Kubukeka sengathi intsha yanamuhla ayinakuba nezinkinga ngempilo eseduze, uma kuphela ngoba ubulili butholakala kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka, yiziphi izizukulwane ezedlule abakwazanga ukuphupha. Futhi nokho izazi zezengqondo zingaphezu kwe-alamu - umsebenzi wezocansi wabantu aneminyaka engu-18 kuya ku-34 cishe uhhafu wehle, uma kuqhathaniswa nenani labaxhumana nabo ngokocansi labazali babo. Sinqume ukuthola ukuthi, yisiphi isizathu sokulahlwa kweziguli ngocansi ngekhulu lama-21.
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Namuhla ubulili buyekile ukuba ukuzijabulisa okuyinhloko
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Ababelethi bahlobana kanjani nalokhu
Impela uke wezwa kaninginingi ukuthi izingane zabangane bakho sebevele besemngceleni weNyuvesi: "Nokho, lapho ushada / ushada uzoshada? Isikhathi ". Ngokuvamile abazali baphendula: "Kuzoba nesikhathi, okokuqala - imfundo nomsebenzi." Kubukeka sengathi yonke into inengqondo, kepha ngenkathi "ingane" iphila ngokwesikimu esinjalo, isithakazelo esimweni sobulili sempilo icishe inyamalala, ngoba akufanele idumaze abazali abakhazimulayo bengane yakhe egqamile. Ngenxa yalokho - isipiliyoni sobulili sihlehlisiwe ebhokisini elide.
Okuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala okungenakuphumelela
Njengoba wazi, ukuthintana okokuqala ngokocansi kushiya umbono omkhulu, ikakhulukazi uma sikhuluma ngowesifazane. Amadoda athola lula kancane. Kuyiqiniso, akuvamile ukuthi ngubani ongakhumbula okokuqala, ngenkathi ebambe umoya wakhe, kepha ubudlova obukhulu, ukuntuleka kokuqonda phakathi kwabalingani kungashiya izinkumbulo ezingezinhle kakhulu. Ngemuva kwalokhu kunzima ukunquma koxhumana naye omusha.
Ukutholakala Kwezinsizakalo Zobulili
Uma kwenzeka eminyakeni engamashumi amabili edlule ukuphuma endlini, ukuzama injabulo nge-disco noma endaweni ye-cafe, namuhla ungajwayela umuntu ngaphandle kokushiya amahora ambalwa, ngemuva kwamahora ambalwa, okusha Ukwazi kungaza kuwe futhi kuthathe "ikhofi". Ucansi lwayeka ukuba yinto ethokozisayo - wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi usuku luzophela luni. Ngokwemvelo, abantu abasha abanazo izifiso baphinde babuthana ukuze bahlangane nomuntu abangazi nhlobo, bachitha isikhathi kuye, yize esikhundleni salokho ungachitha kusihlwa njengoba kufana nalokho. Ubusondelene selivele liphume ohlwini lwezokuzijabulisa, kunalokho, ludinga ukulungiselela okuthile, futhi ingxenye enkulu yokuziphatha. Millennialys akafuni ukuchitha isikhathi kwinqubo engahle ingathandeki futhi ihehe ngendlela angathanda ngayo.