Mwana aliyense pansi pa Chaka Chatsopano akuyembekezera Santa Claus ndipo chisangalalo chimayang'ana pansi pa mtengo wa Khrisimasi kuti ukhale mphatso yayitali. Muzikumbukira nokha ubwana - momwe mwakondwera ndi chidole chatsopano, chovala chokongola, phukusi ndi maswiti. Ndipo lingalirani ngati mulinso ndi mphatso zochokera pano? Ndi zosangalatsa zenizeni, ndipo koposa zonse - kodi ndichilengedwe bwanji chomwe sichimafuna chilichonse chobwerera? Ndikukhulupirira kuti ambiri a inu mudaseka. Tiyeni tiwone pazomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha kukayikira komanso momwe mungachotsere zolakwika zokhudzana ndi omwe akupatsani.
Kodi nchiyani chimalepheretsa mkazi kuti atenge mphatso zodula?
Chifukwa chachikulu chimakhala pamalingaliro osokoneza bongo, kukonza kolakwika komwe kunapangidwa motsogozedwa ndi chilengedwe chapafupi komanso zomwe sizinachite bwino. Pa mulingo wa chikumbumtima, mukufuna kupeza mphatso zodula, ndipo chikumbumtima chikuwonetsa "chinsinsi chomwe chingatchulidwe ndi izi:" Kukhala ndi manyazi ", Trait mu Nyanja ya Mediterranean musandipatse ine chifukwa, koma ndi lingaliro lililonse kapena chofunikira kwambiri pobwerera "ndi zina zambiri. Pali zikhulupiriro zambiri zofanana.
Ndipo malingaliro anu amatanthauza chiyani pamenepa? Mwachilengedwe, mumati zomwe zimapereka mphatso ndizosangalatsa kuposa kuzithetsa. Uku ndikuteteza machitidwe a psyche poyankha kuvulala kwamkati komwe kumapangitsa kuti munthu asakhale wopanda thandizo, kudzikhutitsa ("sindine woyenera"). Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti mantha akulu ndi malingaliro olakwika amakopa zomwe mukuopa kwambiri.
Yana Klichenko
Kodi mungagonjetse bwanji chotchinga chanu chamkati?
Choyamba, muyenera kumvetsetsa momwe mungapangire ubale ndi wokondedwa ndi anthu ena. Mukufuna chiyani kuchokera kuzomwe zimachitika? Pangani nyali ya nyali ya masomphenyawa. Dziwani mtundu wa ubalewu, khazikitsani miyezo yanu. Chifukwa cha izi, mudzamva kuti mukuyenda, mumasintha kuti simuyenera, mudzakwaniritsa malangizo anu ndi mphatso iliyonse. Kupatula apo, mphatso ya mkazi si chinthu kapena chinthu chopanda kanthu, koma chamtengo wapatali chomwe chimathandizira kudzidalira, kufunikira kwake kwa munthu amene amalimbirana.
Kuperewera kwa mphatso ndi zochulukirapo zimatengera zomwe zikuchitika m'mutu mwanu. Palibe zopinga zoletsa mwa azimayi omwe ali ndi chithandizo chamkati komanso kudzidalira. Nthawi zambiri amapatsidwa zinthu zodula zomwe amamwa. Kodi mukuganiza kuti olimba komanso olimba mtima amakhala ndi malo otetezeka (makolo oyenera, kusadetsa nkhawa ndi zovuta)? Osati nthawi zonse. Pali zitsanzo zambiri pamene zovuta za moyo sizingosokoneza chiwombolo ndi mantha, koma, m'malo mwake, anali kuyendetsa galimoto panjira yosintha.
Zindikirani kuti mphatso ndi chiwonetsero cha chikondi
Chifukwa chake, takambirana ndi zomwe zimatipatsa mwayi wokhala ndi mphatso komanso momwe angachitire gawo loyambirira. Tsopano khazikitsani zonse. Bwerezaninso izi: "Pezani zinthu zokondedwa ndikundipatsa - ndizabwino komanso zachilengedwe. Ndi gawo la chikondi ndi ubale wabwinobwino. " Kodi mukumva chiyani atatchula mawuwa?
Bwerezaninso izi: "Pezani zinthu zokondedwa ndikundipatsa - ndizabwino komanso zachilengedwe. Ndi gawo la chikondi ndi ubale wabwinobwino. "
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Voterani malingaliro anu pamlingo 10. Kodi chilembo ndi chiyani? Ngati pa chiwerengero cha 9 kapena 10, ndiye kuti mulibe tsankho kwa iwo omwe apatsa. Ngati pa malire am'munsi, ndiye kuti, kukana komwe kuyika kwanu kolakwika. Nthawi iliyonse imakulitsa nambala mpaka vertex yafika. Dzisankheni nokha zabwino ndikubwereza: "Ndine woyenera kulandira mphatso zokwera mtengo ndikuwatenga mwachilengedwe, komanso ndimapeza malipiro. Ndine mkazi yemwe amafalitsa mkhalidwe wamunthu wofuna kundipatsa. "
Mukamadzimasulira kusiya zikhulupiliro, simudzangopeza mapindu ochokera kwa wokondedwa, komanso kukhalabe mphamvu kuti mukwaniritse zatsopano chifukwa cha mphamvu zanu. Izi ndi kusinthana kwamphamvu.