Lero tili ndi anthu ambiri tsiku lililonse, ndipo yemwe amasunthalumudwitsidwa nthawi zonse amakhala wosangalala nthawi zonse. Zimakhala zovuta kupewa zokambirana zosasangalatsa, makamaka ngati simunazolowere kuteteza malire anu. Tinaganiza zokuthandizani kuti muchoke pamavuto osasangalatsa, kutola mphindi zingapo zomwe mungakwanitse kuyankhula mobwerezabwereza.
Sinthani vekitala
Monga lamulo, ndife ovuta kusokoneza munthu mwa mawu, chifukwa chake mumadzizunza, ndikumvera mapeto. Nthawi zambiri, anthu amamuuza china chake m'miyoyo yawo, ndipo m'munda uno woyenda bwino umakhala wovuta kusiya. Zoyenera kuchita? Chilichonse ndi chosavuta: muyenera "kudula" foni yanu. Yesani kuphatikizira monolologie wake ndi mawu akuti: "Mverani, inenso ndinali nazo ..." ndipo yambani kale nkhani yanu. Pakupita kwa kanthawi, akuti, Amati, milandu yadzidzidzi idabuka monololol yanu - Interloctor sadzathetsedwa ndi umunthu wanu ndipo uzituluka bwino. Chofunika: Chitani chiwembucho mophweka.
Khalani m'manja mwanu
Zimachitika kuti anthu okwiyitsa kwambiri panjira, ndipo nthawi zambiri sitidziwa nafe. Kumbukirani maulendo anu aliwonse oyendera anthu anthu mlendo, mnansi mwadzidzidzi asankha kutsanulira mzimu. Ngati nkhaniyi ikhala yosasangalatsa, mavuto ayamba kale apa. Ndipo ngati mutha kutuluka m'basi, ndiye kuti mumapita maulendo ataliatali mumapezeka kuti amatsekeredwa ndi wotanganidwa kwambiri. Koma pali njira yotulutsira: Yesetsani kuti musamachitepo kanthu mwachiwawa pazonse zomwe mukunena, chinthu choyipa kwambiri pamenepa ndikupita kumatongu okwera. Pomwe padzakhala pang'ono munkhaniyi, adanenapo zaulosi zomwe mukufuna kupumula ndikutenga china m'manja mwanu, monga muyenera kumvetsetsa izi ndi "chikhumbo" chotsatira sichimva chotsatira Mutu wa nkhani zosangalatsa (malingana ndi wofalitsayo, mwachilengedwe).
Mutha kutanthauza zinthu mwachangu
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Ngati zinthu zikalola, yesani kutuluka mu chimbudzi kapena m'chipinda chapafupi. Pali kuthekera kwakuti wina yemwe akumuthandizanso kuti abwererenso, omwe ndi achiwawa kwambiri adakuwuzani pafupifupi mphindi khumi zapitazo, ndipo mutha kupanga chatsopano, kuyankhula bwino kwambiri. Komabe, munthawi iliyonse, simuyenera kulumpha ndikuthawa pakati pa zokambirana, makamaka ngati muchoka kuzonse, yambani ndi mawu akuti: "Pepani, ndiyenera kuyika mwana / kudyetsa mphaka / Mwamuna adzabweranso "ndi zina.
Foni boltun.
Chimodzi mwa mitundu yosasangalatsa kwambiri yolumikizira amayimilira "ndikupachika" pamzere wa bwenzi / mzanga. Amatha kuyitanitsa mukakhala kunyumba, kuntchito, ndikutanganidwa ndi china chake chofunikira, monga lamulo, zimachitapo kanthu mwachangu, simudzakhala ndi nthawi yonena kuti ali otanganidwa. Zachidziwikire, mutha kuchita bizinesi yofanana, komabe, zimachitika kuti wina yemwe akuwathandiza azichita ndi mawu ake, ndipo zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuchita. Bwezeretsani kuyimbirako sikuli koyenera nthawi zonse. Monga tidanenera, palibe choyipa chomwe chimanenedweratu mwaulemu chomwe chimabwerera, mukamasula. Ngati mukumvetsetsa kuti munthu sakukuuzani chilichonse chofunikira ndikungokuimbirani kuti muphe nthawi - yanu komanso kuphatikiza - simungathe kuyimbira, kutanthauza kuiwala.
Koma choti ndichite ngati mnzake kapena mnzake yemwe ali ndi bizinesi, yemwe angakhale bwino "kusunthira" kwa munthu ndikuyamba "sitima" ku bizinesi? Pankhaniyi, mutha kutanthauzanso ntchito ndikumupempha kuti alembe imelo yanu - kuti muumbitse zambiri zosafunikira ndikuyankha nkhani zokhazokha za yemwe akuwathandiza.