important to remember that no expensive gifts will be able to replace the child the time he spends with you. Several hours a week is definitely not enough. Of course, modern life makes us break between the provision of family, raising children and our own interests, however, if you have a choice between recycling on weekends and a family trip with your family, you know what to do.
Show sincere interest in his life
No wonder, many parents agree with the statement that together with their child they can survive the second childhood. When a child becomes a little older, his interests can be interspersed with yours, for example, in terms of music. Go to the festival, concert with my daughter or son. Even if you do not share the love of heavy rock or tolerate cannot be incomprehensible to you the dance direction "K-Pop", without which your daughter cannot live, avoid sharp criticism and at least try to understand the world in which your child lives.
interest your child's life
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Children are important how you feel about each other
Do not think that the child lives in his fictional world: he feels great and sees how you feel about your woman, mother baby. There is nothing better for a pediatric psyche than the mutual love of his parents. Any quarrels and scandals "on the brick" disassemble his respect for you as a adult intelligent person. If you live in constant tension, break out to my wife, be prepared for teenage riots and problems, and the reason for this behavior will not be a school and "wrong" friends, but your destructive behavior and a marriage relationship. Do not allow the growth of hatred and irritation towards your woman and especially the child.
You are important as well as mom
Many dads make the same mistake - sincerely believe that Mom is able to replace his participation in the child's life in any case. Unfortunately, or fortunately, it is not. Father is important to start taking care of the baby in the first months of his life, do not let your second half make all the concerns associated with the care and upbringing of your common child. If possible, delve into all aspects of care and further education. The more interest you will be, the faster you get tightened and the child will never seem to you for a curb and screaming lump, which prevents sleeping.