Paunenge uchitaura nezvehunyanzvi hwekutora, zvinomiririra varume vanogona kusvika uye vanyengerera chero musikana, asi hazvina kudaro. Kune zvakare mukadzi wechikadzi, uye makosi ekunyengerera evakadzi anofarira kusanyanyozivikanwa kupfuura varume. Isu tichazotaura kuti ndezvipi mitemo inofanira kuomerera kukwezva kutarisa kweanenge chero murume.
Chitarisiko
Paunenge uchinge wafunga pachinhu chechishuwo chako, unogona kutanga nhanho yekutanga, kureva kuti ugadzire mufananidzo unonyengera. Ehezve, win-win vhezheni chipfeko, yakakwira zvidhori uye nebvudzi rakanakisa rekuvhunduka, asi nzira iyi ichakwezva murume chete husiku hwakati wandei, kana zvimwe. Kana paine hukama hwakatemerwa kwenguva refu, haufanire kuita kunge uya wausiri: varume nekukurumidza "zvizaruka" uye nekukuodza moyo. Zvakanaka kusimbisa yako zvakanakira ruzivo, kwete kukuvadza kwenyaradzo yako: Tora shangu dzechikadzi pane chitsitsinho chakaderera, icho chinozopa kukonzeresa uye kuita kuti zviitwe zvaunotadzisa heminine.
Kusarudza chipfeko, kunyatso svina nezvinhu uye kushongedza, izvo zvinosanganiswa nenzira iyi - ipa mabhegi ezvinyorwa uye hanzi. Iwe unofanirwa kuburitsa famininity, uye kuoneka chete zvinokubatsira kuti uwane mumood.
Ratidza iwe uine sarudzo
Photo: www.uncaplash.com.
Gadzirisa
Varume vanoshivirira haigoni kuve nzvimbo yakashata yemazwi pachiso chake, kunyanya kana tiri kutaura nezvezuva kugadzira-up. Shandisa mari shoma yekusimbisa kukosha uye usagara pane zvikanganiso. Usati wabva ku "kuvhima" zvakanakisa bvunzo madhiri pamberi pekuvimba mukupokana kwayo.
Chii chinotevera?
Mushure mekuunganidzwa neMweya uye akagara pasi nemusikana ari mubhawa iwe, unogona kutanga kutsvaga mumwe angangoita mumwe wako. Mutambo wokuona wakabatana pano. Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti - murume anofanira kuteerera kwauri, uye izvi hazvireve uye "kupfura nemeso." Kana murume achinge atarisa kwauri, iwe haufanire kuratidza kuti unofarira, unogona kunyange kunhuhwirira nemumwe murume kuti upe kunzwisisa - une sarudzo kana yekukundikana. Semutemo, mumamiriro ezvinhu aya mumunhu anomuka mweya wekukwikwidzana uye anofunga basa rake kuti ajaire mukadzi anokwezva kudaro.
Akauya. Iwe unogona kukukorokotedza nehanya diki. Zvino chinhu chikuru hachisi chekufambisa chinhu chishuwo. Rangarira kuti zvakanyanya kukosha - kugara muchikadzi, uye izvi haumwi doro rakanyanya kusimba, usapika nemate uye usaseka mukamuri rese. Chimwe chikanganiso chikuru chinoita kuti murume aitsvaga nzira yekudzokera - kunyunyuta nezvehupenyu. Mudiki pane wese wako waunoda kujairana anoda kuziva nezvezvikwereti zvako nematambudziko nehama.
Usanwa zvakanyanya
Photo: www.uncaplash.com.
Munguva yekukurukurirana, iwe haugone kubata iyo yakavhurika chikamu chemuviri. Asi zviite nokungwarira. Kazhinji, iva nekuchenjera uye udzorere, teerera kune iyo proclocutor uye usataure zvakawandisa kuti murume ada kukuziva iwe zviri nani, uye izvi iwe unofanirwa kusangana zvakare. Paunouya pamwe kana iwe uchati zvakanaka kune mumwe munhu waunoziva, ratidza kunetseka zvishoma: anenge murume chero upi zvake haazombofi asina hanya pakubata kwako. Kuti uite izvi, iwe unogona kusarudzika kururamisa kusunga kwake kana scarf. Aya madiki madiki anoiswa mundangariro.
Kana zvese zvikaitika uye akataura kuti iwe unotasva kana kutakura - iwe unogona kukukomborera ne kukunda.