Kumaxesha amandulo, abafazi baphantse baqhelana nobokuqala nabameli besini esahlukileyo, babelinde umntu ukuba abe nabo. Kule mihla kuyinto engafanelekanga. Ukuba awuthathi isigqibo sokwazi indoda oyithandayo, emva koko undikholelwa, kuba uya kwenza umntu othatha isigqibo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ayithethi ukuba ndiyabongoza abafazi ukuba bafune indawo eyindoda kwaye bangalindeli de indoda ithathe izenzo. Oku kuthetha: Ukuba indoda ithandile emsithweni wempangelo, kuya kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba kukho amaqhinga anengqondo esebenzisa onokuthi adibane naye, angamyekeli ukuba aqonde ukuba inyathelo lokuqala lenziwe.
1. Ukubuza uluvo lwayo
Hayi umntu omkhulu ngakumbi kunokuba uzive ebaluleke kakhulu, ngakumbi kumfazi. Ummeli ngamnye womgangatho oyindoda unompubulo ukuba umfazi uya kugqogqa ngamabali akhe nokuqiqa ngale nto okanye isihloko. Ke ngoko, indlela elungileyo yokuqhelana nendoda kukubuza uluvo lwayo ngombandela nawuphi na umbuzo, ungade ufumane umdla kuwe. Ngokubhekele phaya, kufuneka umamele ngononophelo, ujonge emehlweni omnxibelelanisi, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha engayinikina intloko, wavuma ngokupheleleyo umbono. Nantsi imizekelo yamabinzana ukuqala incoko: "Uwuthanda njani lo msitho?", "Yindawo entle, akunjalo?", "I-Oscar"? "
Ungayiphumi njani yonke into. Kukho into ebalulekileyo (!). Imibuzo yakho ayifanelanga ukuba imbi, ukufuna impendulo ebiyelweyo okanye iqulethe nayiphi na intlebendwane. Kwaye ndikholelwe, nokuba, ukugqwesa, uya kubuza umbuzo osisiyatha, uncumo oluhlaziyiweyo ebusweni bakho luya kuyigcina imeko.
2. Indoda-Umameli!
Amadoda ngokwemvelo yabakhuseli bawo, ke xa ejongene nokungancedi, bazama kwangoko ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukunceda. Okwesibini kwaye ngokobuqu, indlela eqinisekisiweyo: Yenza imeko apho ungayenzanga ngaphandle kwenkxaso yamadoda. Ubuthathaka kangangokuba awukwazi ukuhambisa isitulo. Uzuze intloko yam, kwaye kufuneka uze neglasi yamanzi. Uyayifuna ngokungxamisekileyo isibambo, kwaye ulibele amakhaya akho.
Ungayiphumi njani yonke into. Eyona nto iphambili kukungatsaleli isitulo ngokwakho ngeholo iphela, ebonisa ubuso bakho obotsheleyo kangangokuba indoda ingakuncedisi, kwaye isondele ukuba uya kujamelana nesicelo sakho. Ungalibali ukuncuma, kuba uncumo ludala imimangaliso!
3. Yiwela ezingalweni zakhe
Oku akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka uxhome kwintamo yendoda oyithandayo, kodwa kutheni ungawi ?! Ngoku ndiza kuyicacisa into endiyiyo. Omnye umhlobo wam wathanda kakhulu umfana, kodwa, ngenxa yolwazelelo, wayengazi ukuba angayini kuye kwaye athethe, nangona edla ngokunxulumana neziganeko zehlabathi. Kwaye kwiRaut enye yelizwe, edlula ngalo mnumzana x, "andimtyhalela ngokupheleleyo kuye. Kwaye ngoku utshaba ezandleni zakhe, kwaye yena, indoda eyinyani, ithatha yena kwaye iqala incoko. Ngendlela, ngeli ncoko yaqala ukuba nayo ifuna ukudibana naye ixesha elide, kodwa yafika ineentloni.
Ungayiphumi njani yonke into. Eyona nto iphambili- ungalibali ukuba le yindlela yokudlala, kwaye musa ukubuyisa, kungenjalo inokuphelisa ukulala esibhedlele wena okanye i-cavalier yakho. Ngendlela, ijika ngendlela egqithisileyo yokuthandana.
4. Yiba yimbonakalo yokuhlwa!
Amadoda ahlala ethanda ukusombulula imisebenzi entsonkothileyo, ukuze ungathathi inyathelo lokuqala, kodwa hima nje kwindoda engahambelani neli nyathelo ecaleni kwakhe. Ungayifumana, hlamba isandla sakho, uncume.
Ungayiphumi njani yonke into. Into ephambili ayizukugcina ngokungafihlisiyo kwaye ingakwenzi ukuba ingenamsebenzi. Ukuba indoda ayiphenduli kwimiqondiso yakho, oko kuthetha ukuba akafuni kudibana nawe okanye akaqondi icebiso. Emva koko jonga inqaku le-5.
5. Ndixelele ingxolo "Ewe"!
Kutheni ungafiki kwaye ungathethi naye. Ndimkile. Ndifuna ukuthi-yithi, ndifuna ukudibana-ukudibana! Amadoda awobudenge uninzi lwenxalenye kwaye aziva ubuxoki kunye ne chemistry, ngoko ukuba kukho umdla, kutheni ungamxeleli ngokuthe ngqo, ngaphandle kwemidlalo engeyonyani. Nanga amabinzana afanelekileyo: "Molo! NdinguJulia. Siya kuqhelana? "," Mfana, uneziqholo ze-chic; Ngaba kuvinjelwa? Mna, ngasendleleni, uJulia ubizwa! "
Ungayiphumi njani yonke into. Eyona nto iphambili ayitshintshi: Hayi "Umama kamama wakho akafuneki" okanye "ndikujonga ngokuhlwa kwaye ndiyaqonda ukuba andinakukwazi ukufundisisa igama lenkosana." Ilula kwaye iFrank-Nantsi ihashe lakho!
Kwaye mhlawumbi, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuzihlala! Amadoda kuqala abonakalise ukuba angabonakali, njengokuba uninzi lukholwa, nakumandla abafazi. Ke ngoko, musa ukoyika nantoni na kunye namanenekazi amnandi, amanenekazi!