Ijambo ryiza "gutsinda." Igihe kingana iki dutekereza ko umuntu atsinze kandi asabwa. Ni bangahe mu byiyumvo byawe n'ibitekerezo dushora imari mubyo bishobora gusobanura kuri twe. Nkuko ushaka gutsinda no kwishima. Nibyo, ndashaka kandi ko abandi bashima kandi, birashoboka ko ibyo aribyo. Ntekereza rero ko gutsinda ari ubucuruzi kubushake nubuntu. Intsinzi yawe ni uko abantu bose bagena ubwabyo. Kubwibyo, ni ngombwa kwigaragaza wowe ubwawe Niki watsinze. Ahari aya mafranga, birashoboka ko uyu ari umuryango, birashoboka ko ibi ni byo byagezweho cyangwa abana, abana benshi ... Urutonde rushobora gukurikiranwa igihe kirekire, kuberako hari icyo ageraho. Kubwibyo, turangije: "Intsinzi ni ikintu ku giti cye, kandi mbere yuko ishaka kuyishakisha, ni ngombwa gusobanukirwa ico kuri njye."
Ubuzima no kwidagadura. Inkunga y'abakunzi.
Urashobora, birumvikana ko watsinze muri byose, ariko, nkuko imyitozo ikabye, noneho hagomba kubaho ibihe byihariye. Gushyigikira no kwemeza ababo, icyifuzo cyabo cyo kubana nawe mubyo ukora byose, kandi ukumva ko intsinzi yawe ishobora kuba ingirakamaro kuri bo. Kukwizera kutagushakaho. Kandi ikizere muri wewe. Ariko akenshi bibaho ko ibintu byose bisa nkibintu byose kandi bisa nkaho ari byiza, ariko ahantu hose bikarishye amabuye yo kutanyurwa cyangwa kutanyurwa. Ahari kuko muminsi 24 gusa amasaha 24 gusa, kandi ntibishoboka rwose. Imbaraga zawe zirashobora kuzana. Kugirango ibyo byose bitareba bihebye cyane, bakuramo amatafa ya kabiri: "Witondere ubuzima bwawe."
Mugire umwanya wo kuruhuka. Tekereza uburyo nigihe ushaka kubikora. Ahari wenyine. Cyangwa wenda hamwe nabakunzi. Cyangwa ahari muri sosiyete nini. Ikiruhuko kuri wewe. Umutwe wo kuganira nabakunzi bawe kuri wewe, kuri wewe, kubyerekeye ibiruhuko byawe.
Emera gutsinda. Ushobora kumva indangagaciro zawe, ibyo wifuza.
Niba formula yayo ya mbere ibonetse, noneho tujya kure. Amaze kwiyemeza icyo ari cyo gutsinda, ashyira intego nyayo mu rwego rwo kwemeza inkunga y'abakunzi no kuvura ubuzima bwawe no kuruhuka, ubungubu, icy'ingenzi ni ukugira ubushobozi bwo gutsinda. Ihe umwanzuro w'imbere. Kenshi na kenshi hari ko tuzi neza muburyo bwinshi tuvuye ku cyifuzo cyo gukunda ababyeyi, hafi, abana, inshuti, abo dukorana. Ntabwo ari ku mwanya wo ku mwanya "Ndashaka kandi menya uburyo", ariko ku mwanya "Nzabikunda, bazabona, bazashima," bityo, ni ngombwa hano kwiyemerera gutsinda kubwubutsinzi yo gutsinda, kubwawe wenyine. Gereranya intege nke n'imbaraga zawe. Intege nke zo gukomera, no gukomera - ndetse neza no gushimangira. Umva indangagaciro zawe, ibyo wifuza. Ube umwimerere wenyine. Imiterere ye. Niba byemewe, hanyuma ukomeze intambwe ikurikira.
Shakisha inzozi zawe. Igikorwa, Urukurikirane nibyishimo muribintu.
Kugira ngo utihutira gusa gushakisha intsinzi, ukeneye inzozi nini kugirango uhindure umuto. Ariko ubanza ukeneye kubibona. Inzozi ze. Kugira ngo ukore ibi, ugomba kwishyura umwanya kuri we - kugirango ugaruke. Ni uwawe. Kandi gusa uzi uko bishoboka. Azakubwira aho wajya. Gusa mugihe cyimuka, birashoboka kandi igomba kugabanuka. No kuba ikintu cyukuri. Nyuma yigihe runaka yongeye gukura. We ni inzozi - ugomba gukora intambwe nto. No kubikora hamwe nibikorwa bikwiye, guhora kubara intambwe zabo imbere kandi ntukibagirwe uburyo inzira ishimishije.
Nzatanga urugero. Birashoboka ko ubu bigoye kwiyumvisha ko bishoboka gukorana umunezero, ufite ubuhanga bukwiye, burigihe ukora imirimo mito yashizweho, mugihe bikabije byoherejwe nibisubizo byanyuma kandi bikabe umunezero Ukurikije ibyo wumva kandi ukore.
Kurenza uburambe bwabandi. Niki cyakozwe mbere yuko uba umukozi wawe numufasha.
Gusa urashobora kugira ingaruka kubejo hazaza. Imyitwarire yuyu munsi, ibikorwa bisobanura ejo hazaza hawe. Ntukibagirwe. Kubwibyo, kuba mu gihe kizaza, hano none kandi ubu wubake. Witondere uburambe bwabandi, uzapfa kandi usesengure uburambe bwundi bwatsindiye hamwe namakosa yabandi no gutsindwa. Witondere kwifashisha ubushobozi bwawe no kwigarurira imbere. Bibaho ko bisa nkaho haribitsinzi byundi kandi bisa nkaho bisobanutse neza uko - ariko kubwimpamvu runaka ntabwo ikora. Hanyuma, birashoboka ko bikwiye gutekereza, he kandi ni ikihe cyiciro wahagaritse?
Uru ruhererekane ni ubushake. N'ubundi kandi, twese turi umuntu ku giti cye kandi ni umwihariko mu kidasanzwe. Kubwibyo, inzira yo gutsinda iratandukanye.