Ezikhathini zasendulo, abesifazane bacishe babe baze bajwayelane nabokuqala nabamele ubulili obuhlukile, babelindele yena uqobo. Kulezi zinsuku akunangqondo. Uma unganqumi ukukwazi indoda oyithandayo, khona-ke ngikholwe, ngoba uzokwenza umuntu onqumayo. Akusho ngokuphelele ukuthi ngigqugquzela abesifazane ukuthi bafune indawo yabesilisa futhi bangalindi kuze kube yilapho indoda izothatha izenzo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi: Uma umuntu ngokuzumayo athande umcimbi wezwe, kufanele ukhumbule ukuthi kunamaqhinga amaningi abesifazane asebenzisa ongamhlangabezana naye, ungamvumeli ukuthi aqonde ukuthi lesi sinyathelo siye saqhubeka ngakuwe.
1. Ukubuza umbono wakhe
Cha ngowesilisa omkhulu ujule kunokuba uzizwe ubaluleke kakhulu, ikakhulukazi kowesifazane. Ummeleli ngamunye wesitezi wesilisa yimpova uma lona wesifazane elalela ngentshiseko izindaba zakhe nokubonisana ngalesi sihloko. Ngakho-ke, indlela enhle yokujwayelana nendoda ukucela umbono wayo ngendaba yanoma imuphi umbuzo, ingathandeki kuwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, udinga ukulalelisisa ngokucophelela, ubheke emehlweni e-interlocutor, futhi kwesinye isikhathi unikine ikhanda, wavumelana ngokuphelele nombono wakhe. Nazi izibonelo zemishwana ukuqala ingxoxo: "Uwuthanda kanjani lo mcimbi?", "Le yindawo enhle, akunjalo?", "Ucabanga ukuthini le filimu ku-" Oscar "?"
Ungaphangi konke. Kukhona umzuzu obalulekile (!). Imibuzo yakho akufanele ibe yimbi, idinga impendulo esetshenzisiwe noma iqukethe noma iyiphi inhlebo. Futhi ngikholwe, noma, noma ngabe, uqubuke, uzobuza umbuzo oyisiphukuphuku, ukumamatheka okuvuselelekayo ebusweni bakho kuzosindisa isimo.
2. Indoda - Defender!
Abesilisa ngokwemvelo yabavikeli babo, lapho bebhekene nokungakwazi ukusiza, bazama ngokushesha ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukusiza. Eyesibili nakomuntu, indlela efakazelwe: Dala isimo lapho ungenzi khona ngaphandle kokuxhaswa kwabesilisa. Ubuthaka kakhulu kangangokuba awukwazi ukuhambisa uSihlalo. Uthole ikhanda lami, futhi udinga ukuletha ingilazi yamanzi. Udinga ukuphuthuma ngokuphuthumayo, bese ukhohlwa amakhaya akho.
Ungaphangi konke. Into esemqoka ukungayihuduli usihlalo kulo lonke ihholo, ubonise ubuso bakho obuhloniphoyo umuntu angakusizi, futhi asondele futhi ambuze ngosizo, ekhombisa ukuthi uzokwazi ukubhekana nesicelo sakho. Ungakhohlwa ukumamatheka, ngoba ukumamatheka kudala izimangaliso!
3. Uwa ezingalweni zakhe
Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ulenga entanyeni yendoda oyithandayo, kepha kungani ungaweli ?! Manje ngizochaza engiyikho. Omunye umngane wami wayithanda ngempela insizwa, kodwa, ngenxa yamahloni akhe, wayengazi ukuthi angasondela kuye futhi akhulume, yize ayevame ukuhlangana emicimbini yezwe. Futhi ekhuleni efanayo yezwe, edlula kulokhu Mnu X, "ngenze" ngamphonsa kuye. Futhi manje indiza ezandleni zakhe, futhi yena, njengendoda enobuhle bangempela, ukhetha yena futhi ngokwakhe kuqala ingxoxo. By the way, phakathi nale ngxoxo kwavela ukuthi naye wayefuna ukuhlangana naye isikhathi eside, kodwa kwaba namahloni.
Ungaphangi konke. Into esemqoka - ungakhohlwa ukuthi lokhu ukusebenza okudlalayo, futhi ungaphindiseli, ngaphandle kwalokho kungaphela ngesibhedlela sakho noma i-cavalier yakho. By the way, kuvela indlela efanelekile yokuqomisana.
4. Yiba imfumbe kusihlwa!
Amadoda ahlala ethanda ukuxazulula imisebenzi eyinkimbinkimbi, ngakho-ke awukwazi ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala, kepha vele usize umuntu ukuthi awuphikisana nalesi sinyathelo ngasohlangothini sakhe. Ungaxhuma, ugeze isandla sakho, ukumamatheka.
Ungaphangi konke. Into esemqoka akukhona ukwedlula ngokweqile nge-mistroouseness futhi ungakwenzi ukuthi kuyaphazamiseka. Uma owesilisa engaphenduli ezimpawu zakho, kusho ukuthi akafuni ukuhlangana nawe noma angaqondi ukusikisela. Bese ubuka iphuzu lesi-5.
5. Ngitshele ukuqondisa "yebo"!
Kungani ungafiki futhi ungakhulumi naye ngokwakho. Ngikumele. Ngifuna ukusho - uthi, ngifuna ukuhlangana - hlangana! Abesilisa abayiziwula iningi futhi bazizwe bamanga futhi bangamakhemikhali, ngakho-ke uma kunentshisekelo, kungani ungamchazi ngokuqondile, ngaphandle kwemidlalo engadingekile. Nayi eminye imishwana efanelekile: "Sawubona! NginguJulia. Sizojwayelekile? "," Nsizwa, une-Chic Perfume! Ngabe i-Versace? Mina, ngasendleleni, uJulia ubizelwa! "
Ungaphangi konke. Into esemqoka ukungahleleki: Cha Easy and Frankness - nansi ihhashi lakho!
Futhi mhlawumbe, into ebaluleke kunazo zonke ukuzohlala uzihlale! Owesilisa obonisa kuqala ukungamboni, njengoba iningi likholelwa, nangamandla abesifazane. Ngakho-ke, ungesabi lutho futhi ulwe, amantombazane amahle!