Kuva aho uruhinja rwanditse umwana ruhinduka mu buryo bwikora, ni ukuvuga, guhangana n'imiterere ishushanyije, isanga uburyo bwo kwigaragaza binyuze mu guhindura icyitegererezo cy'imyandikire kandi yerekana umwirondoro wacyo. Ibi bidufasha gukurikira inzira yose yakuze kuva mu bwana kugirango irangize ingimbi - imyaka yishuri, imyaka yishuri yagenwe - kandi yumve ibibazo byamarangamutima - kandi yumve ibibazo byamarangamutima, urwego rwo kwisuzuma kandi Ibibazo byose byubwihindurize bishobora kuba hagati, kunanirwa no gusubira inyuma.
Umubano hagati ya nyina n'umwana watangiriye neza ibaruwa; Byaba byari byiza cyangwa bitenguha, manipulative, symbiotic, bigira ingaruka. Umubano na Data cyangwa, muri rusange, ufite ishusho, uhindura ubutware mumuryango, kandi, amaherezo, imbaraga zubucuti nurwego rwo hanze nazo zigaragarira murugero rwabaruwa. Biroroshye kandi kubona niba ibidukikije byuburezi ari ibijyanye no guhuza nayo, cyangwa bivuguruzanya kandi biteye urujijo. Umubano Wonyine n'umubiri wabo ushyirwaho kuri iyi mibanire: umubano na nyina ugaragaza ibibera hamwe numuntu, nubusabane numubiri bikaba ari ukuri kuri ibi hamwe nukuri hanze - naho ubundi. Ubusabane nk'ubwo bugira ingaruka.
Isesengura ryintoki zirashobora gukorwa mugihe urujya n'uruza rw'umwana ruhinduka mu buryo bwikora
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Ibintu byambere kandi byingenzi nizo umwana yakira afite ishusho ya nyina, kandi bagize ishingiro kandi bukabye kamere ye; Ni ngombwa cyane kumenya kumva umutekano ujyanye n'ubuzima cyangwa, mu buryo bunyuranye, kugira ngo batere impungenge. Ubu ni uburambe bukomeye kandi bukomeye hamwe nimpande z'umubiri n'amarangamutima, nkuko umubiri n'amarangamutima bishyirwa ku ikarita hamwe na nyina, kandi umwana ntabwo yumva akunzwe niba atangiritse bihagije. Isano nishusho ya Data yashyizwe nyuma kandi yongera imico ye, ducuranga uruhare rwibintu ya Data, uruhare rwiza kandi rushinzwe kugenzura Data.
Gushyikirana na babyeyi bizabyara bizakorwa mu nyandiko, cyane cyane muri zone hagati, uhereye ku nyuguti nto; Uwo ari we muri zone yo hejuru aho dushobora gushyira ego nziza na super ego, ni ukuvuga ingero zifatika kandi zimyitwarire umwana yagenewe kubaha no kurema wenyine. Kubwibyo, umurambo wa Shebuja wa zone yo hepfo muburyo bwo mumitekerereze nisi y'ababyeyi bo mubyababayeho amarangamutima; Urufatiro rwarwo, abakozi, rugereranya umubano wumubiri, wihariye na nyina, uburambe bwumubiri.
Kumenya urwego rwo gukura rwageze kumwana cyangwa umuhungu, tubishoboye, nibiba ngombwa, tugakora inama zikwiye zo gukosora amashuri cyangwa amakosa yindwara; Mubyukuri, tuvuye gusuzuma ibaruwa, ntabwo tubona ubuzima bwo mumutwe gusa, ariko turashobora kandi gusubira mumpamvu kutitonda n'imibabaro byamuteye - nko mu buvuzi, aho syndrome yerekana no gusuzuma indwara runaka.
Isesengura ry'urwandiko nigikoresho cyemewe cyo gusuzuma
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Duhereye ku rwandiko, turashobora kandi kubona uburyo imibonano mpuzabitsina ikura, ikwiye kuvuga uburyo iterambere rya psychosexional rituruka mu mutwe - ryiza cyangwa hamwe nihungabana. Imwe igaragara ko umunezero cyangwa ubwoba bwo kuba hafi yundi, ubushobozi no kugerwaho kubijyanye no gutumanaho no mu magambo, ndetse no guhuza umubiri. Irashaka neza uburyo ibiranga abagabo nabagore bitangwa muri kamere; Hashobora kubaho ibibazo by'abagore (hamwe na phallus intege nke) n'abakobwa bitangaje (urugero, amazon), haba muri kamere n'imiterere yimyitwarire.
Biroroshye kugenzura, mubindi, niba umusore yegamiye kwemerwa kubaho kwe, cyangwa yinjiye mu isi ye y'imbere, cyangwa abaho "hanze y'isi"; Niba ahujwe cyane na nyina w'ababyeyi cyangwa yigenga kandi yigenga; Niba ashishikajwe no kugerwaho muri sosiyete muri rusange, cyangwa ahubwo, yibanze ku kubaho kwigenga; Niba yagiye mwishuri kugirango yiga Kera - bivuze, yiga kandi kwiga - cyangwa yuzuze ibitekerezo gusa; Niba afite ibyiringiro by'ejo hazaza cyangwa yatinze kera.
Nibyiza kwibuka ko kuva mumuryango bigoye cyane gusuzuma neza uko imitekerereze yabanyamuryango kugiti cyabo. Noneho biza gufasha isesengura ryurubuga, kwisanga hamwe nigikoresho cyemewe cyo gusuzuma nacyo kirimo ibisubizo bishoboye niba bishyirwa mubikorwa rwose, ukureho imikorere mibi, gukuraho DysFunctions.