Agree, the dreams of the dead are often dream-nightmares. By virtue of superstitions and beliefs, dreams with such a content we see something "negative", frightening. However, if you set the superstition to the side and learn a similar sleep, a new aspect may appear for interpretation. So, without unnecessary preludes, the example of our today's dreamy.
"Recently, in my life there was a moment when it was necessary to act, despite my fear, it seems to be a stupid. In life, I did not allow this myself. But I could and did. In parallel with life, I had a dream with my life: "In front of me there are my dead relatives, friends who really died for a long time. I stand in front of them and everyone says something, and each of them also tells me personally in response. The content of the answers I do not remember, but the general meaning is that it is not scary to die, there is a life here. Sleep excuses, pushing to goosebumps. With this I woke up. "
What an interesting example! Mmm !!!
Baister! First, the content lies on the surface. The dream is obtained through a dream reflection of a significant life stage. What used to be for a line of life meant "death", now quite real, and there is life for this feature too.
And the second important aspect is connected more than family psychology philosophy. The Fathers of the Family System Approach - Anselyin Schitsberger and Bert Helinger - they say that there are alive and dead family members in the family, everyone has its influence on living now. For example, the great-grandfather of the family who fought and became a hero may be an unshakable hero and the ideal of masculinity for current generations. Not noticing themselves, women compare their husbands with him, and men make actions, "worthy of the Grand ancestor." Or women who lost the child give the subsequent offspring of the task to compensate for the loss and live the life of "for two." In other words, both living, and dead family members have weight in the family system and create around them the movement of other participants.
Thus, the dream of our heroine directly addresses her to the ancestors, settles a personal conversation between them. And each of them sends her a message about her current life and the general meaning that "Life is over the edge of her ideas about life." Despite the horror and superstition, our dreams received a direct blessing from their ancestors to the risk and expanding his idea of life. Well, not a miracle?
And what dreams of you? Examples of your dreams send by mail: [email protected].
Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin