Uninzi lwethu, ubudlelwane apho umntu okhoyo akamkelekanga. Nangona kunjalo, ngoku kukho izibini ezitshatileyo ezingakhange zixhase nje iqabane lomphefumlo kwi-adveres yakhe yothando, kodwa linegalelo koku. Olu hlobo lwesinamathiselo lubizwa ngokuba yiPolyamomia. Yintoni kwaye le nto inayiphi na le meko inamachaphaza kwaye sine-Cons, siya kujonga ngakumbi.
Awunakuqonda kufutshane
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Emele i-polyamoria
I-polyamiamoria ibizwa ngokuba luthando okanye uthando lomntu kubantu abaninzi, ukungakwazi kuhlala kunxulumene noxanduva lomntu omnye. Nangona kunjalo, inxibelelana kancinci nengqumbo, kuba iqabane lesibini lazi kakuhle izinto zokuzonwabisa zaza kwaye liyixhasa koku.
Abalandeli bakaPolyamoria bagatya zonke iingxoxo malunga nento yokuba usapho olonwabileyo lunokubakho kuphela ngokobunyani beMonogamy. Kwaye ukuba isithembu singavumelekanga kumazwe amaninzi, i-polyamoria ayilawulwa ngumthetho. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, akukho mntu unokunciphisa umda ilungelo lomntu lokuthanda nokudibana namaqabane aliqela.
Ikhonkco elinjalo alinayo iinjongo nje zesondo, kodwa inothando ngakumbi.
Ngokunyaniseka, obu budlelwane obunjalo kunzima kakhulu ukugqiba kwelokuba kuthiwe kuluntu lwethu olulondolozayo, kuba indlela yokuphendula yabathandekayo kunye nabahlobo baya kulindelwa.
Oku akuthathelwa ingqalelo umbuso
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Zithini izibonelelo zePolulamoria
Njengoko sisazi, uninzi lobudlelwane lutshata ukuba elinye lamaqabane liyadiliza. I-Poyamoria yenza ukuba ikwazi ukuphazamisa umntu ngamnye kunye nokuhlaziya "iimvakalelo. Ukusukela kwisiqingatha sesibini sinolwazi lobuhlobo phakathi kweqabane lakho, ayifanelanga nemifanekiso yobukhwele, kwaye ke umsantsa emhlabeni womona awuzange usongele olu lwalamano.
Ukongeza, isondo kule ntlonelo kuninzi ngakumbi, njengoko amaqabane efumana amava ecaleni kwaye abelane nabo.
I-Polyamiamoria inemizuzu emininzi
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Kwaye zithini?
Eyona sus ibaluleke kakhulu yintlalo. Oko kukuthi, uza kusabela njani ungqongqo njani. Ukuba awoyiki ukuba ungaqondakali, ungazama, kodwa ngokuxhomekeka ekubeni iqabane lakho liya kukuxhasa.
Okwesibini thabatha, kunokuba, unxulumene nabasetyhini: I-polyamoria iyingenelo ngakumbi kwindoda. Kwisiqingatha esiqinileyo, ngesiqhelo sifumana usapho emva kweminyaka engama-40, ngelixa ibhinqa linqweneleka ukuba libe nexesha lokuzala kweli xesha inomntwana omnye, kuba inkqubo yayo yokuzala inexesha layo.