Kune vazhinji vedu, hukama umo mumwe munhu aripo anongova zvisingagamuchiriki. Nekudaro, iko zvino kune vakawanda uye vakawanda vakaroora vasingori vatsigire mweya wemurume murudo rwake, asiwo muponese kune izvi. Rudzi urwu rwechibvumirano chinonzi Polyiamoria. Chii icho uye kuti chiitiko ichi chine pluses uye zvikarukwana, ticharatidzika zvimwe.
Iwe unogona kunge usinzwisise padyo
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Iyo inomiririra polyamoria
Iyo Polyiamoria inonzi rudo kana rudo rwemunhu kune vanhu vakati wandei, kusakwanisa kuramba kwakabatana zvine chekuita nemunhu mumwe chete. Zvakangodaro, zvishoma zvakabatana neyekupasirwa, nekuti wechipiri wacho anoziva zvakanyatso kuita zvekusavimbika uye anoitsigira mune izvi.
Vateveri vePolyamoria vanoramba nharo dzese pamusoro penyaya yekuti mhuri inofara inogona kuvapo chete maererano naMonotomy. Uye kana barika richirambidzwa munyika zhinji, polyamoria harina kudzidziswa nemutemo. Kupfuura zvese, hapana munhu anogona kudzikamisa kodzero yemunhu yekuda uye kusangana nevanoverengeka.
Icho chinongedzo chakadaro hachina kungoita zvebonde, asi zvakanyanya kudanana.
Nenzira nokutendeka, hukama hwakadaro hwakaoma kusarudza mumagariro edu anochengetedza, nekuti zvakaitwa nevadiwa uye shamwari zvichange zvichitarisirwa.
Izvi hazviratidzwi kutorwa
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Ndezvipi zvakanakira polyamoria
Sezvatinoziva, vazhinji vehukama vanozvidza kana mumwe wevakaroorana achizotemesa. Iyo polyamoria inoita kuti ikwanise kukanganisa munhu mumwe nemumwe uye "zorodza" manzwiro. Sezvo hafu yechipiri inoziva nezvehukama huripo pakati pomumwe wako, hazvina kukodzera maficha ehove, saka musana pane ivhu regodo hahutsanangure hukama uhu.
Mukuwedzera, kurara nevanhu kwakadaro kwakasiyana-siyana, sevakaroorana vari kuwana ruzivo parutivi uye vanozvigovana nevamwe vese.
Polyiamoria ane akawanda emabhuru
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Uye chii chiri kuitira?
Iyo inonyanya kukosha minus ndeye munharaunda. Nenzira iyoyo, kutenderedza kwako kuchaita sei. Kana usiri kutya kusanzwisisika, unogona kuedza, asi chero kuti mumwe wako akutsigire.
Wechipiri Minus, panzvimbo pezvo, anorondedzera kuvakadzi: polyamoria inobatsira zvakanyanya kumurume. Kune imwe hafu yakasimba, kazhinji inowanzowana mhuri mushure memakore makumi mana, nepo mukadzi achidikanwa kuve nenguva yekubereka zera rino kana mwana wavo kubereka ane nguva yayo.