Amadoda amaningi azwile ngokukhohlisa kocansi nakwelinye icala elilula aqala ukucasuka kulo mcimbi. Kodwa-ke, amadoda ngokwawo awawona osanta - futhi bavame ukungabanaki abesifazane, njengoba kubonakala kubo, ngokuziphindisela, kodwa bona ngokwabo abafuni ukukubona. Kunezifundo ezikhethekile, lapho amadoda ejwayelene nalokhu "ubuciko".
Indoda akufanele idinge lutho
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#one. Indoda izama ukudala icala kuwe
Impela abanye kini bezwile ibinzana elinjalo: "Wenqaba, ngoba awungithandi!" Ongenalwazi ezindabeni zobudlelwano, intombazane ngokushesha iqala 'ukulungisa isimo', kepha qiniseka ukuthi le ndoda ayiyeki kuyo - ngokushesha nje lapho uvuma, uzoqhamuka nendlela entsha yokwenza umuzwa ongathandeki kuwe .
Ngemuva kwalokho, amadoda akufanele amangale lapho owesifazane ebeka izidingo zawo, ngokwesibonelo - akukho ubulili ngaphandle kokuhambela amaholide akhe. Bona uqobo kufanele basolwe.
# 2. Umuntu uzama ukulahlekelwa nguwe ngakho konke ukubukeka kwakhe
Lokwamukelwa kwenzeka ezingeni lemvelo: Indoda ayidingi ukuze ifunde ngokuqondile. Ngokushesha nje lapho kuvela owesifazana phambi kwakhe, amcabangela yena iphupho lakhe, ukubukeka kwakhe kuzosho konke kumnikazi wakubo.
Indoda ebukhona bakho nje ngeke ikwazi ukubuka amehlo akho. Njengomthetho, ubheka i-⅔ yomzimba wakho. Kungenzeka uhlangane naye ngokubheka kuphela uma kwenzeka kunesidingo esikhulu. Ubeka izandla zakhe endaweni ye-hip, futhi amasokisi akhe emlenze athunyelwa eceleni kwakho.
Lokhu kungakhohliswa akubonakali kakhulu, kepha lokho kuziphatha kwabesilisa kuthinta ukuqonda kowesifazane.
Umshado awukuphoqeleli ukuthi ugcwalise zonke izimfanelo zomunye nomunye
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# 3. Indoda iqala ukubeka ingcindezi ngesihawu
Kulesi simo, indoda izokuthinta ngokukholisa kanye nezindaba ngempilo yakhe enzima: ikhononda ngomndeni wakhe, umsebenzi, abangane - nakho konke ukuze ubonise umusa nokwazisa. Mayelana nothando kulesi simo alwenzi nenkulumo. Uyisisulu.
#Four. Ukufaka kulokho ongafuni ukukwenza
Sizodunyiswa, hhayi kubo bonke abesifazane abanikeza ubulili obungokobulili obungokomlomo, kepha akubona bonke abantu abakulungele ukwamukela, ngakho-ke baya kumaqhinga ahlukahlukene. Iningi lihlangana kaningi nemibhangqwana eshadile, lapho indoda ikhuluma ngawo wonke umthwalo wemfanelo: "Ungazibona kanjani unkosikazi omuhle futhi ungajabuli umyeni wakho?" Abesifazane abaningi bacabangisisa kakhulu umsebenzi wobulili abeke kuye kanye nemvume yokushada. Khumbula ukuthi awuyena izimo ezejwayelekile ukwenza lokho ongakufuni. Ngisho nangenxa yomyeni wakhe.
Amadoda angaba nobuqili obukhulu
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#Five. Indoda izama ukukubiza ngokuthi unembeza
Noma ungadingi lutho futhi ungafuni ngisho nokusikisela, umuntu angabhuka itafula endaweni yokudlela ngaphandle kwemvume yakho, futhi uma kwenzeka ukwenqaba kwakho, kuthukuthele ukuthi wephula amacebo - Isebenza ngempela kwabaningi.
Ake siqonde indoda yakho ukuthi ngokwengxenye ngokumelene nokubonakaliswa kohlelo olungaxoxi nawe, futhi ngeke "ukhokhe" indlela afisa ngayo. Uma ukusho ngokuzethemba, ukumbheka ngqo emehlweni, ngeke afune ukukuhoxisa ngokwengeziwe.