Ungaba umfazi ohle kakhulu ngokobulili naphandle, kepha uma umuntu engakhokhiswanga "eduze kwakhe okhethiwe, lonke isicwebezelisi sangaphandle ngeke kufane nencazelo. Sinqume ukukhuluma ngokuthi singaba kanjani 'yilokho' kuye ', lapho izintaba zifuna ukuguqula khona futhi zinqobe umhlaba, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ziseduze njalo.
Bonga indoda yakho
Akunandaba ukuthi umuzwa wakho wokubonga kusobala kangakanani kumuntu wakho ubalulekile ukuyiveza. Le ndoda ezwa ukudumisa ngisho nasemcimbini wayo ongabalulekile kakhulu, imane nje ikhanya: Ufuna ukuphinda i- "feat" ukubona impendulo yakho ngokushesha entweni yakhe futhi. Ngakho-ke, ungangenzi umdwebo ekubonisweni kwemizwelo emihle - Jabulani obala, indoda ibaluleke kakhulu.
Ungamlinganiseli Inkululeko Yakhe
Okubi kakhulu kunoma yimuphi umuntu ukulahlekelwa ubuholi, futhi akunandaba ukuthi yini. Okwesitezi esinamandla, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzwa amandla awo angavezwa ekwenzeni izixazululo ezingokwezifiso. Uma owesifazane eqhubeka egxeka umlingani wakhe, uveza izenzo zakhe ukunganele, indoda iqala 'i-boot ", futhi ingcindezi yowesifazane onjalo iyakwazi ukumelana neyodwa.
Ungafihli imizwa emihle
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Ungazami ukuthatha indawo yakhe
Iningi labesifazane lifuna ukwesekwa unomphela endodeni yabo nasekuthembekeni emuva ezimweni ezinzima. Lapho owesifazane eqala ukukhombisa ngenkuthalo izimfanelo zobuholi, indoda nje ayiboni mqondo ukudonsa kanzima, ngoba owesifazane wakhe uhlala ethi: "Ngiyakwazi, ungakhuphuli." Ingabe indlela enjalo ingakhuthaza umlingani wakho ekufezeni okukhulu? Ungacabangi. Mnike ithuba lokuba yindoda futhi uthathe umthwalo ezimweni ezikhona ezimweni ezidinga isinqumo sowesilisa.
Nikeza indoda ithuba lokuba yikho
Elinye iphutha labesifazane elidumile, "ukudonsa" kusuka emandleni omuntu, kuzama ukulungisa umuntu okhulile. Akekho ophelele, ngakho-ke ufuna ukuba umlingani azoba ngcono kunalokho, okungenani akunangqondo. Abesifazane abaningi bagxila ezicini ezingezinhle zohlobo lwendoda yabo, behlise izinzuzo ezibaluleke kakhulu zobuntu bakhe. Akunzima-ke umuntu akhuthazelele ukuhlambalaza njalo kanye nengxoxo yakho ngamaminithi akhe nomngane. Akufanele umangale ukuthi uzoqala ukuhamba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Shintsha ukunaka ezinhlangothini zalo ezinhle, fuete ukuzethemba kwakhe - indoda ayisoze yashiya owesifazane ongakhulisa umoya wakhe.