Kubonakala ngathi ulutsha lwangoku lungenakuba neengxaki zobomi obusenyongweni, ukuba kuphela kuba kuphela ngesondo kuphela ukuba kunokwenzeka, ukuba izizukulwana zangaphambili azinakuphupha. Kwaye oochwephesha bengqondo bangaphaya kwe-alamu - isenzo sesondo sabantu abaneminyaka eli-18 ukuya kweli-34 phantse bayancipha, ukuba uthelekiswa nenani labazali babo ngesondo. Sigqibe kwelokuba sifumanise, siyintoni isizathu sokuba isigulana sikushiywe ngesondo kule nkulungwane yama-21.
Ngaba yonke into ngolungelelwano lokuzithemba?
Ukuba inkalo yobomi yesondo inxibelelana kakhulu ne-phyology, emva koko umfazi kufuneka alungiseleleke ngokuyintloko. Ngokuphuhliswa kweenethiwekhi zentlalo kwakukho inani elikhulu lezinto ezidumileyo "ezivela ebantwini" - iibhlogs, ezazisasaza umfanekiso ongenakuthelekiswa nanto, ngakumbi xa kufikwa emfazini. Ngenxa yoko, ingxaki yokuzithemba, equkuqela kwingxaki nge-Lingwedo. Kubonakala ngathi isithixo esifanelekileyo kuphela kwi-tepi "i-Instagram" ithatha ingqalelo yeqabane elinye elifanelekileyo, abantu abaselula baqala ukuhlazisa izinto ezingenalo iqabane, khangela iqabane lakho lokwabelana ngesondo kwiimeko ezinjalo Njengoko uqonda, akukho mzamo uhleli kwaye umnqweno.
Namhlanje isondo sesondo liyekile ukuba yeyona nto iphambili yokuzonwabisa
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Banxibelelana njani nabazali ngale nto
Ngokuqinisekileyo uye wayiva indlela abantwana babahlobo bakho abasele bekumda weyunivesithi: "Ewe, xa utshata / utshatile? Lixesha". Abazali bahlala bephendula bathi: "Iya kuba nexesha, imfundo kunye nomsebenzi." Kubonakala ngathi yonke into inengqondo, kodwa ngelixa "umntwana" ephila ngokwesikimu esinjalo, enomdla kwicala lobomi liphantse lanyamalala umntwana wakhe. Ngenxa yoko - amava esini ahlehliswa kwibhokisi ende.
Amava okuqala angaphumelelanga
Njengoko uyazi, umfowunelwa wokuqala ngokwesondo ushiya umbono omkhulu, ngakumbi ukuba sithetha ngomfazi. Amadoda ahlangabezana lula. Ewe kona, kunqabile ukuba ngubani onokukhumbula okokuqala, ngelixa ebambe ukuphefumla kwakhe, kodwa ukunqanda kwakhe, ukunqongophala kokuqonda phakathi kwamaqabane kunokushiya iinkumbulo ezingathandekiyo. Emva koku kube nzima ukwenza isigqibo ngomfowunelwa omtsha.
Ukufikeleleka kweenkonzo zesondo
Ukuba kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini eyadlulayo ayemele azikhuphe ngaphandle endlini, ukuzama ulonwabo kwi-disco okanye kwi-cafe, namhlanje unokwazi umntu ngaphandle kokushiya indlu-umnqweno omkhulu, intsha Umanyano unokuza kuwe kwaye uthathe "ikofu". Isini sayeka ukuba yinto enomdla- wonke umntu uyazi ukuba lo mhla uza kuphelelwa njani. Ngokwemvelo, abantu abaselula abanayo iminqweno kwakhona ukuze bahlangane nomntu abangazaziyo, ukuba ungachitha ixesha layo, nangona ungachitha ngokuhlwa njengokuhlwa njengoko kunjalo. Ngokusondeleyo yayikukuluhlu lokuzonwabisa, ngokuchasene noko, ifuna ukulungiselela okuthile, kwaye uninzi lwenxalenye yokuziphatha. I-Millenialys ayifuni kuchitha ixesha ngenkqubo enokuthi ingabi mnandi kwaye inomdla njengoko ingathanda.