Ungabelana ngesondo ngesondo kwaye ungapheliyo onomtsalane, kodwa ukuba indoda ayibizwa ngokuba "ihlawuliswa" ecaleni kwabanyuliweyo bakhe, yonke i-gloss yangaphandle ayiyi kuba nentsingiselo. Sigqibe kwelokuba sithethe ngendlela yokuba "yiyo" kuye, yona, yona, ezo ntaba zifuna ukujika zize zisoyise umhlaba, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu - zihlala zikufuphi.
Yiba nombulelo kwindoda yakho
Nokuba imvakalelo yakho yombulelo kwindoda yakho ibalulekile ukuyichaza. Indoda eyayive indumiso kwaye kwithuba lakhe elingenakuthelekiswa nanto, sikhanya nje: Ufuna ukuphindaphinda "feat" ukuze abone impendulo yakho ekhawulezileyo kwakhona. Ke ngoko, musa ukufuya ukubonakaliswa kweemvakalelo ezintle - vuya ngokuvulekileyo, le ndoda ibaluleke kakhulu.
Sukunqanda inkululeko yakhe
Eyona nto imbi kakhulu kuyo nayiphi na indoda kukuphulukana nobunkokeli, kwaye ayinamsebenzi. Kumgangatho oqinileyo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uve amandla ayo anokuboniswa ekwenzeni izisombululo zenzolobisayo. Ukuba umntu obhinqileyo uhlala egxeka iqabane lakhe, echaza isenzo sakhe sokudibana, indoda iqala 'ukuyibhokoxa ", kwaye uxinzelelo lomfazi luyakwazi ukumelana nokuba kude kuye wonke umntu.
Sukufihla iimvakalelo ezintle
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Sukuzama ukuthatha indawo yakhe
Uninzi lwabasetyhini lufuna inkxaso esisigxina kwindoda yabo kunye nemva ethembekileyo kwiimeko ezinzima. Xa ibhinqa liqala ukubonisa iimpawu zobunkokeli, indoda nje ayijongi nje ukuba yingqondo, kuba umfazi wakhe uhlala esithi: "Andikwazi ukukhwela." Ngaba indlela enjalo inokukhuthaza iqabane lakho kwizinto ezinkulu eziphumezileyo? Sukucinga. Mnike ithuba lokuba yindoda kwaye uthatha uxanduva kwiimeko ezifuna isigqibo sendoda.
Nika indoda ithuba lokuba nguwe
Enye impazamo yabasetyhini edumileyo, "ukutsala" kumkhosi wendoda, kuzama ukulungisa umntu okhulileyo. Akukho mntu ugqibelele, kwaye ke ukuba ufuna ukuba neqabane ukuba abe ngcono kunathi, ubuncinci akukho ngqiqweni. Abafazi abaninzi bagxile kumanqaku amabi ohlobo lwendoda yabo, ukuthoba izibonelelo ezibalulekileyo zobuntu bakhe. Kunqabile ukuba umntu anyamezele ingcikivo kunye nengxoxo yakho kwi-minus yakhe. Akufanele umangaliswe ukuba uza kuqalisa ukuhamba kwexesha. Tshintshela ingqalelo kumacala ayo afanelekileyo, unesibindi sakhe - indoda ayisayi kumshiya umfazi onokuphakamisa umoya wakhe.