Bvumirana, zviroto zvevakafa zvinowanzorota-hope. Nekuda kwekusarudza mashura uye zvinotendwa, zviroto zvine zvirimo zvatinoona chimwe chinhu "chisina kunaka", chinotyisa. Nekudaro, kana iwe ukaisa mashura kudivi uye udzidze kurara kwakafanana, chimiro chitsva chingaite sekududzira. Saka, pasina kufungidzira zvisina kukodzera, muenzaniso wenyaya yedu yeroto.
"Nguva pfupi yadarika, muhupenyu hwangu kwaive kwechinguvana pazvinenge zvakafanira kuti uite chimwe chinhu, kunyangwe ndichitya, zvinoita kunge benzi. Muhupenyu, ini handina kubvumira izvi pachangu. Asi ini ndaigona uye ndakadaro. Mukuwirirana nehupenyu, ndakarota nehupenyu hwangu: "Pamberi pangu mune hama dzangu dzakafa, shamwari dzakafira kwenguva yakareba. Ini ndinomira pamberi pavo uye munhu wese anotaura chimwe chinhu, uye mumwe nemumwe wavo anondiudzawo pachezvake. Zviri mukati memhinduro dzandisina kuyeuka, asi izvo zvinoreva kuti hazvisi zvekutya kufa, kune hupenyu pano. Kurara zvikonzero, kusundira kune goosebumps. Naizvozvi ndakamuka. "
Ndeupi muenzaniso unonakidza! Mmm !!!
BABASHE! Kutanga, zvirimo zviri pamusoro. Iko kurota kunowanikwa kuburikidza nekurota kwekurota kwechikamu chakakosha hupenyu. Izvo zvaimboita kuti uve mutsetse wehupenyu zvaireva "rufu", zvino chaicho, uye kune hupenyu hweichi chikamu.
Uye chechipiri chakakosha chikamu chakabatana kupfuura mhuri yepfungwa yePsychology. Madzibaba emaitiro emhuri nzira - Anselyin Schitsberger uye Bert Helinger - Vanoti kune nhengo dzemhuri dzepenyu uye dzakafa mumhuri, munhu wese ane pesvedzero yayo pakurarama izvozvi. Semuenzaniso, sekuru vakuru vemhuri vakarwa uye vakava gamba rinogona kunge riri gamba risingazungunuke uye rakanakira kusarudzika kwezvizvarwa zvazvino. Vasingazvizive, vakadzi vanofananidza varume vavo, uye vanhu vanoita zviito, "vakafanirawo tateguru mukuru." Kana vakadzi vakarasikirwa nemwana vanopa vana vakatevera vebasa kuti vabvunzwe nekurarama uye kurarama hupenyu hwe "kwevaviri." Mune mamwe mazwi, mupenyu, uye nhengo dzemhuri dzakafa dzine uremu mumamiriro emhuri uye dzikagadzira dzakakomberedza kufamba kwevamwe vatori vechikamu.
Saka, kurota kweiyo heroine yedu zvakananga kwaari kumadzitateguru, kugadzirisa hurukuro pachedu pakati pavo. Uye mumwe nemumwe wavo akamutumira meseji pamusoro pehupenyu hwake hwazvino uye zvakajairika zvinoreva kuti "hupenyu huri pamusoro pemupendero wemazano ake nezve hupenyu." Pasinei nekutya uye mashura, zviroto zvedu zvakagamuchira chikomborero chakananga kubva kumadzitateguru avo kune njodzi uye kuwedzera pfungwa yake yehupenyu. Zvakanaka, kwete chishamiso?
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Maria Dyachkova, Psychologist, mhuri yekurapa uye inotungamira kudzidziswa kwekuwedzera kwekudzidzira kudzidzisa Center Mika Kika Khazin