"Byabaye rero - wagombaga kurokoka ubutane. Ni ikihe kintu cy'ingenzi muri ibi bihe? Ahari gukora akazi kumakosa - ntabwo ari bibi cyane mubucuti bwawe bwabanje. Akenshi ibirundo bidakemuwe mubukwe bwa mbere bwibibazo byakuruye umufatanyabikorwa mubwa kabiri, kandi byose ni ikarishye cyane. Umuhanga agira ati: "Birumvikana ko sinshaka kwigira ku makosa yawe mu bushakashatsi bwa kabiri, bityo imyanzuro irutabwo ari byiza gukora nyuma ya byose mbere."
Nigute warokoka gutandukana
Mbere ya byose, nta byiyumvo n'amarangamutima yakuzura mu ishyingiranwa no gutandukana. Hitamo hamwe nuwahoze ari mugenzi wawe, ibintu byose bijyanye nubufasha bwamafaranga, imiturire, umutungo ugaragara. Gusa nyuma yamarangamutima mabi akomeza kubandi mubuzima bwawe nibibazo byose bizakemurwa, urashobora kugenda ugana mubucuti bushya.
Birakenewe kumva icyarakaye mumufatanyabikorwa, jya menya umubano ushaka. Birashoboka gukora igishushanyo runaka cyumuntu kibereye neza kandi ubishakishe.
Elena Starokhana
Nigute watangira umubano mushya
Fungura kandi unyangamugayo hamwe nabashobora gufatanya. Ahari mu gusetsa kubyerekeye ko ufite itariki asa nububabare, gusa urwenya. Niba ushaka umuntu ushaka kubaho ubuzima bwawe bwose, reba akitwara, ibyo avuga, gerageza kumva icy'ingenzi kuri we.
Witange nigihe gito cyo kumenyana neza. Ntabwo ari ngombwa kwihutira mumibanire mishya nko muri Ohwow hamwe numutwe wawe.
Bikwiye amahame yo guturamo: imari, abana basanzwe, nibindi. Abantu bakuze bakuze bagomba gutanga raporo kubyo bashaka kandi ntibakunda imyitwarire yumufasha.
Mu mibanire mishya ntahantu ho guhuriza hamwe kubafatanyabikorwa babanjirije - abazimu rya kahise barashobora gusenya umuzi wikintu gishya kandi cyiza. Ntibishoboka kugereranya no kuvuga ko uwahoze ari umugore yakoze neza cyangwa abagome. Uwahoze ari - ibi ni muburyo bwa kirazira: urashobora kubivugaho rimwe kandi byiza kutibuka kugirango utagihungabanye ikizere.
Erekana guhinduka no gutemambere - umubano ukeneye gutandukana, kumvikana kurindi, kwitegura impinduka nimiryango yintego nintego.
Ngombwa
Hitamo umufatanyabikorwa, uzirikana uburyo ushobora kubana neza. Kugira ngo umenye neza ko utanyuzwe, ubuzima bwanjye bwose ntibuzakora - muriki gihe, uzategereza ubundi buryo butengushye kandi, nk'amahitamo, ubundi gutandukana.