Emera, inzozi z'abapfuye zikunze kurota-inzozi mbi. Kubera imiziririzo n'imyizerere, inzozi zirimo ibintu nk'ibi tubona ikintu "kibi", giteye ubwoba. Ariko, niba washyizeho imiziririzo kuruhande hanyuma wige ibitotsi bisa, ikintu gishya gishobora kugaragara kubisobanuro. Rero, nta kirego kidakenewe, urugero rwinzozi zacu zuyu munsi.
"Vuba aha, mu buzima bwanjye hari akanya igihe byari ngombwa gukora, nubwo batinya, bisa nkaho ari ibicucu. Mu buzima, ntabwo na wemeye. Ariko ndabishoboye kandi ndabikora. Mugereranije nubuzima, narose ubuzima bwanjye: "Imbere yanjye hariho bene wabo bapfuye, inshuti zipfuye zimaze igihe kinini. Ndahagarara imbere yabo kandi abantu bose baravuga ikintu, kandi buri wese muri bo ambwira ku giti cyanjye. Ibiri mubisubizo sinibuka, ariko ibisobanuro rusange ni uko bidatera gupfa, hari ubuzima hano. Sinzira urwitwazo, gusunika ingagi. Nabyutse. "
Mbega urugero rushimishije! Mmm !!!
Barindi! Ubwa mbere, ibirimo biri hejuru. Inzozi ziboneka mugaragaza inzozi zifatika. Ibimaze kubaho kumiterere yubuzima bivuze "urupfu", ubu rwose, kandi hariho ubuzima kubwiki kibazo.
Kandi ibintu bya kabiri byingenzi bihujwe na filozofiya ya psychologiya ya psychologiya. Ba serivise yuburyo bwumuryango Bilder - Anselyin Schissger na Bert Headsor - bavuga ko hariho abagize umuryango mu muryango kandi bapfuye mumuryango, abantu bose bafite uruhare mubuzima. Kurugero, sogokuru-sogokuru wumuryango warwanye kandi aba intwari ashobora kuba intwari idashidikanywaho nigitekerezo cyubugabo kubisekuru byubu. Kutitonda ubwabo, abagore bagereranya abagabo babo na we, kandi abagabo bakora ibikorwa, "bakwiriye abakurambere bakuru." Cyangwa abagore babuze umwana batanga urubyaro rwakurikiyeho inshingano zo kwishyura igihombo kandi babeho ubuzima bwa "kuri babiri." Muyandi magambo, kubaho, nabagize umuryango wapfuye bafite uburemere muri gahunda yumuryango kandi bashyire hafi yabo kugenda kwabandi bitabiriye abandi bitabiriye.
Rero, inzozi z'umuriro ryacu imubwira abakurambere, ikemura ikiganiro ku giti cye hagati yabo. Kandi buri wese muri bo atohereza ubutumwa buvuga ku buzima bwe n'ubu busobanuro rusange ko "ubuzima buri hejuru y'ibitekerezo bye by'ubuzima." Nubwo afite ubwoba n'imiziririzo, inzozi zacu zabonye umugisha utaziguye na basekuruza mu kaga kandi ugagura igitekerezo cye cyubuzima. Nibyiza, ntabwo ari igitangaza?
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Maria Dyachkova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yibikorwa byimikurire yimyidagaduro Marika Khazin