Abagabo benshi bumvise ibijyanye no gukoresha imibonano mpuzabitsina no gukoresha imibonano mpuzabitsina ndetse no ku rubanza icyo ari cyo cyose batangiye kuzuka muriki gihe. Ariko, abagabo ubwabo ntabwo ari abera - bakunze no kwirengagiza abagore, nkuko bigaragara kuri bo, mugihe cyo kwihorera, ariko nabo ubwabo ntibashaka kubibona. Hariho n'amasomo yihariye, aho abagabo bazina nabo "ubuhanzi".
Umugabo ntagomba gusaba ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose
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#umuntu. Umugabo aragerageza kugutera icyaha
Nukuri bamwe muri mwe wigeze bumvise interuro nkiyi: "Wanze, kuko utankunda!" Abadafite uburambe mu bijyanye n'imibanire, umukobwa yahise atangira "gukosora uko ibintu bimeze, ariko menya neza ko uwo mugabo atayihagaritse - akimara kubyemera, azazamuka afite imyumvire idashimishije muri wewe .
Nyuma yibyo, abantu ntibagomba gutungurwa mugihe umugore asabye ibisabwa, urugero - nta mibonano mpuzabitsina atasuye iminsi mikuru ye. Nabo ubwabo bagomba kubiryozwa.
# 2. Umugabo aragerageza kugutakaza isura ye yose
Uku Kwakirwa bibaho kurwego rwumugabo: Umugabo ntakeneye kwiga byumwihariko. Umugore akimara kuvuka imbere ye, amufata inzozi ze, isura ye izavuga byose kuri nyiracyo.
Umugabo imbere yawe ntazashobora kureba amaso yawe. Nk'ubutegetsi, abona ko ⅔ y'umubiri wawe. Birashoboka kumusanganira hamwe no kureba gusa mugihe bikenewe cyane. Ashira amaboko mu gace k'ibibuno, kandi amasoko ye yometse yoherejwe kuruhande.
Iyi minigulation ntabwo igaragara cyane, ariko imyitwarire nkiyi yigira ingaruka kumatsinda yumugore.
Gushyingiranwa ntibigutegeka gusohoza ibyifuzo byose byundi
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# 3. Umugabo atangira gushyira igitutu ku mpuhwe
Muri ibi bihe, umugabo azakugiraho ingaruka kujijuka ninkuru zubuzima bwe bugoye: yitotombera umuryango we, akazi, inshuti - nibintu byose kugirango ugaragaze neza kandi wicuze mugenzi wawe. Kubyerekeye urukundo muriki kibazo ntiruhinduka imvugo. Niwe wahohotewe.
#gukora Aragushinyagura kubyo udashaka gukora
Tuzubahwa, ntabwo twubahwa kubagore bose bishimira imibonano mpuzabitsina mu kanwa, ariko ntabwo abantu bose biteguye kubyemera, bityo bakajya ku mayeri atandukanye. Cyane cyane ko uhura nabashakanye, mugihe umugabo atangaza ko ari inshingano zose: "Nigute ushobora kwibwira ko ufite umugore mwiza kandi ntukanezeza umugabo wawe?" Abagore benshi babona neza inshingano zishingiye ku mibonano mpuzabitsina yinjiye hamwe nukwemera kurongora. Wibuke ko utari ibihe bisanzwe byo gukora ibyo udashaka. Ndetse kubwa mugabo we.
Abagabo barashobora kuba amayeri cyane
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#ibisobanuro. Umugabo aragerageza kukwita umutimanama
Nubwo ntacyo usaba kandi ntanubwo umuntu ashobora gutondekanya ameza muri resitora utabanje kubiherwa uruhushya, kandi mugihe wanze ko wanze, kandi mugihe wanze ko wanze gahunda - mubyukuri birakangurira benshi.
Reka twumve umugabo wawe ko uhanganye cyane kwigaragaza kwa gahunda utabiganiriye nawe, kandi ntabwo ugiye "kwishyura" nkuko ashaka. Niba ubivuze ufite icyizere, umureba neza mumaso, ntazashaka kugukuramo byinshi.