Namhlanje sinenani elikhulu labantu phantse yonke imihla, kwaye umnxibelelanisi akasoloko emnandi. Kunzima ukuphepha incoko engathandekiyo, ngakumbi ukuba awuqhelisele ukukhusela imida yakho. Sigqibe kwelokuba sikuncede uphume kwimeko engathandekiyo, uqokelele amaxesha aliqela osiseko ongazenzisiyo ongenamdla ngokulandelayo.
Guqula i-vector yencoko
Njengomthetho, kunzima ukuphazamisa umntu kwisiqingatha segama, kwaye ke uzithuthuzele, uphulaphule esiphelweni. Uninzi lwabantu, abantu baxelela into kubomi babo, kwaye kule meko ukuhamba ngomlomo kunzima kakhulu ukuyeka. Kwenziwe ntoni? Yonke into ilula: Kufuneka "unciphise" unxibelelwano lwakho. Zama ukumbulala kwi-monologue yakhe kunye nebinzana: "Mamela, kwaye bendinayo ..." kwaye ndiqalise ibali sele likho malunga nawe. Emva kwexesha elithile, bathi, bathi, mabavele, kule meko awuyi kuyiphazamisa i-monologue yakho-umnxibelelanisi akasayi kuphelelwa nguwe kwaye uya kuphuma kakuhle. Kubalulekile: Yenza iskimu silula kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Zigcine ezandleni zakho
Kwenzeka ukuba bacaphukise kakhulu endleleni, kwaye rhoqo asiqhelananga nathi. Khumbula naluphi na uhambo lwakho kwizithuthi zikawonke-wonke xa umntu ongamaziyo ngequbuliso ethatha isigqibo sokuphalaza umphefumlo. Ukuba ibali liphuma lingathandabulanga, iingxaki sele ziqala apha. Kwaye ukuba ungaphuma ebhasini, emva koko uhambo olude ufumanisa ukuba itshixelwe ngokwenyani. Kodwa nantsi indlela yokuphuma: Zama ukuba ungasabeki ngobukrakra kuyo yonke into oyithethayo, eyona nto imbi kule meko iya kwiithoni eziphakamileyo. Xa kuya kubakho ikhefu kwibali lebali, ngentlonelo baxele into ofuna ukuphumla kwaye uthathe into ezandleni zakho, kungcono ukuba une-headsenes, njengoko kufuneka uqonde ukuba ngawo wonke "umnqweno" awuyiva elandelayo Isahluko samabali anomdla (ngokombhali ngokwayo, ngokwendalo).
Ungabhekisa kwimicimbi engxamisekileyo
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I-Lean (ngokoqobo)
Ukuba imeko ivumela, zama ukuphuma uye kwindlu yangasese okanye kwigumbi elikufutshane. Kukho ithuba lokuba uMnxibelelanisi wakho akasayi kuphinda akhumbule imbuyekezo yakho, ethi yona ikuxelele ngogonyamelo malunga nemizuzu elishumi eyadlulayo, kwaye unokwenza entsha, incoko emnandi ngakumbi. Nangona kunjalo, kuyo nayiphi na imeko, akufuneki ukuba ubaleke kwaye ubaleke embindini wencoko, ngakumbi ukuba ushiya konke, qala ngegama elithi: "Uxolo, kufuneka ndibeke ikati / Indoda iya kubuya "njalo njalo.
Ifowuni i-boltun.
Enye yezona ntlobo zingathandekiyo zabadibeneyo "zixhonywe" kumgca womhlobo / umhlobo. Unokutsalela umnxeba xa usekhaya, emsebenzini, uxakekile ngento ebalulekileyo, njengommiselo, uya kusebenza ngokukhawuleza, awuyi kuba nexesha lokuthetha ukuba baxakekile. Ewe kunjalo, unokwenza ishishini ngokufanayo, nangona kunjalo, kwenzeka ukuba umnxibelelanisi afune indlela awasabela ngayo kumazwi akhe, kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba kuya kufuneka uhlale. Setha kwakhona umnxeba akusoloko kufanelekile. Njengoko besitshoyo, akukho bugqwirha, ngentlonelo baxelelwa ukuba baphinde babuye, kwakamsinya nje ukuba ukhulule. Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba umntu akazukuxelela nantoni na ebalulekileyo kwaye ikubiza nje ukuba ubulale ixesha-yakho kwaye kubandakanya - ukubiza, ukulibala.
Kodwa yintoni omele uyenze ukuba umntu osebenza naye okanye iqabane lakho lingumnxibelelanisi oqinisekileyo, onokuthi "ahambe" ngokutyibilikayo "ayokuqala" kwincoko yeshishini? Kule meko, unokubhekisa kwizango kwaye umcele ukuba abhalele i-imeyile yakho-ke ungabhabha lonke ulwazi olungeyomfuneko kwaye uphendule kuphela kwimiba yeshishini kuphela.